Girlfriends - Do you have one? Rough times?

[Palpatine Q]

Well, sure. It isn't some big secret few know. What's your point?

Life sucks. At least I accept this and can therefore get down to jamming some rockin' tunes and lifting heavy shit for fun.

My point is you shouldn't be giving advice on women, you are a bitter dude who has been burned. sucks for you, no doubt....but don't paint us all with your brush

[devilsmile]

am i doomed to become a bitter #### who never wants a proper relationship again?  

she also says that she hasnt been single in about 6 years as she jumped straight from a previous relationship to this one, but thats not really a valid excuse forbreaking up with someone. she says she doesn't know what single feels like so how can she know wehter she likes it. ahhh fuck my life. lol.

You don't have to be bitter for relationsips. I'm no bitter about relationships, I have no need to strive to a relationship. I enjoy my own company, but if someone comes up to form a lovestory of the century with me, I'm game, but i have no need to search for it because I feel like I'm me.

And there you go, that girl sounds like a completely shallow and sad case of shit. Going from relationship to another? Doesn't know what being single feels like? Lol, she's messed up.

Time for you to wise up!

[makaveli25]

Good thread man. If she is talking to other people and being shady just ingore her. As hard as it might seem I would just be done with her. She sounds like a bitch anyways. Ignore her act like you don't care. Have confidence and conviction about what you do and she will come crawling back. You have to be strong though.

[devilsmile]

Good thread man. If she is talking to other people and being shady just ingore her. As hard as it might seem I would just be done with her. She sounds like a bitch anyways. Ignore her act like you don't care. Have confidence and conviction about what you do and she will come crawling back. You have to be strong though.

yup, seems to me she thinks relationships are one dimensional, just for fun theatrik. And seems she doesn't really even care, she just hold on to him because she knows he will atleast kiss her ass and tell her she's ammazing which fuels her empty tank of selfesteem.

Forget about her, but you need to sharpen your senses when it comes to women.

[Fortress]

I'm talking about what Fortress said..between that and his other post...he's obviously had a woman do a fucking number on him, and he's bitter.

feel bad for the guy, but don't go telling everyone that all women suck, never commit... because you got fucked over....you ever stop and think it was YOU ?

Yep, a chick did do a number on me.

I take full responsibility for my failures a a boyfriend. Doesn't change or make less relevant what I say. 

[Fortress]

My point is you shouldn't be giving advice on women, you are a bitter dude who has been burned. sucks for you, no doubt....but don't paint us all with your brush

Fair enough and good point.

[Nails]

[CAPTAIN INSANO]

You sound like a miserable, lonely fuck quite honestly

Of course he is..

Just look at him..



He looks like a fucking gremlin..



What woman would want to be with this ugly loser?

[Fortress]

Of course he is..

Just look at him..



He looks like a fucking gremlin..



What woman would want to be with this ugly loser?

You need to find a new pic to jack your micro penis to. And as far as me being ugly, who cares? I am a man. And how do you know if I am attractive to the opposite sex or not, anyway? I figured you were a guy.  

[makaveli25]

Of course he is..

Just look at him..



He looks like a fucking gremlin..



What woman would want to be with this ugly loser?

Haha asshole

[CAPTAIN INSANO]

Haha asshole

[Marty Champions]

build her a skinny mini replica to make her happy bro

[Palpatine Q]

Of course he is..

Just look at him..



He looks like a fucking gremlin..



What woman would want to be with this ugly loser?

What the fuck is he doing in that picture ? is he making a fist at the weights?...us?....his ex?

[Nails]

sounds like your girl wants to see the world and your contempt with staying at home , nothing wrong with that, but your holding her back, do her a favor and let her be free, she will eventually cheat on you FACT, cus your boring and she needs and wants excitement

[Army of One]

she went out saturday night drinking, ended up staying at a girlfriends house. then a guy i really dont like just cause hes thinks hes a smooth #### was talking to her for ages. she then slept on the sofa next to him with another one of her girlfriends, apparently nothing happened. thing is i do believe my girlfriend, if she had cheated i think she would just tell me. he then gave her a lift to her friends in the morning and they hugged goodbye. he sent her a message saying your nice and with a smiley face on facebook (lol) and she just wrote a smiley back. she says she is not intersted in him, hes just a nice guy. When i asked her what exactly they spent talking about for ages she said she doesn't remember.  the story sounds so bad and maybe im just being an idiot but I believe what she said as she didn't have to tell me any of this.

But she claims to understand exactly why im angry and admits she was out of order. I have told her before I'm not happy with her speaking to this guy as we all know why boys chat to girls, its not for friendship. she acts naive about it originally, which angers the fuck out of me. If she had told me straight up she cheated or wanted tot ake things further with this guy I actually would have found it way easier. The story sounds so bad but part of me does believe her as I do believe she'd tell me honestly if it happened. but i guess you never know....

