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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #75 on: February 21, 2012, 02:13:49 AM »
You are a slanderous POS.  All lies!!!  

You're melting down whore. Show some of whatever dignity you have left. Say, post up that webcam pics of yours please. The ones that's been floating around here.

I did save it once but then flies started buzzing around my laptop. Had to delete.
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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #76 on: February 21, 2012, 03:13:40 AM »
I did save it once but then flies started buzzing around my laptop. Had to delete.

lol!

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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #77 on: February 21, 2012, 03:21:52 AM »
Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??

Any tips?

don't know why you would bother if that's true. sex is a pretty important part of relationships, without sex you are just "friends" so yes it matters a lot

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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #78 on: February 21, 2012, 03:24:34 AM »
I was in a relationship like this. she wanted sex all the time and I was just totally not into it most of the time. she would get so pissed and tell me there was something wrong with me. after we broke up I realized it was just because she was gross lol. I constantly want to have sex with the girl I'm with now.

Maybe you shouldn't have "dated" your mom in the first place.

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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #79 on: February 21, 2012, 03:39:43 AM »
shut up dware u fag, booty is pretty smart, pretty much never says the wrong thing

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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #80 on: February 21, 2012, 03:56:27 AM »
Isn't booty the Aussie chick who posed nude on webcams, etc?
Aussie chicks are the easiest women I've ever come across to get into the sack.

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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #81 on: February 21, 2012, 04:10:29 AM »
Now you predict the future.  Lol!  Sounds like the people that say you will ge yours in the end.  Good will always win.  Take your crap back to walt Disney world goody goody bla bla bla.  And here how you work on your relationship.  Do what your man needs you to do.  And yes not cheating is essential for women.  Men live by different rules.  You are in a discussion for men.  Now buzz off dumb broad.  

Yeah I don't care too much about listening to a woman's advice on women to begin with. Plus, I'd take a sweet chubby girl over a web cam whore any day.
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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #82 on: February 21, 2012, 04:14:20 AM »
its the healthiest relationship. Centuries ago you married someone you should marry in benefit of a better life not someone attractive.
Base your relationship in: common goals, common interests, compatible lifestyle and ideologies, friendship, respect and admiration. This relationship WORK.



Yeah bro, now people get together for vanity and look at the divorce rates. I heard arranged marriages in countries like India actually work better than the typical western marriages.
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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #83 on: February 21, 2012, 04:18:02 AM »
don't know why you would bother if that's true. sex is a pretty important part of relationships, without sex you are just "friends" so yes it matters a lot

All my past relationships were based solely on sex. And its always been great but its never enough to keep me around. Its nearly impossible to find a complete package I think. You gotta sacrifice one thing or the other.
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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #84 on: February 21, 2012, 04:41:05 AM »
All my past relationships were based solely on sex. And its always been great but its never enough to keep me around. Its nearly impossible to find a complete package I think. You gotta sacrifice one thing or the other.
There is no sacrifice....as you said, you based you relationships solely on sex...
So you never got to know that person (nor did she get to know you), and when you eventually did...you didn't like what you saw...or you two didn't "fit".
Today's women, create "instant relationships" with men by just letting you "get it in" real early...no wooing, courting, so you two don't really know one another.

Now, you have listed this woman's attributes, and it seems that it far outweighs her "not being pretty enough" and her "Adele like looks", but if you look at Adele's face, she is pretty cute (with makeup on of course).
As long as she is not a whale, and she has your best interest at heart, I'd say go for it, and chances are you'll be in a happier place, unless you eff it up.

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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #85 on: February 21, 2012, 04:50:14 AM »
There is no sacrifice....as you said, you based you relationships solely on sex...
So you never got to know that person (nor did she get to know you), and when you eventually did...you didn't like what you saw...or you two didn't "fit".
Today's women, create "instant relationships" with men by just letting you "get it in" real early...no wooing, courting, so you two don't really know one another.

Now, you have listed this woman's attributes, and it seems that it far outweighs her "not being pretty enough" and her "Adele like looks", but if you look at Adele's face, she is pretty cute (with makeup on of course).
As long as she is not a whale, and she has your best interest at heart, I'd say go for it, and chances are you'll be in a happier place, unless you eff it up.

Thanks for the advice. And I think she needs a complete make over but I really think I've been way too superficial with the way I live my life in general and that needs to change.
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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #86 on: February 21, 2012, 05:24:55 AM »
Girls do this all the time.  And the guy with money, who is ugly, nerdy, or fat, and with a hot chick.  Isn't complaining.  He's just happy to be fucking her!  Your girl will probably feel that way about you.  Great boost to self confidence.  And not having the stress hot bitches bring will help out lifting and business efforts.

Very true, but this not the way to a happy life for anybody. It is empty...

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Re: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for
« Reply #87 on: February 21, 2012, 05:46:00 AM »
All my past relationships were based solely on sex. And its always been great but its never enough to keep me around. Its nearly impossible to find a complete package I think. You gotta sacrifice one thing or the other.

naw, you just gotta keep looking. eventually you will find someone with a great personality who is also attractive, just a very rare thing to find for people who have some standards lol

never settle bro, never ever settle.