ya i know. look this girl isnt crawling to me by any means anymore but she does want me to be her bodyguard and wants me to go with her places once she starts driving shes getting a car in the next week or two ....i told her how i felt about her with other guys and i wouldnt be comfortable with it she said its just her girlfriends ....even offered to pay me too..,,.if i can get paid to hang out with 18 year olds its not the end of the world..
that sounds like a good situation actually. She doesn't want the title, wants to keep her options open, you can respect that.
Drive her around, let her feed you and pay for gas... you'll be the default available d1ck for her and her friends, with no committment to any of them. And any dude driving up with 5 girls in the car must have game, you'll do great in any club yall enter.
Being their designated male wingman sounds like a fine deal!