Do getbiggers on average want or not want children?

[da_vinci]

Replay what  ,

 I always tell my friends ,do not have kids if you aren't ready for them ,no having kids it means just that , you don't have kids .

I mean - you say you had no responsibilities, no job, no nothing.. it sounds like you were just a lazy bastard with no goals in life (I'm just assuming, correct me if I'm wrong). And since you've had a kid all your life got a whole new meaning (so now you do all that stuff with your kid that you didn't do before).
 That was just an idea for the sake of discussion, anyway, best of luck on raising your kid not to be another dumb piece of shit this world is so full of.

[Army of One]

She sits in the park. Her clothes are out of date.
Two children whine and bicker, tug her skirt.
A third draws aimless patterns in the dirt
Someone she loved once passed by – too late

to feign indifference to that casual nod.
“How nice” et cetera. “Time holds great surprises.”
From his neat head unquestionably rises
a small balloon…”but for the grace of God…”

They stand a while in flickering light, rehearsing
the children’s names and birthdays. “It’s so sweet
to hear their chatter, watch them grow and thrive, ”
she says to his departing smile. Then, nursing
the youngest child, sits staring at her feet.
To the wind she says, “They have eaten me alive.”

[Stavios]

I would maybe have kids if my woman wanted to stay home to raise him

but she won't, and my children won't be raised by fucking 18 years old working at the daycare that's for sure

[Army of One]

"A really good question, Jamel. And you aren’t the first one to pose it to a columnist. Back in 1975, a young couple on the fence about parenthood wrote to Ann Landers for advice about whether to have kids. So Ann asked her readers: “If you had it to do over again, would you have children?” Thousands responded, and the results were stunning: 70 percent were broken, bitter parents who said, “No way.”"

[dustin]

I would maybe have kids if my woman wanted to stay home to raise him

but she won't, and my children won't be raised by fucking 18 years old working at the daycare that's for sure

Hey dude, guess how much that shit costs here on the West Coast? Around a fucking THOUSAND dollars a month.

Yep, some high school drop-out can go to college and pass the classes they failed, get their grade 12 equivalence and take a shitty few month course and get in a daycare. My coworkers were talking about that shit and it usually costs the same as their rent. I can't fucking believe it. Glad I have family that will watch my kids.

[reppingfor20]

I'd say not having them because you want to play around all your life is more selfish.
It's not the most selfish thing because it's a responsibility! The first world is not even producing enough children to survive because of attitudes like yours.
Grown men that want to play around with their toys all their lives and let the refuse inherit the greatness their ancestors created. Spin it how you want. It's effete.

No it is selfish, period.  If you want to help the world, adopt a kid, there are enough already, like stray dogs, stop breeding them, there are already plenty that need parents.

[booty]

Hey dude, guess how much that shit costs here on the West Coast? Around a fucking THOUSAND dollars a month.

Yep, some high school drop-out can go to college and pass the classes they failed, get their grade 12 equivalence and take a shitty few month course and get in a daycare. My coworkers were talking about that shit and it usually costs the same as their rent. I can't fucking believe it. Glad I have family that will watch my kids.

Nobody loves your children or takes care of them like family. 

[bradistani]

its the only reason for our existence.. to procreate. 

[Stavios]

Nobody loves your children or takes care of them like family. 

"When Willgrant and I are gonna have kids..."

 

[kh300]

Not until I'm about 40.

My father had me at 43 while my mom was 40. My old man had a very dangerous job as a coast guard rescue swimmer and didnt want my mom to raise children wihout a father. So once he retired they had their 3 children,being married 10 years at that point. My parents say they were so glad they waited. By that time my father was collecting a retirement as well as working another job. My mom had spent 15 years as a teacher, and quit so she could be a stay home mom. So by the time your at that age your well off on money and your career is established.

Plus they say by that time they already wanted to sit at home. They got all of their adventures and traveling done with.

I would never want to be one of my friends who has kids. I call up some of my fiends and say hey were going on a fishing trip this weekend you in? ''no, sorry taking my son to practice''..etc. I'd rather wait till I'm old enough so that is what I want to do.

I work with some younger people who say things like 'were so glad their kids are leaving for college'' ''Have kids young so you can enjoy your adult life. ''Fuck that I want to enjoy my young life and have the kids In my adult life. Whats the rush?

