then your absolutely wrong. the average muslim = good people. islam = inherently violent.
That makes great sense

So basically what is a 'good muslim' is what you personally accept, even if it's something as muslims and in islam it may not be something we accept to you may be a 'good' muslim. In whatever relative terms.
A muslim that drinks? A muslim that sleeps around? A muslim that honor kills?
"Good muslims" in your terms? No, there are muslims, who may or may not be following our religion properly and then there is islam.
No knowledgable muslim with faith in God would not follow islam. Ignorance of some muslims not following islam is a problem. Just as ignorance of non muslims is a problem.
You seem confused with your own interpretation of what it is to be a good follower of God. After all you believe that people who are about to be killed should 'show love to their killer'. What demented logic do you use man..
Our knowledge of God and orders from God come through messengers of God not our own vain desires that we come up with.
God sent messengers from amongst ourselves so that we could relate. Not that we get some 'alien dudes' freak us out, but speak in our own common understanding from amongst ourselves. Hence as we believe in islam God sent 124,000 prophets to all mankind to each pertaining group of people, however Muhammad (pbuh) came as a messenger for all mankind this was the final revelation.