Since you responded I'm going to assume you are a "successful black man". Did the woman and mothers create the problem because of the "Princess Syndrome"? Or is it just more of an elitist attitude? Or are you saying unsuccessful black men are the result of being raised by unsuccessful single black women without a father figure present?
Also, if you are a SBM, does that mean getting professional black woman to have sex with you is much easier?
Very interesting dilemma.
Ah, success...what is being successful
It's many diff things, what has happened is that the Feminist movement pushed for women to get an educating and the "I don't need a man" agenda, but with black women, they have one standard for black men, and another for others. You can't be "nice", you have to be a "playa", can't be nerdy...and then, they either very picky or accept trifleness.
Now, the baby boomer generation was the generation where women divorced in droves due to "I'm unhappy" and "I want to follow my career". Professional black women and inner city black women both either having kids out of wedlock or are single mothers due to divorce.
They pus for their daugthers to get an education, yet they have no male role models to show what a man is supposed to be and how to love said woman. All they have to go by is the pop culture---the playa, hustler, thug image that was started in the 70s---blaxploitation films.
Now, women regardless of race are a man's quality control, if their is no quality then there is no control.
Today's woman, especially black women were not taught that by their mothers.
And said sons, who were raised by a single mother---have no role model to teach them what is expected, because their mothers never required the men they had kids with to stick around.
Basically, women have more power than men, and in the oft quoted saying, "With great power comes great responsibility", and this is the result of them not talking responsibility...
As far as whether getting prof black women to have sex with you---as said on here, black women are easy, regardless of their profession....just because a woman is an attorney or in business, means Jack shit.