[booty]

"When Willgrant and I are gonna have kids..."

 

Very funny Stav.       

[K-1]

Yes. I want a kids..at least two.

[dustin]

Not until I'm about 40.

My father had me at 43 while my mom was 40. My old man had a very dangerous job as a coast guard rescue swimmer and didnt want my mom to raise children wihout a father. So once he retired they had their 3 children,being married 10 years at that point. My parents say they were so glad they waited. By that time my father was collecting a retirement as well as working another job. My mom had spent 15 years as a teacher, and quit so she could be a stay home mom. So by the time your at that age your well off on money and your career is established.

Plus they say by that time they already wanted to sit at home. They got all of their adventures and traveling done with.

I would never want to be one of my friends who has kids. I call up some of my fiends and say hey were going on a fishing trip this weekend you in? ''no, sorry taking my son to practice''..etc. I'd rather wait till I'm old enough so that is what I want to do.

I work with some younger people who say things like 'were so glad their kids are leaving for college'' ''Have kids young so you can enjoy your adult life. ''Fuck that I want to enjoy my young life and have the kids In my adult life. Whats the rush?

Dude, man. If you have kids at that age you'll be in diapers at the same time the kids just finish using them. That's old, man. Having kids at an older age is harder and leads to weaker offspring last time I checked into it.

Don't think that kids ruin lives. People who think like that are losers to begin with. My bro had his daughter at age 20 and he's doing awesome. My niece is the SHIT and my bro's got an awesome life. Sure, his priorities shifted but I mean now he focuses on his very own flesh and blood instead of menial things that were probably no good to begin with. I don't see any problems there. Everything worked out for the better.

When I see miserable fucks with shitty ass kids I have no sympathy. I had an amazingly tough upbringing and my parents had shit all, but I turned out okay. Although my parents fought in front of us and made a lot of other mistakes, they were always good to us and did what they could to protect us. They never bitched. They never acted like we were some big burden and made us feel bad about it. Something about whiny parents really pisses me off. Children are challenging and exhausting to raise, no doubt. But what else is there that's more important than raising kids? Going fishing? World of Warcraft tournament? Waiting to bid-snipe a pack of ravenous schmoes over a pair of soiled manties sports memorabilia?

I'm a cynical, angry fucker but I never bitch about raising kids. I of course have never raised kids of my own, but I've helped raise my younger brothers when the parents were going through tough times and take care of my nieces and nephews regularly.

[240 is Back]

Your biological alarm clock will start ringing between the ages of 35 to 50,...trust me.

yep.  If you're a softie, you'll get the urge as you near 30.

True badasses will make it to 34 or 35 before cracking.  Their "legacy" and whatnot.

[da_vinci]

. But what else is there that's more important than raising kids? Going fishing? World of Warcraft tournament? Waiting to bid-snipe a pack of ravenous schmoes over a pair of soiled manties sports memorabilia?

Basically anything that has more meaning for a given person..

[leadhead]

I had my daughter when I was 26 years old. I thought my life was over.. But it really had just begun. She is such a blessing and so is fatherhood. There's too many fatherless children out there which is part of why kids these days seem worse overall. Please don't have children if you dont want to take care of your responsibility to them.

Btw I'm 30 now and I don't know if I will have another child.

[dustin]

Basically anything that has more meaning for a given person..

Any given person needs to realign their priorities if they're shitting out children. You don't get a choice at that point.

Just my two cents though... we can all let this world go to shit but I'm not raising a pack of savage little fucks.

[da_vinci]

Not until I'm about 40.

My father had me at 43 while my mom was 40. My old man had a very dangerous job as a coast guard rescue swimmer and didnt want my mom to raise children wihout a father. So once he retired they had their 3 children,being married 10 years at that point. My parents say they were so glad they waited. By that time my father was collecting a retirement as well as working another job. My mom had spent 15 years as a teacher, and quit so she could be a stay home mom. So by the time your at that age your well off on money and your career is established.

Plus they say by that time they already wanted to sit at home. They got all of their adventures and traveling done with.

I would never want to be one of my friends who has kids. I call up some of my fiends and say hey were going on a fishing trip this weekend you in? ''no, sorry taking my son to practice''..etc. I'd rather wait till I'm old enough so that is what I want to do.

