POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth...

[Hulkotron]

Also ask yourself if you've ever done the things she's doing with this guy with a girl you weren't trying to hump.  I bet the answer is "no".

[purenaturalstrength]

What the fark is with all these relationship questions!? This isn't Dear Abby. 

it's not like he cannot answer his own question better than any of us random internet folk

[Tapeworm]

I'll give you the headsup.  You're dating the town bike.

[tbombz]

she most likely stilll has feelings for the dude.  if she honestly has just been friends with him though, and there was never any flirting going on between them, then i could see why she might not have told you about it. especially if you guys arent talking about staying together long term yet.   as you said, you didnt mention to her that you had slept with those women.  whats good for the goose is good for the gander.  you could cut it off if your feelings for her arent phenomenal. it will take some work to build a completely trusting relationship, and id understand not wanting to do with unless your sure you want to be with her for a while. only do this if you can get her to stop thinking about that ex of hers and just focus on you.

[outby43]

I'll give you the headsup.  You're dating the town bike.

[OTHstrong]

OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them...

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

Blind or gullible, either way snap out of it, she is banging him, nevermind her lying, that is the least of your worries.

[Tapeworm]

Even if you kids break up and she starts seeing some other guy, at least you know you'll still be able to fuck her 3x a week and the new guy won't have a clue.

[DK II]

OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them...

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

hahaah, how old are you, 14?

[Radical Plato]

OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them...

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

Nude Pics Please!

[mr.turbo]

Exactly my point, if we keep it serious... But hey she said she loves me, and she never did anything that would hurt me... Why not telling me than?

OH I JUST WOULD LOVE TO SEE HER FACE WHILE READING THESE...

tell her you're gonna start hanging out with your ex's and see what she says. haha!

what's fair is fair...right?

she should be put on probation and monitored for improvements to her behavior if she wants to regain or retain "girlfriend" status.

[dj181]

Is the other guy black?

 

[dj181]

[Marlo Stanfield]

OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them...

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

My thoughts...

1) your a pussy . for one, you need to send this link to her so she can see what some online folks have to say about this situation? its like you cant talk for yourself.

2) shes a slut. of all the men in the world, if she is having small coffees (translate:blowjob in the car) with her EX, and didnt feel the need to tell you, then thats not a girl i'd like to be with

3)You both sound immature.. her questioning you constantly about women around you, and you saying shit like "But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... " like a 5 yrd old boy trying to sound cool like you cheat behind your GF's back, but trying to sound mysterious

4)your insinuating you cheated on your gf, and your gf is meeting her ex, this is a dysfunctional relationship

5) there is no trust between you guys. trust is one thing that once its breached, it will always leave a nagging voice in the bak of your head saying " is she really with her gf, or is she meeting the ex again?"


WTF should you guys do? go your seperate ways, find new mates

[240 is Back]

Even if you kids break up and she starts seeing some other guy, at least you know you'll still be able to fuck her 3x a week and the new guy won't have a clue.

lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[coltrane]

She is going to be fucking him soon if not already.

Hope This Helps.

Probably already happening now.

Dump her pronto.  She is untrusting AND she still desires attention from her ex.

[Agnostic007]

Hard to sum up a complete relationship in a few words. A relationship or partner that is great in so many areas and has shortcomings in one may be worth working through it with. A partner who is a mess in so many areas and adds another one to the list ..well, probably need to cut your losses.

Her failing to tell you could be she is a total slut, playing you like a banjo and using you for everything you got while she bones her ex and anyone else with a pulse..

or.. it could just mean you are such a dick when she tells you things you might not like that she wants to avoid your drama queen ass and just doesn't tell you since it's totally innocent and you are just too insecure to understand..

Only you know for sure   

[coltrane]

Hard to sum up a complete relationship in a few words. A relationship or partner that is great in so many areas and has shortcomings in one may be worth working through it with. A partner who is a mess in so many areas and adds another one to the list ..well, probably need to cut your losses.

