Have you left a wife / got divorced? what to expect?

[steamboatwillie]

Have you left a wife / got divorced?  What to expect?

I have been married for 6 months and its miserable.  Definitely the worst decision of my life.  Our families are both very supportive, but we are just too different and we can't make it 2 days without having a total meltdown fight.  I have to get out before it gets any worse.  What's the best way to go about it, and what do I need to be on the look out for?

[bigmikecox]

Its hard bro. No matter how much you fight and argue, you still love the person. But sometimes its best to move on. For me, when i was working i was cool, but at home, alone, it sucked. My thing was to re focus on bbing and get back on stage. Dieting and training takes your mind off personal drama

[Howard]

Have you left a wife / got divorced?  What to expect?

I have been married for 6 months and its miserable.  Definitely the worst decision of my life.  Our families are both very supportive, but we are just too different and we can't make it 2 days without having a total meltdown fight.  I have to get out before it gets any worse.  What's the best way to go about it, and what do I need to be on the look out for?

It depends a lot on what you are fighting about. Some things can be worked out.
I never called any of mine a name or made a mean , personal insult.
If you don't mind saying, what are the main issues that cause problems between you?

[Radical Plato]

Leave, never go back, never contact her again, for the next few months, root hookers, watch heaps of porn and masturbate a lot, get drunk a lot, smoke lots of weed,  every-time you think something positive about her, remind yourself of what an argumentative whore she was and that it only would have become worse had you stayed.  After a few months of this, you're good to go.  What to expect? Peace and quiet and the pending expectation of doing it all again with someone else (probably with the same result - but what the hell eh!)

[BigCyp]

I took 6 months to find out she was pre-op lol

[Knooger]

I took 6 months to find out she was pre-op lol

What did you think it was, a giant skin tag?

[Irongrip400]

Have you left a wife / got divorced?  What to expect?

I have been married for 6 months and its miserable.  Definitely the worst decision of my life.  Our families are both very supportive, but we are just too different and we can't make it 2 days without having a total meltdown fight.  I have to get out before it gets any worse.  What's the best way to go about it, and what do I need to be on the look out for?

What the fuck did you get married for?  Seriously.  I was in one miserable relationship once in my life, and I vowed never again.  I'm married now, and not to be a homo, but she's literally my best friend.  We have the same likes, and enjoy the same topics of conversation.  Throw in the fact shes hot and I'm set.  You should have never let yourself get pressured into that situation man.

[the trainer]

Have you left a wife / got divorced?  What to expect?

I have been married for 6 months and its miserable.  Definitely the worst decision of my life.  Our families are both very supportive, but we are just too different and we can't make it 2 days without having a total meltdown fight.  I have to get out before it gets any worse.  What's the best way to go about it, and what do I need to be on the look out for?

When you are on getbig masturbating to half naked men, leave the door open so she walks in on you, and if you miss your wife after she kicks you out of the house its because you have poor aim.

[LetItRock]

6 months is a little bit short timespan though. Unless you two live together for like 10 years.
On the flip side, 6 months should still be in honeymoon periods and you guys can't get along, something is definitely wrong

[El Diablo Blanco]

she needs to have an accident that causes her death. Make sure you have a solid alibi

[funk51]

Have you left a wife / got divorced?  What to expect?

I have been married for 6 months and its miserable.  Definitely the worst decision of my life.  Our families are both very supportive, but we are just too different and we can't make it 2 days without having a total meltdown fight.  I have to get out before it gets any worse.  What's the best way to go about it, and what do I need to be on the look out for?

[steamboatwillie]

Its hard bro. No matter how much you fight and argue, you still love the person. But sometimes its best to move on. For me, when i was working i was cool, but at home, alone, it sucked. My thing was to re focus on bbing and get back on stage. Dieting and training takes your mind off personal drama

This is my situation exactly.  I do love her, buy I hate being married to her and everyday after working and working out I just get tensed up on my way home.  She has told me we're going to have these problems until I quit the gym and come straight home to do whatever she needs me to do.  Being big and strong is all the identity I have left....she always guilt trips me into not seeing my friends or family, I haven't watched a sporting event or gone out or anything on months.  If I'm not her personal slave she whines and cries about how I don't make her feel special.

[Wiggs]

This is my situation exactly.  I do love her, buy I hate being married to her and everyday after working and working out I just get tensed up on my way home.  She has told me we're going to have these problems until I quit the gym and come straight home to do whatever she needs me to do.  Being big and strong is all the identity I have left....she always guilt trips me into not seeing my friends or family, I haven't watched a sporting event or gone out or anything on months.  If I'm not her personal slave she whines and cries about how I don't make her feel special.

You poor bastard.

[Parker]

This is my situation exactly.  I do love her, buy I hate being married to her and everyday after working and working out I just get tensed up on my way home.  She has told me we're going to have these problems until I quit the gym and come straight home to do whatever she needs me to do.  Being big and strong is all the identity I have left....she always guilt trips me into not seeing my friends or family, I haven't watched a sporting event or gone out or anything on months.  If I'm not her personal slave she whines and cries about how I don't make her feel special.

If being big and strong is the only identity you have left, the. You were doomed from the start.
You sought out a effed up relationship, and now are miserable. You went to the alter with a woman who was going to make your life miserable, and you didn't even see it.
The gym ain't the only thing in this world. And one must be multifaceted in their identity---who are you? Ask yourself, who am I? If all you have is that one thing, then you are a one trick pony, so expect to get rode like one.

