I have had several issues ever since I joined this "Elite" gym in my hometown. First it was the loud shitty techno/pop, then it was the vacuuming 3 times a day in between your legs while you are trying to work out. Then it was the tae bo class that was fit for 30 yet there were 50 people and you kept stepping on each other, the locker room where you open the door and everyone in the hallway can see you naked (I got a few appreciative glances from a couple of hot chicks

) and the list goes on.
Friday, after I finished my 300 reps for abs and 1 hour of cardio, I notice this chick waiting for me next to the treadmill. She asks me if I am the guy who dislikes loud music and proceeds to inquire when will I leave the gym. She also explained to me that we are not here to hear each other breathe and so on. I look at her not amused and explained that the complaints are to be taken up with the management not with me. I tried hard to be polite. Then I went downstairs at the front desk and in a less polite tone asked who the fuck told her I want the music toned down and why did she come to me. So I find out that the front desk girl, who I explained in a previous day that the music is too loud, pointed me out and gave her my name.
Yesterday, I was working out with my friends, and I spot a good friend from Pakistan who did the 3D illustrations for my website and my book. This guy is incredible at what he does and I get along very well with islamic oriented cultures and their people. I told him to join and that the gym is ok. He leaves me a message later on facebook that they told him they have no more room and they will call HIM whenever (a day, a week, a month EVENTUALLY). I thought it was a bad joke and asked this morning the same retarded front desk girl. She reasons AGAIN her idiotic decision and I leave fuming (AGAIN).
I will talk again with the manager who must be not the sharpest tool in the shed this evening. One time they did not let my friend who later still joined to come up and talk to me because they respect their member's privacy. No shit! I guess it applies selectively.
So, should I still stay polite? Or should I explain him about confidentiality clause in the contract, racial profiling?
I will still go there because I want to embarass bodybuilding wise their trainer who takes a shitload and told me he is clean but used a little winstrol 3 months ago. People will gawk at me when I am done with the second phase of my transformation.

Thoughts?