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Author Topic: how can one tell when a woman is alcohol addicted?  (Read 2398 times)
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« on: November 24, 2012, 01:17:37 PM »

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« Reply #1 on: November 24, 2012, 01:18:55 PM »

I think the answer is yes, she has a problem lol
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« Reply #2 on: November 24, 2012, 01:27:13 PM »

I think it comes down to whether or not it is affecting her work, health, finances, and relationships negatively.
Surely a 120 pound woman drinking like that all the time is an alcoholic.
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« Reply #3 on: November 24, 2012, 01:28:07 PM »

0.5l vodka in 5 hours?

Thats alcoholic. She drinks often, don't believe the once or twice a week bs.
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« Reply #4 on: November 24, 2012, 01:31:51 PM »

is there an addiction if she doesnt drink every day, but close to unconsiousness like twice a week, aka, whenever she gets ahold of alc and has enough time?

is half a liter wodka within 5hours reason for concern?


were talking about a 120lbs woman,in this case.


when they say its just to get more relaxed, but every time, they go full out and seemingly cant wait for more, the more drunk they are?

also, if they actually continue drinking some minutes just after they vomited?



Why are you asking bro, do you want to get involved with such a person? Does it matter if she's not yet a full blown alcoholic?
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« Reply #5 on: November 24, 2012, 01:37:10 PM »

Just after your about to go home plate after getting to third on the first night you meet she and she utters these 6 words before going down...."I have never done this before"

That, my friend says yes right there
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« Reply #6 on: November 24, 2012, 01:41:55 PM »

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« Reply #7 on: November 24, 2012, 01:42:05 PM »

Has she EVER tried to hide her consumption of booze from you?

Does she have memory loss the next day after drinking? Real memory loss, not just "I sort of remember that" type memory loss.
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« Reply #8 on: November 24, 2012, 01:42:16 PM »

is there an addiction if she doesnt drink every day, but close to unconsiousness like twice a week, aka, whenever she gets ahold of alc and has enough time?

is half a liter wodka within 5hours reason for concern?


were talking about a 120lbs woman,in this case.


when they say its just to get more relaxed, but every time, they go full out and seemingly cant wait for more, the more drunk they are?

also, if they actually continue drinking some minutes just after they vomited?




i would suggest that she may have a problem...

with alcohol the best approach is not to confront people... try not to enable the drinking if it bothers you and try to create situations that prevent drinking (like having her drive you somewhere when you know she planned to drink)...

tough one though, good luck
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« Reply #9 on: November 24, 2012, 01:58:16 PM »

no never attempted to hide it, sees it as if its the most natural thing in the world to do, while having extreme anti drugs stance. Roll Eyes

yes, memory loss of serious level, typically.
yeah, she says we should do this and that but ends up always somewhere where theres opurtunity to get a drink.

ok this is kinda fresh, but there is a pattern, no doub.

claims can stop at any time...


tough one dude... alcohol is a killer...

only other think i can think of is to record her drunken antics and show them to her the next day...
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« Reply #10 on: November 24, 2012, 02:10:16 PM »

I've got lifetime of experience with alcoholics. I won't expose any details here for obvious reasons but let's say that on top of obvious family problems I have tendency to attract people with such issues.

Without any doubt: DUMB HER. Leave her. There is no "help".

Alcoholics are master manipulators. I don't even consider them as humans. They're living zombies, horrible, void creatures and whatever illusion of humanity they create is fake. She may not be in the "zombie" stage, that's usually at the point they realise (but never fully) they have a problem. She is still very dangerous to you and your sorroundings.

The very fact that you care is enough of a proof that you're not emotionless bastard. She can use you, play on your emotions and fuck your mind for good.

Don't get fooled, she WILL go down, REGARDLESS of whatever you or anyone else might do.
Stay the fuck out of it.
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« Reply #11 on: November 24, 2012, 02:14:00 PM »

I've got lifetime of experience with alcoholics. I won't expose any details here for obvious reasons but let's say that on top of obvious family problems I have tendency to attract people with such issues.

Without any doubt: DUMB HER. Leave her. There is no "help".

Alcoholics are master manipulators. I don't even consider them as humans. They're living zombies, horrible, void creatures and whatever illusion of humanity they create is fake. She may not be in the "zombie" stage, that's usually at the point they realise (but never fully) they have a problem. She is still very dangerous to you and your sorroundings.

The very fact that you care is enough of a proof that you're not emotionless bastard. She can use you, play on your emotions and fuck your mind for good.

Don't get fooled, she WILL go down, REGARDLESS of whatever you or anyone else might do.
Stay the fuck out of it.

