OK. There are also heterosexuals who are either for or against adoption too. My mom and stepdad adopted my two sisters. My mom's parents would not accept my sisters as part of the family because they didn't believe in adoption and because they weren't blood relatives. As you might guess, this caused a huge riff between my mom and her parents.
It would be interesting to know why folks are either for or against adoption, both when it involves heterosexual or homosexual parents. It seems to me there are a lot of kids growing up in orphanages that would be better off having parents, either gay or straight. But, you will likely think I am biased about this.
Adopting children isn't bad at all, it's completely normal imo, nothing strange or weird about that. My cusine couldn't have a child with her wife, but they did try. They adopted a child from china, who would've thought. And guess what, the child looks exactly like her parents
. There is more than flesh and blood involved in adoption.
So I have seen and heard about this and I have it in my very family. And that wasn't the only case either.
However, when we talk about gay couples I think it's just plain wrong. A child needs mother AND father, not father and father who are not heterosexual.
One can debate that homosexuality accures in the nature and is normal or whatever. But it's not normal or natural to raise a child by gay couples period.
If a child is heterosexual and is raised by gay parents it's just wrong, I shouldn't even have to explain why it's wrong, the "wrong" part should be right there.
Call me old fasioned, but I think these things shouldn't change in society, just like beastility and sodomy being leagal in the u.s army is just fucking sick, it's like in the days of sodom and gommorah when people didn't have any deceancy and were acting like complete maggots. I don't worry at all if ww3 would go all out with a nuclear devastation, this planet needs something to slap people in the face and wake them up from this satanist/agnostic dream they are in, that "nothing matters, you can do whatever you want".
But, I'm not so black and white. I think if a gay couple is impartial, and have deceancy and realise that this is a very big deal because they are father and father, but they are gay, so they will have an impact to the child when the child is growing.
If they do it wrong the child will get very unbalanced imo, because I just can't see a child growing as a child should by complete gay influence. The gay parents then should have responsibility and show the child as the world should be.
Maby the child could grow very straight without any identity crysis ever, but I just think it's unlikely. And in todays society when people lose their minds doesn't matter gay or straight or rich or famous or normal, we don't need any more of this freaky stuff being leagalized.
