So what! I CHECK my valuables when other black people are around. Or, to quote Chris Rock, "When I go to the money machine tonight, I'm not looking over my back for the media; I'm looking for N&@^@!."
You foolishly act as if there aren't racist people in the Democrat party (do the names Robert Byrd and Al Gore Sr. ring a bell?).
BTW, there are Democrats that voted for marriage amendments and vehemently against gay "marriage", particularly BLACK DEMOCRATS. Heck, the Defense of Marriage Act was passed by SEVERAL DEMOCRATS in Congress (including the current VP) and signed into law by the very former president, helping Obama campaign.
But, keep voting in step with them.
You've scratched the surface of a dirty secret the Democrats aren't supposed to talk about: many blacks -- and thus by extension a fair portion of Democrats -- are as religious, socially regressive, racist, and just plain dumb as any stereotypical Tea Partier. I don't enjoy saying these things and they are no doubt contingent facts (i.e., they can and hopefully will change over time), but there they are all the same.