Have you ever found someone dead?

[Stark]

Yeah, I was. Shitty to go through for all involved, but it was almost 8 years ago and life goes on. I'm currently engaged to be married again next year.

I think i go mad if my wife dies, I need her so much.

Fuck I don't even want to think about it.

[R.A.M.]

Congrats on the engagement.  Sorry about your loss... Man this is depressing reading all of this.

[Stark]

Congrats on the engagement.  Sorry about your loss... Man this is depressing reading all of this.

Its stuff that happens everyday and worse

But we all live in our little bubble pretending it doesn't happen - if we would be fully contiguous to all the suffering pain and agony we would go mad.

[YngiweRhoads]

I think i go mad if my wife dies, I need her so much.

Fuck I don't even want to think about it.

Yeah, I'd say the intense grief is pretty profound, but it lessens substantially over time. Most definitely changes a person though

A friend's daughter is currently undergoing chemo for a life threatening brain tumor. I really couldn't image losing a child. Then again, I couldn't image losing my spouse till it actually happened.

But yeah, we're heading to Hawaii next year to get hitched with a small group of friends and family members tagging along.

[wes]

Well the problem here is and I dont want to say too much because I am recovering - a childs most important times are from birth - 3 / 4 years old - that's when a lot of the basic stuff like trust and all is build (baby cries you go over baby learns I have something somebody comes and helps) that is never build of course.

I have all kind of issues with myself - HUGE temper - I can see litteraly red and go berzerk (or rather it happened when I was a kid) I am very egoistic with my time love to spend time by myself and shit loads of other things.

What I am trying to say here I have meet a lot of other kids with similar abuse issues and they all show the same symtoms, we are great in hidding it playing laughing and being the good guy, but when you have somebody open you up you look inside of you, most of us are real fucked up.
I know now that I will never be able to change myself and I will never be normal - and the older I get the madder I get at my parents.

Can`t blame you at all bro......I`m sure my cousins still have emotional problems too.

Stay strong dude!

[falco]

If i died most likely my wife would notice that.

Many years ago at a saturday night i came home and my grandmother was dead in her room.

I have been one of the first on site on some car crashes with already dead persons there an a biker or two dead on pavement i don't remenber, my brain kind of blocks bad memories.

One thing that shocks me is when i see obituary posters of people that went to school with me. Kind of reminds me of my own mortality.

I am sorry for all your sad stories.

[Dr Dutch]

If i died most likely my wife would notice that.

[wes]

If i died most likely my wife would notice that.

Many years ago at a saturday night i came home and my grandmother was dead in her room.

I have been one of the first on site on some car crashes with already dead persons there an a biker or two dead on pavement i don't remenber, my brain kind of blocks bad memories.

One thing that shocks me is when i see obituary posters of people that went to school with me. Kind of reminds me of my own mortality.

I am sorry for all your sad stories.

^THIS^

[YngiweRhoads]

^THIS^

Ditto

[da_vinci]

Somehow I'm personally not afraid of death, nor dead people/bodies/etc.. (even seeing all the body parts ripped off if that's a car accident or so). Aging seems a lot more dreadful to me. When a person is "half dead/half alive", waiting for the "last day to come" on a bed or in a wheelchair.. Fuck that..
 Only shock would be to find a dead relative, as it's an undescribable grief and sadness.. otherwise - bring it on bitches.

[Iceman1981]

My Grandmother passed away while I was holding her hand in the hospital. My whole family was in the room. My Grandma opened her eyes and looked from the right side of the room all the way to the left side of the room and made sure she saw everyone while she was turning her head. As soon as she did that you could hear her take her last breathe. Then her eyes closed. It's an experience that really makes you value life and don't take things for granted.

[Kwon_2]

Fuck bro, that's really sad  

When it happens, time stands still and you become in shock, not knowing what to do.

[BayGBM]

let me tell you people, lifting a corpse is pretty much impossible all by yourself


if you ever need to move a corpse you are going to need a stretcher and a van

So very true!

One New Year’s Eve about 2003 or 2004 I went to a club with this muscle dude (bodybuilding related). He must have been 5’9” and 220#.  All night long he kept spiking his own drink with something he called Blue Thunder (a compound he brought with him).  By the time we started to leave, he just about passed out from the Blue Thunder, and I had to have help getting him into my car.  When I drove him home, I realized that I had to get him into the house and that damn near proved impossible.  Moving dead weight is one of the hardest things you can ever do.  I did eventually get him into the house and into bed.  He was able to help me as he was falling in and out of consciousness.