[Roger Bacon]

I'm married now, and not to be a homo, but she's literally my best friend. 

 

[steamboatwillie]

It depends a lot on what you are fighting about. Some things can be worked out.
I never called any of mine a name or made a mean , personal insult.
If you don't mind saying, what are the main issues that cause problems between you?.

Our biggest issue is that I have a life outside of us and she doesn't.  She refuses to take care of herself or find a hobby or an activity where she can socialize.  She won't go out with our friends and won't let me without holding it over me for weeks.  She also wants a baby ASAP, and while I'm not against it, I'm not willing to have one now because our situation is so bad.  We have had sex 4 times in 2 months, and now she wants to threaten me by saying she's not going to give me any if I don't quit the gym.  Not that I care anymore, the times we do she just lays there.

[bigmikecox]

This is my situation exactly.  I do love her, buy I hate being married to her and everyday after working and working out I just get tensed up on my way home.  She has told me we're going to have these problems until I quit the gym and come straight home to do whatever she needs me to do.  Being big and strong is all the identity I have left....she always guilt trips me into not seeing my friends or family, I haven't watched a sporting event or gone out or anything on months.  If I'm not her personal slave she whines and cries about how I don't make her feel special.

I ALWAYS explain to every girl I meet that I am a bber! I eat six times a day and go to the gym 4-5 days a week. I only spend an hour at MOST at the gym though. No girl has EVER asked me to stop training. Ive been bbing since I was 15 so if they have an issue, PEACE.

[steamboatwillie]

Leave, never go back, never contact her again, for the next few months, root hookers, watch heaps of porn and masturbate a lot, get drunk a lot, smoke lots of weed,  every-time you think something positive about her, remind yourself of what an argumentative whore she was and that it only would have become worse had you stayed.  After a few months of this, you're good to go.  What to expect? Peace and quiet and the pending expectation of doing it all again with someone else (probably with the same result - but what the hell eh!)

This is actually pretty close to what I'm thinking (besides the hookers, drinking, and weed).  Hell is be stoked to go hang out at TGIFridays one nights with my bros.

[steamboatwillie]

What the fuck did you get married for?  Seriously.  I was in one miserable relationship once in my life, and I vowed never again.  I'm married now, and not to be a homo, but she's literally my best friend.  We have the same likes, and enjoy the same topics of conversation.  Throw in the fact shes hot and I'm set.  You should have never let yourself get pressured into that situation man.

I married her because I loved her, things were working out, our families were happy and supportive....sure we had an argument ever now and then, but things seemed ok.  Once we got back from the honeymoon she seemed like a different girl.  I really never saw this coming.

[240 is Back]

I married her because I loved her, things were working out, our families were happy and supportive....sure we had an argument ever now and then, but things seemed ok.  Once we got back from the honeymoon she seemed like a different girl.  I really never saw this coming.

[steamboatwillie]

When you are on getbig masturbating to half naked men, leave the door open so she walks in on you, and if you miss your wife after she kicks you out of the house its because you have poor aim.

LOL...I do have a giant pic of gunther on our guest bedroom (well, my bedroom now) wall.  Maybe this would work!

[quadzilla456]

Have you left a wife / got divorced?  What to expect?

I have been married for 6 months and its miserable.  Definitely the worst decision of my life.  Our families are both very supportive, but we are just too different and we can't make it 2 days without having a total meltdown fight.  I have to get out before it gets any worse.  What's the best way to go about it, and what do I need to be on the look out for?

For me the best approach is to avoid my wife if we are in a fight. I just go off and do my own thing - clean the car, mow the lawn. Anything. That is the most effective way. Women should not be able to make a man upset for too long. I know it happens, but you're the head of the family. And they respect you more when they see you couldn't care about a little fight and life still goes on.

Of course if you don't care about her then just get out of it.

[Parker]

I ALWAYS explain to every girl I meet that I am a bber! I eat six times a day and go to the gym 4-5 days a week. I only spend an hour at MOST at the gym though. No girl has EVER asked me to stop training. Ive been bbing since I was 15 so if they have an issue, PEACE.

I think you should change that to "I am a man whose hobby is is bbing". Because if you arenot making any money in a lifestyle that requires you to take drugs and pretty much kill your organs, then why do it?
All you'll end up as, is Ronnie Coleman without the Sandows---brokedown and chasing fat chicks, raw no pulling out.

[steamboatwillie]

6 months is a little bit short timespan though. Unless you two live together for like 10 years.
On the flip side, 6 months should still be in honeymoon periods and you guys can't get along, something is definitely wrong

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It is a short time and we did rush things.  I'm 30, she's 28...she wants kids right away....things were going well, we got married after dating for a year and a half.

[Rhomboids]

Have you left a wife / got divorced?  What to expect?

I have been married for 6 months and its miserable.  Definitely the worst decision of my life.  Our families are both very supportive, but we are just too different and we can't make it 2 days without having a total meltdown fight.  I have to get out before it gets any worse.  What's the best way to go about it, and what do I need to be on the look out for?

Hurry up and move out before you have kids.  I'm looking at 10+ years under my belt and after kids, you realize you can't just get out.  Do it while you can and don't think it'll be different with a different woman.  Run bro.