I work with some younger people who say things like 'were so glad their kids are leaving for college'' ''Have kids young so you can enjoy your adult life. ''Fuck that I want to enjoy my young life and have the kids In my adult life. Whats the rush?

That sounds great, really. But if I'd ever have a kid I'd like it to be from as young female as possible. Male sperm quality doesn't really decrease for a long long time (so it's ok for you to wait for as long as you want/you think you'll be able to find a right "incubator") while the older a female gets - the bigger chance of "things go wrong" with the offspring.

[da_vinci]

Any given person needs to realign their priorities if they're shitting out children. You don't get a choice at that point.

If by that you mean - if "it happens" (and actually in most cases it is like that lol) than of course - yes...

[booty]

That sounds great, really. But if I'd ever have a kid I'd like it to be from as young female as possible. Male sperm quality doesn't really decrease for a long long time (so it's ok for you to wait for as long as you want/you think you'll be able to find a right "incubator") while the older a female gets - the bigger chance of "things go wrong" with the offspring.

It's true.  After the age of 35, they start testing the foetus for down syndrome etc. 

[dustin]

If by that you mean - if "it happens" (and actually in most cases it is like that lol) than of course - yes...

Yeah, I was born a bastard by a pair of retards but they smartened up just like any other person should and did their best from that point forward.

If you're not going to put the child up for adoption or get an abortion, you need to smarten up. It's a real life person you're raising and it doesn't take much to fuck up their life for good. I could never live with that sort of shame. To not only bring someone into the world but to screw up their entire life is an intolerable and terrifying thought for me.

[L.L]

....... my kid is the best thing that ever happened to me ,everything I do is for him, all my free time I spend it with him, I teach him boxing -MMA- soccer , JERK OFF [/b] , we watch movies ,ride  bicycles, ride  my motorcycle,we go boating ,fishing ...he's my best friend and I love it.

Flame on fags  

WTF ??

[A Professional]

Dude, man. If you have kids at that age you'll be in diapers at the same time the kids just finish using them. That's old, man. Having kids at an older age is harder and leads to weaker offspring last time I checked into it.

Don't think that kids ruin lives. People who think like that are losers to begin with. My bro had his daughter at age 20 and he's doing awesome. My niece is the SHIT and my bro's got an awesome life. Sure, his priorities shifted but I mean now he focuses on his very own flesh and blood instead of menial things that were probably no good to begin with. I don't see any problems there. Everything worked out for the better.

When I see miserable fucks with shitty ass kids I have no sympathy. I had an amazingly tough upbringing and my parents had shit all, but I turned out okay. Although my parents fought in front of us and made a lot of other mistakes, they were always good to us and did what they could to protect us. They never bitched. They never acted like we were some big burden and made us feel bad about it. Something about whiny parents really pisses me off. Children are challenging and exhausting to raise, no doubt. But what else is there that's more important than raising kids? Going fishing? World of Warcraft tournament? Waiting to bid-snipe a pack of ravenous schmoes over a pair of soiled manties sports memorabilia?

I'm a cynical, angry fucker but I never bitch about raising kids. I of course have never raised kids of my own, but I've helped raise my younger brothers when the parents were going through tough times and take care of my nieces and nephews regularly.

Good post.
I must have been nuts to think people would be selfless enough to want kids on a bodybuilding board of all places. Bunch of narcicisst.

[Stavios]

Good post.
I must have been nuts to think people would be selfless enough to want kids on a bodybuilding board of all places. Bunch of narcicisst.

Most people have kids to have someone that loves them, THAT is fucking selfish

being able to recognize you would make a shit dad, and not wanting to fuck up a children's life because you are not meant to raise a child, is not about narcissm

like is about doing what you love and want to do, not about having kids just for the sake of having kids

[da_vinci]

Good post.
I must have been nuts to think people would be selfless enough to want kids on a bodybuilding board of all places. Bunch of narcicisst.

You are still on that "emotional bandwagon", nothing more...

Just think for a minute what are you talking about and it may hit you that you haven't even prethought critically (what's so "selfless" about creating a new life, that MAY be fucked up by someone, that may not even want to live in this fucked up world, or simply - would just create more competition for other people, so the tension for resources would increase.. What's so "Selfless" to bring a new mouth to this world while thinking just about your own urges and needs "to have a kid" that may not even thank you for that later down the road).
 THINK ffs, THINK, don't react, but think.