In the movies they make it look like moving a dead body is so easy.

[reppingfor20]

I found my turtle dead when I was a teen.. was pretty sad. So I put him in the fridge to think what to do next (maybe keep the shell or smth). Tho' later I found out it was probably just a "winter sleep", so basically I killed it...  


And in case I'd die - I encrypted my HDD so noone would find all the porn and other weird stuff.. (well I encrypted it in case it'd get stolen, but it good for being dead too)..

lol, but sorry for your loss.

[Stark]

So very true!

One New Year’s Eve about 2003 or 2004 I went to a club with this muscle dude (bodybuilding related). He must have been 5’9” and 220#.  All night long he kept spiking his own drink with something he called Blue Thunder (a compound he brought with him).  By the time we started to leave, he just about passed out from the Blue Thunder, and I had to have help getting him into my car.  When I drove him home, I realized that I had to get him into the house and that damn near proved impossible.  Moving dead weight is one of the hardest things you can ever do.  I did eventually get him into the house and into bed.  He was able to help me as he was falling in and out of consciousness.

In the movies they make it look like moving a dead body is so easy.

Difference to your story is of course that you don't mind if you drop a dead body

I have handled a lot of dead people when I worked in the morgue but you always make sure of course that you don't drop them.

[THECHEMIST]

i witnessed a horrible car wreck downthe street from my house and i ran down there and was the first one on the scene. i was on the phone with 911, and operator had me chech the pulse of one of the guys in the car..the car was upside down and crushed i crawled on stomach were the back window would be and checked the guys pulse on his neck and was lifless/no pulse very weird, errie feeling, witnessing the crash etc. it was 3 people involved it was a marine that just got back home from iraq, his best friend, and his best friends wife. they just got married 2 weeks prior to the wreck, and they were all drunk the marine was driving, the best friend was the one that died. it was very sad, and wont ever get the sound of that crash outta my head.

[Palpatine Q]

So very true!

One New Year’s Eve about 2003 or 2004 I went to a club with this muscle dude (bodybuilding related). He must have been 5’9” and 220#.  All night long he kept spiking his own drink with something he called Blue Thunder (a compound he brought with him).  By the time we started to leave, he just about passed out from the Blue Thunder, and I had to have help getting him into my car.  When I drove him home, I realized that I had to get him into the house and that damn near proved impossible.  Moving dead weight is one of the hardest things you can ever do.  I did eventually get him into the house and into bed.  He was able to help me as he was falling in and out of consciousness.

In the movies they make it look like moving a dead body is so easy.

Did you plug him in the ass Bay ?

[Rearden Metal]

My mom in her hospital bed......cancer is a motherfuckin bitch!

I'm really sorry Calvin. That's my worst nightmare.

I saw a motorcycle crash right next to me and watched the guy die. Hit a box truck doing 100.

[BayGBM]

Did you plug him in the ass Bay ?

Curiosity made the cat gay!  If you want to know more PM me like everyone else! 

[Stark]

Curiosity made the cat gay!  If you want to know more PM me like everyone else! 

[Kwon_2]

So very true!

One New Year’s Eve about 2003 or 2004 I went to a club with this muscle dude (bodybuilding related). He must have been 5’9” and 220#.  All night long he kept spiking his own drink with something he called Blue Thunder (a compound he brought with him).  By the time we started to leave, he just about passed out from the Blue Thunder, and I had to have help getting him into my car.  When I drove him home, I realized that I had to get him into the house and that damn near proved impossible.  Moving dead weight is one of the hardest things you can ever do.  I did eventually get him into the house and into bed.  He was able to help me as he was falling in and out of consciousness.

In the movies they make it look like moving a dead body is so easy.

Did you plug him in the ass Bay?

[HTexan]

my dog

[Nails]

i plan on renting a boat, casting off to sea, and wheel myself off the deck ... atleast ill get a nice view of the coral reefs before i finally go.....

[Tito24]

hahaha

[Princess L]

A couple of years ago, I was first on the scene of a car/motorcycle accident and called 911.  The people on the bike were members at the same gym, so I sort of knew them.  She died on the scene, but I didn't know it at the time.

I was holding my brother when he took his last breath after an 11 month battle with Leukemia.