Her failing to tell you could be she is a total slut, playing you like a banjo and using you for everything you got while she bones her ex and anyone else with a pulse..

or.. it could just mean you are such a dick when she tells you things you might not like that she wants to avoid your drama queen ass and just doesn't tell you since it's totally innocent and you are just too insecure to understand..Only you know for sure   

True.

BUT, does a girlfriend NEED to have the ex SOOO much in her life as to be having coffee, etc. etc.?    That, I question.

[Agnostic007]

True.

BUT, does a girlfriend NEED to have the ex SOOO much in her life as to be having coffee, etc. etc.?    That, I question.

What I suspect is... Ex broke up with her because she is looney tunes. Probably smokin hot, but looney tunes, you know the type... He still keeps her hanging on for the sex, but doesn't want a serious relationship and it's perfect that she has a boyfriend. She... thinks she has a shot of winning him back because he is still seeing her on the side for "coffee". She talks to him about her current problems with her boyfriend, he listens and offers token advice, careful never to cross that "you should leave him" line so he isn't at risk of having to deal with her crap more often than he already does...

Anyway.. just my guess...

Yeah, I've been that ex before...

[coltrane]

What I suspect is... Ex broke up with her because she is looney tunes. Probably smokin hot, but looney tunes, you know the type... He still keeps her hanging on for the sex, but doesn't want a serious relationship and it's perfect that she has a boyfriend. She... thinks she has a shot of winning him back because he is still seeing her on the side for "coffee". She talks to him about her current problems with her boyfriend, he listens and offers token advice, careful never to cross that "you should leave him" line so he isn't at risk of having to deal with her crap more often than he already does...

Anyway.. just my guess...

Yeah, I've been that ex before...

This sounds completely logical and is probably the case here. 
I'd monitor the situation more, sending out one of my boys to spy. 

[Iceman1981]

real talk, this is very shady behavior

no trust=no "relationship"

understand what you're dealing with and never respect a sneaky bitch

I agree ^^^^^^^^^^^ with Mr. Ben.

[Nails]

http://camrevenge.com/she-s-talking-to-her-boyfriend-while-cheating/

[chess315]

My question is why would you want to stay in this relationship. You both cheat on each other (or you are deluded and pretend to cheat because you are getting your girl's ex's left overs every week). Have fun, play the field, and once you meet that one girl you want to settle with then put your efforts there.

My advice if you want to keep her is get the guys number meet up with him. Ask him about the situation without getting mad. Then tell him he has to make it up to you. He will ask how. Tell him you want to do a three way with him and her. Once you guys are doing it make sure you perform better than he does. At that point you will regain the power. You can laugh at her, tell her she is a whore and walk away. Or you can try to tame that ass with some hardcore sexual deviance. Another option If she agrees to the 3 way is you can also leave so you dont get your panties in a bunch. Or you can discover who she likes the most. Well that is all. Good luck.

if some jack ass called or messaged me asking to meet up about his gf lol that would be fucking stupid why would you go talk to some guy about his gf talking to you I would laugh at him or ignore him

[D.O.U.P]

My thoughts...

1) your a pussy . for one, you need to send this link to her so she can see what some online folks have to say about this situation? its like you cant talk for yourself.

2) shes a slut. of all the men in the world, if she is having small coffees (translate:blowjob in the car) with her EX, and didnt feel the need to tell you, then thats not a girl i'd like to be with

3)You both sound immature.. her questioning you constantly about women around you, and you saying shit like "But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them... " like a 5 yrd old boy trying to sound cool like you cheat behind your GF's back, but trying to sound mysterious

4)your insinuating you cheated on your gf, and your gf is meeting her ex, this is a dysfunctional relationship

5) there is no trust between you guys. trust is one thing that once its breached, it will always leave a nagging voice in the bak of your head saying " is she really with her gf, or is she meeting the ex again?"


WTF should you guys do? go your seperate ways, find new mates

Funny AND SPOT ON.

[Stavios]

OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them...

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

she is fucking him

no offence

[Earl1972]

who dumped who?

if he dumped her, doesn't sound good for you

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