see.. ive dated within my race more so when i was a lot younger.... I just happened to be more attracted 2 certain traits/appeal from women... location and economic class played a major role in the type of women i had encountered.OC girls from cali wer way too superficial for me-->white or asian.. sidenote: my lady was never even really attracted to my muscles ..but more so to my humor n ambitious personality
i look a lot at personal values and that seems to reflect on a woman's entire being and her actions
it just so happens that personal values for women are very much so culturally based. i tend to not go for asian girls, not because i don't find them attractive, but on average they are timid and shy as fuck which i find completely unnatractive
i agree that so-cal women are extremely superficial, very materialistic. but you can't blame them too much because of all the money in socal and the money attracting a greater quality of life that can be seen with their very own eyes. they've become that way because of the socal culture...
did you know your woman before you had any idea you would be going to medical school? i'm just saying, even if she sees you for your humor and ambition, you aren't her and you don't know exactly what her true primal instinctive motives are.