thanksgiving dinner. your ex-wife is there. she brought her new man.
not only is he 5 years younger than you, but he also has a full head of hair, a better job, plenty of muscles, and dimples.
you know everyone in the room is looking at him thinking 'wow, she totally upgraded on that getbigger's ass".
So, you devote as little attention to the new guy as possible. You aren't going to include him in conversation, as he will tell you about his time in the peace corps then special forces, followed by the time he savedd a dozen orphans from a burning school bus. That new guy you hate - who outshines you in every way - that is Ron Paul.