Author Topic: A relationship with someone you feel no physical attraction for (Read 7053 times)

Borracho · « **on:** February 20, 2012, 05:03:46 PM »

Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??

Any tips?

outby43 · « **Reply #1 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:05:19 PM »

yes. just jerk off a lot or think of oiled up men in things while fucking her. Maybe it's a sign your gay.

Bay may need to clarify this.

wes · « **Reply #2 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:06:47 PM »

Does she want to have sex with you?

If so,and you aren`t interested,be up front from the get go.....if she can`t deal with it...........see ya` !

StanZoLOL · « **Reply #3 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:07:00 PM »

Quote from: Borracho on February 20, 2012, 05:03:46 PM

Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??

Any tips?

That's usually called a 'friendship'.

el numero uno · « **Reply #4 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:07:08 PM »

Quote from: Borracho on February 20, 2012, 05:03:46 PM

Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??

Any tips?

It sounds like he's a horny dude

che · « **Reply #5 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:08:27 PM »

Quote from: Borracho on February 20, 2012, 05:03:46 PM

Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??

Any tips?

Yes , $

jwb · « **Reply #6 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:09:13 PM »

At least try her out she might surprise you...

ironxedge · « **Reply #7 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:10:12 PM »

I was in a relationship like this. she wanted sex all the time and I was just totally not into it most of the time. she would get so pissed and tell me there was something wrong with me. after we broke up I realized it was just because she was gross lol. I constantly want to have sex with the girl I'm with now.

Borracho · « **Reply #8 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:11:46 PM »

The thing is that this girl is super nice and has been there for me when nobody else was. I'm just not physically attracted to her but if I was with her she'd treat me better than any other girl.

wes · « **Reply #9 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:13:44 PM »

Quote from: Borracho on February 20, 2012, 05:11:46 PM

The thing is that this girl is super nice and has been there for me when nobody else was. I'm just not physically attracted to her but if I was with her she'd treat me better than any other girl.

Go for it bro.....beauty is only skin deep!

che · « **Reply #10 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:14:57 PM »

Quote from: Borracho on February 20, 2012, 05:11:46 PM

has been there for me when nobody else was.

That's nice ,just fuck her once a month .

Borracho · « **Reply #11 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:15:22 PM »

Quote from: che on February 20, 2012, 05:08:27 PM

Yes , $

I'm thinking she'd take care of me you know. Never been the type to take advantage of people but fuck this going to work everyday bullshit. I wanna live the dream....train, eat and sleep.

B_B_C · « **Reply #12 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:15:42 PM »

Quote from: Borracho on February 20, 2012, 05:11:46 PM

The thing is that this girl is super nice and has been there for me when nobody else was. I'm just not physically attracted to her but if I was with her she'd treat me better than any other girl.

then perhaps you should talk to her
Sex is easier to get than friendship but more transitory and not take you through difficult times.

hrspwr · « **Reply #13 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:16:05 PM »

Quote from: Borracho on February 20, 2012, 05:11:46 PM

The thing is that this girl is super nice and has been there for me when nobody else was. I'm just not physically attracted to her but if I was with her she'd treat me better than any other girl.

Thats code for shes huge.

FAST LANE · « **Reply #14 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:16:34 PM »

Quote from: StanZoLOL on February 20, 2012, 05:07:00 PM

That's usually called a 'friendship'.

lol, this

apply85 · « **Reply #15 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:16:57 PM »

its the story with most people, people really live in their fantasy lives and when they wanna have kids they imagine theyre fucking someone else, its how it goes for 99% of people

Borracho · « **Reply #16 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:17:19 PM »

Quote from: wes on February 20, 2012, 05:13:44 PM

Go for it bro.....beauty is only skin deep!

Yeah this girl is amazing person. Super nice and sweet.

wes · « **Reply #17 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:17:26 PM »

Just keep some side stuff on the sly!

wes · « **Reply #18 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:22:52 PM »

Quote from: D-Ware on February 20, 2012, 05:19:47 PM

^ this. Excellent post. Obi wan

Thank you young padawn!