I was going to reply to your first post and say there's another guy involved, women never swing off one dick unless they have a firm hold over another, then sure enough I read this.My personal feeling is that you shouldnt get serious with any woman under 35, as they still are too easy to jump from cock to cock.And I can tell you with a high degree of certainty that she's lying to you about what went on.

[Marty Champions]

dude needs to watch some porn to get some serious wankage out of his system

[Nails]

she went out saturday night drinking, ended up staying at a girlfriends house. then a guy i really dont like just cause hes thinks hes a smooth #### was talking to her for ages. she then slept on the sofa next to him with another one of her girlfriends, apparently nothing happened. thing is i do believe my girlfriend, if she had cheated i think she would just tell me. he then gave her a lift to her friends in the morning and they hugged goodbye. he sent her a message saying your nice and with a smiley face on facebook (lol) and she just wrote a smiley back. she says she is not intersted in him, hes just a nice guy. When i asked her what exactly they spent talking about for ages she said she doesn't remember.  the story sounds so bad and maybe im just being an idiot but I believe what she said as she didn't have to tell me any of this.

But she claims to understand exactly why im angry and admits she was out of order. I have told her before I'm not happy with her speaking to this guy as we all know why boys chat to girls, its not for friendship. she acts naive about it originally, which angers the fuck out of me. If she had told me straight up she cheated or wanted tot ake things further with this guy I actually would have found it way easier. The story sounds so bad but part of me does believe her as I do believe she'd tell me honestly if it happened. but i guess you never know....

i hope you didnt kiss her before she brushed her teeth... or else you would have been sucking on that dudes semen out of her mouth ....

[CAPTAIN INSANO]

What the fuck is he doing in that picture ? is he making a fist at the weights?...us?....his ex?

Maybe life or lack there of 

[Domthemilky]

yup, seems to me she thinks relationships are one dimensional, just for fun theatrik. And seems she doesn't really even care, she just hold on to him because she knows he will atleast kiss her ass and tell her she's ammazing which fuels her empty tank of selfesteem.

Forget about her, but you need to sharpen your senses when it comes to women.

lol funny thing is i honestly dont kiss her ass in anyway. im not a cliche boyfriend who loves to suck up to his missus. i might think shes really good looking but i wouldn't suck up to her and give her an ego boost all the time.

I was going to reply to your first post and say there's another guy involved, women never swing off one dick unless they have a firm hold over another, then sure enough I read this.My personal feeling is that you shouldnt get serious with any woman under 35, as they still are too easy to jump from cock to cock.And I can tell you with a high degree of certainty that she's lying to you about what went on.

i can see what your saying and you could be right. im just hoping you're wrong. I remember i used to be so comfortable and not too bothered about arguing when i spoke to loads of girls and had alot of other options so you may be right.

[CAPTAIN INSANO]

No rebuttal Bobert?

Let me ask you a question Bob...

Has the lack of success with women ultimately turned you into a queer?

I think it has.

Kill yourself..

Hope this helps

[Papper]

she went out saturday night drinking, ended up staying at a girlfriends house. then a guy i really dont like just cause hes thinks hes a smooth #### was talking to her for ages. she then slept on the sofa next to him with another one of her girlfriends, apparently nothing happened. thing is i do believe my girlfriend, if she had cheated i think she would just tell me. he then gave her a lift to her friends in the morning and they hugged goodbye. he sent her a message saying your nice and with a smiley face on facebook (lol) and she just wrote a smiley back. she says she is not intersted in him, hes just a nice guy. When i asked her what exactly they spent talking about for ages she said she doesn't remember.  the story sounds so bad and maybe im just being an idiot but I believe what she said as she didn't have to tell me any of this.

dude...  

[deadz]

What would you guys do or have you guys done when things in your relationship are not going well. I'm having alot of arguments with my girlfriend and i found out some stuff recently that really hurts inside even if it snot a big deal. Now we are thinking things over and deciding whether to continue our relationship or end it here. Sucks because we had lots of plans for holidays and to me it seems out the blue. Spent the entire day feeling like someone had stabbed me in the gut and got that achey feeling inside. Going to go gym in an hour or so and eat really well to hopefully make myself feel better.

I'm sure i'll get some typical getbigger responses but I am curious as to what some of you did to get over break ups or rough times in your relationship. I kind of feel like a failure aswell and that I should of tried harder and almost like I should have listened to her more. But then I suppose this is a typical reaction when things get bad, you question yourself and your lifestyle. Relationships are hard fucking work!

Yet another Beta.

[outby43]

phew, can't be my wife cuz i'm a springsteen, not RATM, fan. 

 

[Nirvana]

leave her fore she leaves you.  and for good, don't go back. it'll make it all the sweeter when you upgrade and your ex still wants you.

[local hero]

been with my girl 4 years, got a little 8month old daughter..got engaged at christmass

if you get plenty shagging about in in you early years no reason why you cant settle down happily with a girl who will put up with your bodybuilding shit ( drugs, training, food )