Author Topic: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth... (Read 7151 times)

skeela · « **Reply #25 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:03:02 PM »

As a woman....(probably the only woman on gb

)......if it was all so innocent why didn't she tell you from the beginning what's been going on,who he is and that she's been hanging out with this guy?

Earl1972 · « **Reply #26 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:06:06 PM »

it's ok

just look at jerry and elaine

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Nails · « **Reply #27 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:16:48 PM »

friends in this day an age means, she is sending him pics of her tits when she gets drunk or board at work.

sorry bud, i suggest you have your own "FRIENDS" on speed dial ready to fuck as well

da_vinci · « **Reply #28 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:17:05 PM »

She was certainly deep throating her ex's dick for quite some time already.. (tho she've done that before too.. so...)..

I'd say just shoot her str8 in the head the next time you'll announce at home.

Soul Crusher · « **Reply #29 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:21:11 PM »

Quote from: Ontheway on March 12, 2012, 02:00:13 PM

OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them...

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

Dont get attached.

Royalty · « **Reply #30 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:22:26 PM »

She doesnt respect you... You need to take a stand; and dump her. Let her know that she is being dumped for secretly meeting up with her ex. She needs to learn to have some respect.

Option D · « **Reply #31 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:24:09 PM »

Quote from: tu_holmes on March 12, 2012, 02:39:24 PM

She is going to be fucking him soon if not already.

Hope This Helps.

^truth... sorry to tell ya.. but thats whats goin on for sure

deadz · « **Reply #32 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:24:48 PM »

Quote from: Ontheway on March 12, 2012, 02:00:13 PM

OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them...

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

F OFF

L.L · « **Reply #33 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:37:27 PM »

shes fucking him..not such thing as being a friend with an ex...remember he was the one who made that pussy cum a bunch of times before you...that dick ruled once there and it is doing it again, she loves it...if your dick was the one she wouldnt even give him the time of the day......get away..

the trainer · « **Reply #34 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:38:00 PM »

Quote from: Ontheway on March 12, 2012, 02:00:13 PM

OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them...

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

You do not have the ability to please a woman, do the following first get a dick enlargement operation then think about naked men when you are fucking her so you last longer.................. ........................ .Actually that will make you cum faster so tell her the truth you are a fag.

newkid1985 · « **Reply #35 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:38:58 PM »

So your girl basically goes out to get coffee and talks all the time to her ex and you have to ask where you stand in the equation. If you have any doubts that she is faithful its already over sry bud new pussy is the best glue for a broken heart and like grandpa say find em, feel em, fuck em, free em and youll be alright. Great man he is

L.L · « **Reply #36 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:39:52 PM »

Quote from: skeela on March 12, 2012, 03:03:02 PM

As a woman....(probably the only woman on gb )......if it was all so innocent why didn't she tell you from the beginning what's been going on,who he is and that she's been hanging out with this guy?

listen to this whore..she is right on the money.

wes · « **Reply #37 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:44:32 PM »

Quote from: Slinpimp on March 12, 2012, 03:37:27 PM

shes fucking him..not such thing as being a friend with an ex...remember he was the one who made that pussy cum a bunch of times before you...that dick ruled once there and it is doing it again, she loves it...if your dick was the one she wouldnt even give him the time of the day......get away..

X 2

Don`t get played man,move on,chicks are like busses,there`s another one coming along every twenty minutes.

skeela · « **Reply #38 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:49:44 PM »

Quote from: Slinpimp on March 12, 2012, 03:39:52 PM

listen to this whore..she is right on the money.

charming.......

jbflift · « **Reply #39 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:52:34 PM »

Cut your losses. My ex-wife did the same thing, "we are just friends". I wish I had more friends that would screw me.

Army of One · « **Reply #40 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:59:48 PM »

Quote from: jbflift on March 12, 2012, 03:52:34 PM

I wish I had more friends that would screw me.

Become a male IFBB Pro, you prayers will be answered

jbflift · « **Reply #41 on:** March 12, 2012, 04:03:05 PM »

I should have said more female friends screw me.

K-1 · « **Reply #42 on:** March 12, 2012, 04:06:13 PM »

Quote from: Ontheway on March 12, 2012, 02:00:13 PM

OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them...

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

Honestly...you are wasting your time with her. She's not only "leaving doors open" while you are together..she is lying and adamant about it.

This is typical cat and mouse...while you are chasing her...she's chasing something else...in the meantime you guys are together just riding time playing house...don't fk up and have a kid or get financials too tied into one another because this is a train wreck waiting to happen.

Trust me. Mark this down as a learning experience. You will be laughing and shaking your head wondering how you even tolerated this shit years later when you are chilling with your new sexy ass piece that just wants to give you BJ's and fix you sandwiches with no drama.

240 is Back · « **Reply #43 on:** March 12, 2012, 04:06:20 PM »

Quote from: The Grim Lifter on March 12, 2012, 02:03:49 PM

She's keeping in touch in case things with you go south

agreed x 1000.

You can accept this, and know that your relationship is only a temporary thing.
Or you can realize you can't put your heart there, and leave.

Talking to him isn't great, but isn't bad. Lying about it tells you everthing you need to know.

Listen to this song - just takes a few minutes - and it'll open up your eyes.