comparing criminals to guys that are good at picking up women
you must be quite the pussy slayer 
What's the matter, u mad?
I only fixed your comment for you, because whores go for the cocky arrogant dude.
Of course nice guys finish last. But, dude wasn't stating anything about being nice, so your point is moot.
He was talking about being understated, not "shouting" about by what you wear. And this was about a date, not about picking up women. Presumably, if you have a date, you already did "the heavy lifting" of picking her up.