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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #100 on: January 18, 2012, 11:53:56 PM »
every relationship is based on trust respect and love.

monogomy, prohibiting your loved one from loving others, and vice versa, is a relationship designed to make the two who partake feel special, better than everyone else. your partner neither needs nor wants anyone else but you.

depends on what you mean by single. very few people want to live alone, spend their life by their lonesome. we all want a partner, someone or people to spend our life with, to come home to, wake up with.  but that doesnt mean you have to isolate your sexual being and sexual love from other people. its not necessary to isolate your partner either.


i like monogomy, i like feeling special, but i do so knowing full well that such a relationship is based on posessiveness, jealousy, insecurity, and immaturity. 

a non possessive, unjealous, secure, and mature person would not want to isolate themself or their partner from other people, in any way shape or form. they would be happy to see their partner forming other loving relationships, and take pride in being with someone that others wanted to sex.

absolute crock of shit, not many guys want to see their girl shagged my some random douchebag

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #101 on: January 18, 2012, 11:55:51 PM »
true. can't be overlooked, instant repelling despite hotness

Very true- -smell is important. Got me into a situation I never thought I´d experience. I was dating this beautiful woman, her sex-drive was increasing steadily. In the end, she was horny all the time. I have always been the one with the highest sex drive in my relationships, but things started to go wrong with her.

There was always this faint smell with her that I did not like. Some body odour and breath smell. Not directly bad, but something ... hmm "organic" and unpleasent. Hard to define, but definitely something I never enjoyed. I loved the way my previous girlfriend smelled, but this...

Anyway, I started to notice this smell more and more, and I started to get repulsed by it, and as a consequence, by her. I started rejecting her in bed ;-/. Incredible but true- never happened before to me. And, mind you, this was a beautiful woman. As a result, the relationship spiraled towards the end. To be honest, she was a bit unstable as well ;-) and did not take rejection well.

But, smells are powerful emotional signals. The olfactory (smell) cortex in the brain is directly adjacent to structures in the "reptile" brain- the limbic system and thus may be the most emotionally important sensory function.

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #102 on: January 19, 2012, 05:40:21 AM »
every relationship is based on trust respect and love.

monogomy, prohibiting your loved one from loving others, and vice versa, is a relationship designed to make the two who partake feel special, better than everyone else. your partner neither needs nor wants anyone else but you.

depends on what you mean by single. very few people want to live alone, spend their life by their lonesome. we all want a partner, someone or people to spend our life with, to come home to, wake up with.  but that doesnt mean you have to isolate your sexual being and sexual love from other people. its not necessary to isolate your partner either.


i like monogomy, i like feeling special, but i do so knowing full well that such a relationship is based on posessiveness, jealousy, insecurity, and immaturity. 

a non possessive, unjealous, secure, and mature person would not want to isolate themself or their partner from other people, in any way shape or form. they would be happy to see their partner forming other loving relationships, and take pride in being with someone that others wanted to sex.
i think that´s bullshit...
if i really love a woman , i do not want some other dude putting his hands on my woman....
possesive? hell yeah! she chose to be with me and vice versa..... if you want to fuck around and have threeways or orgies... stay single or just have an open relationship...
i have had woman that i did not really love, i just liked them a lot lol.. i had threeways, partied with these woman... a lot of fun... but if you really , really love a woman.... you want her for yourself....
and i am not possesive at all in a relationship. i just expect honesty.
i am not someone's owner..... she chose to be with me, when she does so i expect her to be with me and only me.... i in return will do all it takes to keep her interested in me.
if she chooses not to be with me anymore.... well just be honest and talk about it....
fucking around is fun, but there comes a time when a man wants a real woman by his side....your are still very young... lol.. so fuck around a little more....  ;D ;D
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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #103 on: January 20, 2012, 05:40:03 AM »
1-saggy long tits(down to her belly).
2-not wearing a damn bra
3-out of shape.
4-fighting at work.



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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #104 on: January 20, 2012, 06:30:58 AM »
  Kids. I don't want any.

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #105 on: January 20, 2012, 09:20:09 AM »
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VERY TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #106 on: January 20, 2012, 09:24:42 AM »

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #107 on: January 20, 2012, 09:30:53 AM »
Kids
Mudshark
Smoking
Stupid
No class
Super christian
Ugly hair
Excessive tattoos or any chest tattoo

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #108 on: January 20, 2012, 01:18:56 PM »
X2
Noticed this quite a few times...you're very anti-kids. Or is it just about dating girls who have kids ?

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #109 on: January 20, 2012, 07:00:22 PM »
Noticed this quite a few times...you're very anti-kids. Or is it just about dating girls who have kids ?

No, I'm certainly not "anti-kids" in general. I had good dates with moms, but relationships are another story. It simply won't work for me. When I'm with a nice women, I'd like to sleep out, forget the time, focus on each other, not too much planning things to do... Damn, it's hard to "find" a nice woman without kids on my age  :-\
I remember your joke about being a granddad, but how many you have and how old?

