Better date a virgin, or at least a girl pretending to be cause she s ashamed of her past sexual intercourse(s). Virginity is not something to joke with. It symbolized a lot of important things and says a lot about someone; staying strong and pure while others failed and got tainted.
Most people should find a soulsister of the same age during their adolescence and stick with it for the rest of their lives, this is the only process that increases the odds of understanding and improving each others with patience and to produce a quality offspring.
Animalistic sex with no afterthoughts cannot happen every single time you have sex, most of the time sex is more than just a casual leisure, it implies a lot of others things. Sex without love, attachement , is unhealthy, as simple as that. And you still can have brainless sex with the woman or man you married, if both respect each others genuinely and take care of themselves to offer the best they can to their chosen loved one.
Most single men coming from dysfunctional atheist families date different women to constantly experience an animalistic, brainless sexual intercourse everysingle time, but it has nothing to do with "making love"; it's about "fucking". Truth is that in most cases, that's because they cannot do anything else, they are unable to develop deeper relationships with others because they come from families where caregivers werent able to develop meaningful relationships either.