Guys, how long do you wait to reply to a woman who has contacted you on POF. I'm new to this online dating stuff.
I checked out her profile and she's definitely my type.
So now she knows I checked her profile and haven't responded...
The key is to always have other things around you to keep yourself occupied with, and not to take dating sites seriously. Respond when you want to respond, but dont care at the same time. It should come off naturally, not by playing "waiting games". Often, the girls are much quicker to respond, and then its much easier to hold back and set the tone/balance. Dont play these mind games, it will be what it is - but the most important thing is NOT to take it seriously and get overexcited.
As for girls in general. They all fucking suck! All of them. Ive had so many let downs with them, being the manipulate, fake whores they are - I simply DO NOT GIVE A SINGLE FUCK anymore about any of them. My motto is: Fuck em and leave em! Just like that. These girls have no shame what so ever, and think they can play around with you like some toy whenever they want. So yeah, like said so many times in this thread, the best thing is to ignore them, because the fact of the matter is - they dont DESERVE your attention anyway!
If you really want a girl, let them come to you. Dont be a Beta male and beg for these whores attention. Most men are pathetic when it comes to this stuff, and most of them dont even care if shes a 10 or just a 2, because Beta males are so desperate that they`ll take anything as long as they get it. I created a fake girl profile on a dating site the other day, and just after a couple of days I had over 200 requests from horny Beta males sending me all kinds of pathetic messages, chat requests, winks, and stupid pick up lines. Then I look on my own profile, and its just zero activity.
The problem is and always have been men giving girls the power by showering them with attention and acting desperate. Girls simply have the power to choose and get whatever and whoever they want. Men simply dont. At least not Beta males, but even Alpha males dont really obtain this power. The girl has to be 5 or under in order for it to be some what successful.
But like I said, your best chances - and particulary on dating sites, is to not care and let them come to you. If ANY girls shows just the slightest of interest by sending you a message or talking to you, you have allready won. The rest is just to follow up and keep it/your cool. The other way around is much harder to come out on top, but if your going to be aggressor, here is what you do: Display sheer amount of confidence, smile, flirt, be charming, be humourus, work out and keep your body in fit shape, dominate and take controll of every situation. And of course, you dont just act like that to one girl only, you do that to all of the girls around you wherever and whenever. Let the girls know that you dont really need them and that they are not anything special to you, by showing the same kind of attitude to all of them. Move quickly over to another chick right after flirting with a other, in order to keep them in check and make them want you. GIRLS DO THIS TO MEN ALL THE TIME, WHY NOT DO THE SAME TO THEM!? They just love being all over you for a brief moment, and them move over to the next guy, making you pissed off in the process. Thats how they create power over you, but you can do this as well - because like I said, all you have to do is to NOT CARE and get attached to any of them. Treat them like objects to play with, because lets be honest - that is what we men are to women anyway. Its time for the MEN to take the power back, and show these bitches whos the boss!
So all in all, whatever games you play - always remember to stay in controll whether your going to be passive or aggressive. Dont let ANY girl get controll over you and dont get attached to 1 girl only unless you reeeeeeeeaally like her, and if thats the case you have to make 100 % sure that shes the real deal, and most likely will not fuck you over. Because belivie me, even the sweetest, nicest, innocent girl will fuck you over just like that! It happened to me, it could happen to you. Girls are cold animals and have no shame as long as they get what they want. Theyr selfish
girls and not to be taken lightly. You are better off chasing power and wealth, because in the end - that is what women want as well, so you can just pick them up along the way.
True approved.