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #110 on: January 20, 2012, 07:10:50 PM »
No, I'm certainly not "anti-kids" in general. I had good dates with moms, but relationships are another story. It simply won't work for me. When I'm with a nice women, I'd like to sleep out, forget the time, focus on each other, not too much planning things to do... Damn, it's hard to "find" a nice woman without kids on my age  :-\
I remember your joke about being a granddad, but how many you have and how old?
kids are no reason not to sleep out, forget the time, and focus on each other bro....!
just takes a little timing.
 ;)

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #111 on: January 20, 2012, 07:25:22 PM »
kids are no reason not to sleep out, forget the time, and focus on each other bro....!
just takes a little timing.
 ;)



Call it timing or planning, the main problem with kids in a relationship, I experienced, was the loss of spontaneity and freedom. Props for all those parents who can manage this. Yes, I have bad genetics when it comes to planning  ;D

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #112 on: January 23, 2012, 04:58:46 AM »
Not anti kids .... But if the kid is taller than me.... It's kind of a deal breaker.

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #113 on: January 23, 2012, 05:04:33 AM »
Not anti kids .... But if the kid is taller than me.... It's kind of a deal breaker.

hahaha, you have problems
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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #114 on: January 23, 2012, 05:11:29 AM »
Noticed this quite a few times...you're very anti-kids. Or is it just about dating girls who have kids ?
ask him if his parents loved him and if they re still together first... then you ll connect the dots...

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #115 on: January 23, 2012, 05:15:57 AM »
Mine is perfect.  :) ;D ;D

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #116 on: January 23, 2012, 05:31:54 AM »
1- Her ex is in prison 3 years and almost out. (Thanks but no thanks)

2-Likes to smoke WEED EVEN WHEN SHE GOES OUT LADIES NIGHT.. (The Fuck out of my way)

3-Bipolar...  (one almots drove me crazy)

4-Takes pride on using her GHETO talk.

5- Tattoos too big or near vagina area (sadly Ive been really atttracted to 2 hoes who thought that was "the shit")

6-Sleeps with cats and dogs or any other pet in bed .

7-Likes to go out in pjs.

8-Has More than one kid

9-Has dated every single race known to humanity...(I'm latino)

10- she's done coke ,threesomes but according to her "those days are behind her"

11-Has had Boobs reduction (i know is a weird one but a deal breaker in my book)



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Excellent list.

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #117 on: January 23, 2012, 06:07:51 AM »
if she does not know how to mix a good post-workout protein drink.

if she does not know most 1990s Mr. Olympia top 10 finishers

if she can't do a decent photoshop

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #118 on: January 23, 2012, 07:22:29 AM »
I have been happily married for quite some time, but when I was single, the #1 deal breaker for me was if a woman suffered from depression.
If I found out that a girl was taking any depression medication, it was a done deal.
I had dated a very beautiful girl who had been prescribed Lexapro by a general practitioner.  First of all, a GP shouldn't be prescribing that shit for the long term.  Secondly, once someone is on that shit, it is difficult as hell to ween them off, and the withdrawal is a bitch.

A doctor friend of mine, whom I trust, told me to run, not walk the other way, when dealing with a woman who was depressed.

Speaking of Lexapro,  I did go out with a chick that didnt want to admit she suffered from depression but was taking some weird shit maybe Lexaprol...when she was off them, she will ignore my calls for days saying that she was just having a very day (week) very hard to read her or even know what was going on inside her head....

Very stresssful to deal with, I did try though :(


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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #119 on: January 23, 2012, 07:26:16 AM »
Back in the day , if she called me more than twice in 1 day.

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #120 on: January 23, 2012, 09:36:07 AM »
Back in the day , if she called me more than twice in 1 day.

The modern version of that is posting "I love you!" on fb wall ..... 3 weeks after you met.

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #121 on: January 23, 2012, 10:12:37 AM »
Pointy elbows.

Also a black ex. Once you go black we don't want you back.
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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #122 on: January 23, 2012, 11:31:00 AM »
ask him if his parents loved him and if they re still together first... then you ll connect the dots...

If it's your question, be a man, and ask it straight to me.
I have/understand my reasons, and that's what matters.

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #123 on: January 23, 2012, 11:34:56 AM »
Leave DP be, ubersturmbannführer...

And btw, DP, I never stated I got children....   ???

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Re: What's your "Deal Breaker"?
« Reply #124 on: January 23, 2012, 11:45:10 AM »
Leave DP be, ubersturmbannführer...

And btw, DP, I never stated I got children....   ???

People like Uberman are good for this forum; we need different views.

You joked about being granddad, so I thought you had kids.
In case you don't want to disclose this, I respect that.