That's pretty selfish of you to shape her to suit your needs. And way to describe getting "sucked off dry/fuck". Sounds like you've brainwashed/repressed her. Aren't you a advocate of Christianity or something like that?
A woman is only happy when her man is happy. Women are only happy when they re shaped by their man, and the only way a man stays faithful to a woman is when she accepted to be entierely shaped by him which benefits to everyone in the family. As long as said man follows God's words she has no fear of being mistreated. A woman look for a benevolent father in her husband, who will be fair, tender, yet will correct her and fuck her , submit her when required. The point of a relationship is to perfect each others to create an even more perfet offspring, by following God's words.
Before talking about Christianity , Couples and the Bible, make sure you know what you re talking about or you might end looking like an ignorant smartass.