I understood, now, how are you shackled by religion?
Really? REALLY?
So much of how we educate, train and maintain "order" is a result of religious indoctrination down through the ages.
Like it or not, we have all been brainwashed to varying degrees by nonsensical religious doctrine and law.
(Hell, if I live with a woman for any length of time the state then considers us married ... essentially. Don't fool yourself, either: Such invasiveness is mostly testimony to a puritan ideology derived from religion.)
Are you really asking me this?!!
I do not believe you are this dim. Possibly heavily brainwashed, sure, but not this simple as to not grasp the overriding influence of religion, in all its permutations, across all mankind.
Just stop.