Look. I'll just add one more thought, maybe it's the vodka tonic. If you have a spark about you, If you have a love of life and a thirst for fun, then women who would otherwise never give you a second glance will give you a third or a fourth one. We sell women so short, but they really are the fairer sex. Women want a man who is positive, they want a man who will lift their baby on his shoulders and promise that little kid the stars above. Women are not like us, they are not as superficial as us and they do not mentally calculate bodyfat percentage based on a tiny photo.
It's possible they are better people than us because they bear a heavier burden than we do.
The vodka tonic's may have cleared you thinking. Most men never understand what a woman wants in a man. Most women don't really even know what they want in a man. The proof of the pudding is in looking at successful relationships between people.
One thing that most women appreciate in a man is a good sense of humor. Regardless of how successful a woman may be, she still wants to feel protected by the man in her life in some way. Men often confuse this with meaning they are physically more powerful in a world where physical powers have little meaning. Men also confuse this today with earning power....as if it were so simple.
My stepdad often said, "Not matter how old or wise you get, you will never understand completely how a woman thinks." I think he knew something a lot of men today don't.