Yes, you won't "expose" any details here for "obvious" reasons, yet you just told a bunch of strangers on the internet that you come from a family of alcoholics.
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« Reply #12 on: November 24, 2012, 02:14:33 PM »

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« Reply #13 on: November 24, 2012, 02:15:51 PM »

Yes, you won't "expose" any details here for "obvious" reasons, yet you just told a bunch of strangers on the internet that you come from a family of alcoholics.

I am from Poland, I think every second family here has this issue. You know I'm Polish, it's as informing as telling you I'm blonde.
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« Reply #14 on: November 24, 2012, 02:15:57 PM »

Alcoholics are master manipulators. I don't even consider them as humans. They're living zombies, horrible, void creatures and whatever illusion of humanity they create is fake. She may not be in the "zombie" stage, that's usually at the point they realise (but never fully) they have a problem. She is still very dangerous to you and your sorroundings.

The very fact that you care is enough of a proof that you're not emotionless bastard. She can use you, play on your emotions and fuck your mind for good.

Not only that, but the manipulator will paint it as YOUR FAULT when all is said and done.  YOU will be the one remembered as the a-hole for "not being there" for her.

alcoholics are masters at getting pity from others
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« Reply #15 on: November 24, 2012, 02:20:28 PM »

its like jekkyl and hyde scenario after couple drinks.

im soo on probation,and theres already been couple "oppurtunities" to break that and thus, send my life down the shitter.

like, say, she expects to be protected when out, but seeks trouble when drunk with any random ppl.


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« Reply #16 on: November 24, 2012, 02:21:27 PM »

its like jekkyl and hyde scenario after couple drinks.

either its not that bad or she is deluding herself into believing its all good when its a disaster of massive proportions.
im having similiar thoughts,man.

im soo on probation,and theres already been couple "oppurtunities" to break that and thus, send my life down the shitter.

like, say, she expects to be protected when out, but seeks trouble when drunk with any random ppl.

yeah, also pretends to be conservative family kinda girl Roll Eyes

yeah,im no emotionless guy,brother, esp when they look good Grin

ill be careful in this case and not open myself up too much, ill see how it goes and what it affects. Cool



Those kind of girls are more trouble then they're worth.
You should bang her and move on. This type needs attention and drama constantly.
Look up "histrionic personality disorder" and tell me if you see similarities.
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« Reply #17 on: November 24, 2012, 02:22:34 PM »

Those kind of girls are not trouble then they're worth.
You should bang her and move on. This type needs attention and drama constantly.
Look up "histrionic personality disorder" and tell me if you see similarities.

Here come the diagnoses!
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« Reply #18 on: November 24, 2012, 02:31:42 PM »

Here come the diagnoses!

I'm actually on board with that, as I've experienced it first hand myself. Chick i was hitting many years ago, seemed normal....would get FUCKED UP and turn into a nightmare....i'm a 20 year old disco boy, and she takes me to a fucking biker bar and starts talking mad shit to everyone, i almost got killed, as in shot in a fucking alley.
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« Reply #19 on: November 24, 2012, 02:34:24 PM »

I'm actually on board with that, as I've experienced it first hand myself. Chick i was hitting many years ago, seemed normal....would get FUCKED UP and turn into a nightmare....i'm a 20 year old disco boy, and she takes me to a fucking biker bar and starts talking mad shit to everyone, i almost got killed, as in shot in a fucking alley.

Yep!

That's what's in store.
They don't give a shit about you.
Pump her and move on. Let her be someone else's liability.
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« Reply #20 on: November 24, 2012, 02:34:31 PM »

I'm actually on board with that, as I've experienced it first hand myself. Chick i was hitting many years ago, seemed normal....would get FUCKED UP and turn into a nightmare....i'm a 20 year old disco boy, and she takes me to a fucking biker bar and starts talking mad shit to everyone, i almost got killed, as in shot in a fucking alley.


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« Reply #21 on: November 24, 2012, 02:35:14 PM »

whats this saying mean?


means she doesn't know when to stop
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« Reply #22 on: November 24, 2012, 02:37:36 PM »

same way as you can tell the same about a man
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« Reply #23 on: November 24, 2012, 02:39:35 PM »

bad situation dude
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« Reply #24 on: November 24, 2012, 02:39:45 PM »


lol

I can laugh now, wasn't so funny at the time...I thought I was dead.  these guys wanted to seriously fuck me up and there were like 12 of them. Thank GOD the "leader" wasn't a dickhead, and saw it was all the chicks doing. he suggested we leave, she didn't want to and i fucking left her there and never saw her again.
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