Borracho · « **Reply #19 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:26:13 PM »

Quote from: wes on February 20, 2012, 05:17:26 PM

Just keep some side stuff on the sly!

I'm not the type to do that to someone but maybe I could start.

Quote from: D-Ware on February 20, 2012, 05:18:56 PM

Same situation here. Made the decision to drop the fast broads and stick with the less attractive broad who takes good care of me. Cooks all my meals, handles my books, washes clothes. But moreover she is stable, from a good home, organized. And she would run into oncoming traffic for me. I'm the kind of guy that needs this as I have been bi fuckinh polar sometimes and she has grounded me. I was upfront in the beginning bu she has been relentless and outlasted all the other fast ass bitches I was with. You don't gotta be with he forever, but maybe she will help your life and if she likes you that much you will help hers. Peace

With the "hot" girls its a constant battle with them to see who has who at the beginning. Eventually they give in but they won't treat you the way the less attractive girl would. Glad its working out for you.

booty · « **Reply #20 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:38:33 PM »

Quote from: Borracho on February 20, 2012, 05:03:46 PM

Would it be possible to maintain a relationship with someone you don't wanna have sex with??

Any tips?

Have you tried to have sex with her? If you have and there is no physical attraction, then just keep her as a really good friend. It's not fair to her to have a relationship with her when you are not attracted to her. Imagine how you would feel if a woman dated you but then you found out later down the track that she didn't find you attractive and didn't want to have sex with you. It would be hurtful for anybody, male or female.

Borracho · « **Reply #21 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:43:51 PM »

Quote from: D-Ware on February 20, 2012, 05:36:07 PM

My business has been going really great since I been with this broad. But I'm nnot gonna tell you it ain't a sacrifice. The thin Wes said would work, but you gotta find the right situation. Nothin that's gonna blow up your spot. The girl I'm with even puts up with that too. Although her patience for that is fading with time.
Try it out bro, if she's not for you, you can leave. But you will probably have some good effects on your life that will last when she's gone. And she will get some muscular pipe, which is what she probably wants. She will help you and your life to get it. Let her. Don't gotta marry her. Do your thing. It's ok to be a little selfish sometimes. Good luck bro.

You know the other thing with her is that she is a great singer so if she makes it someday I'll be kicking myself. She does shows where she lives and has won some competitions as well but the thing holding her back is her Adele like looks. Like you said maybe she can help my life and I can help her by knocking the donuts out of her mouth. And hopefully she goes a little further with her music career but she has a good job anyway so its not a big deal if she doesn't.

Borracho · « **Reply #22 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:45:19 PM »

Quote from: D-Ware on February 20, 2012, 05:43:01 PM

Girls do this all the time. And the guy with money, who is ugly, nerdy, or fat, and with a hot chick. Isn't complaining. He's just happy to be fucking her! Your girl will probably feel that way about you. Great boost to self confidence. And not having the stress hot bitches bring will help out lifting and business efforts.

Yeah, I'm not buying what booty is saying. I'm all for equal rights myself.

B_B_C · « **Reply #23 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:46:08 PM »

While i believe that honesty like hard work can sometimes be overrated one of its main advantages is that you dont have to remember

booty · « **Reply #24 on:** February 20, 2012, 05:50:44 PM »

Quote from: Borracho on February 20, 2012, 05:45:19 PM

Yeah, I'm not buying what booty is saying. I'm all for equal rights myself.

That's fine you don't have to. You asked for advice and members gave it and since I am female I thought it might be worth something. From a womans perspective or even a mans, it would be hurtful to know that the person you are with is only with you because they think they can get something out of you and is not physically attracted to you or wants to have sex with you. Sooner or later it will blow up in your face and when she finds out that you don't want to have sex with her and never really wanted to, you will lose her as a friend.