help a broke guy in the dating game

[flinstones1]

do you pay for the girls food on first date yes or no? All of the women Ive been out with have been nice chicks.....I always say im not gonna pay but ther polite about it "you want me to pay"

no i got it....


blew 40 bucks this week. I cant keep doing this....I thought I had it sealed last sunday at the beachnot a restaurant in sight... and sure enough the bitch got like 10 bucks of icecream and pretzels    

chick hits me up just texted me now for sushi, I didnt even respond to her ass.  bleh....think im gonna go hit the gym

[Henda]

No never.

[Obvious Gimmick]

sushi is fucking expensive dude. tell that bitch to open a can of tuna, get to sucking and don't neglect the balls.

[NotSure]

do you pay for the girls food on first date yes or no? All of the women Ive been out with have been nice chicks.....I always say im not gonna pay but ther polite about it "you want me to pay"

no i got it....


blew 40 bucks this week. I cant keep doing this....I thought I had it sealed last sunday at the beachnot a restaurant in sight... and sure enough the bitch got like 10 bucks of icecream and pretzels    

chick hits me up just texted me now for sushi, I didnt even respond to her ass.  bleh....think im gonna go hit the gym

Ohh boy.. here comes our resident dumbass/scumbag complaining about spending money on a "whore". Grow up fucking loser. Maybe you can get a free ride living off your brother and then fuck his girlfriend while you are at it. A solution that might help you is to get a fucking job. You aren't a stable enough people mentally, or financially to date women anyway.

[MAXX]

haha no you don't owe her anything you don't even know eachother. stop being a bitch..

[King Shizzo]

do you pay for the girls food on first date yes or no? All of the women Ive been out with have been nice chicks.....I always say im not gonna pay but ther polite about it "you want me to pay"

no i got it....


blew 40 bucks this week. I cant keep doing this....I thought I had it sealed last sunday at the beachnot a restaurant in sight... and sure enough the bitch got like 10 bucks of icecream and pretzels    

chick hits me up just texted me now for sushi, I didnt even respond to her ass.  bleh....think im gonna go hit the gym

Nobody says you have to spend extravagant amounts of money. You can't be a bumb either.

[Jadeveon Clowney]

get a job - that way this won't even be an issue unless you let it be one.

[Big N]

do you pay for the girls food on first date yes or no? All of the women Ive been out with have been nice chicks.....I always say im not gonna pay but ther polite about it "you want me to pay"

no i got it....


blew 40 bucks this week. I cant keep doing this....I thought I had it sealed last sunday at the beachnot a restaurant in sight... and sure enough the bitch got like 10 bucks of icecream and pretzels    

chick hits me up just texted me now for sushi, I didnt even respond to her ass.  bleh....think im gonna go hit the gym

I'm sorry bro but your game is weak, for now at least but that's ok. Just take this as a learning experience to get better at what you do with these broads. I'm too tired to type and getting ready to head out soon, but keep these 5 factors in mind with dating:

1- Is she hot enough for you to spend money.
2- Does she really find interest in you or not.
3- Is she using you for her own entertainment.
4- Does she show any type of affection towards you.
5- If she doesn't give you a kiss by the 2nd or 3rd date then dump her fast, and you dump her so fast make her walk home.

And always remember this, pussy will cost you money whether its dating, marriage or prostitutes. That's just the way it is, but just know how much she is worth before you bang her.

[dustin]

If it's just coffee, I'd probably buy. But if it's sushi, fuck that. If she expected me to be a push over and pay for her sushi on a first date, no. That's creepy... I think most chicks around here would probably hit you up on the sushi and then not date you again because of being such a pushover. I'm not even cheap, but I think it's more stupid than anything.

Haven't really dated in a long time. Mostly just courted bitches, hung out and did whatever, no formal dates really, and then I'd end up sleeping with them. Never had an existential crisis over paying for a date, how long I should wait to text back or bang, etc. Just go with the flow.

[King Shizzo]

If it's just coffee, I'd probably buy. But if it's sushi, fuck that. If she expected me to be a push over and pay for her sushi on a first date, no. That's creepy... I think most chicks around here would probably hit you up on the sushi and then not date you again because of being such a pushover. I'm not even cheap, but I think it's more stupid than anything.

Haven't really dated in a long time. Mostly just courted bitches, hung out and did whatever, no formal dates really, and then I'd end up sleeping with them. Never had an existential crisis over paying for a date, how long I should wait to text back or bang, etc. Just go with the flow.

Ummm. I thought the man always payed on the FIRST DATE. It's called being a man.

[NotSure]

Ummm. I thought the man always payed on the FIRST DATE. It's called being a man.

This threads full of slack jawed fag-gots. They think they are men but they know nothing of the sort.

[SF1900]

Its difficult to decide if you should pay for the first date, considering some women are just there for the free first dinner, with no intentions of a second date.

Always make the first meeting or two casual. A cup of coffee or something. If she could put up meeting you just for coffee 1 or 2 times, and wants a 3rd date, then you know she is into you more than just a free dinner. If she doesnt want a 3rd date, you know its because you did not spend the big bucks on the first 2 dates. Youre better off.

SF1900 Approved

[dustin]

Ummm. I thought the man always payed on the FIRST DATE. It's called being a man.

If I felt the girl was really worth it and it was going somewhere, I would consider it. But if it's meeting a bitch for the first time and she wants to go for sushi, I'd probably not pony up. A piece of sashimi where I live costs $3... I'll eat at least $60-$70 alone. Plus the girls I'm friends with tell me they look down on guys who try doing the old school chivalrous bullshit and laugh at it.

If I were single I wouldn't have to pay for pussy. If I wanted to go that route I'd get an escort to suck my dong instead and call a spade a spade.

[Akeelsolid]

do you pay for the girls food on first date yes or no? All of the women Ive been out with have been nice chicks.....I always say im not gonna pay but ther polite about it "you want me to pay"

no i got it....


blew 40 bucks this week. I cant keep doing this....I thought I had it sealed last sunday at the beachnot a restaurant in sight... and sure enough the bitch got like 10 bucks of icecream and pretzels    

chick hits me up just texted me now for sushi, I didnt even respond to her ass.  bleh....think im gonna go hit the gym

Flint-
I thought you were building a house?  Just focus on you, and things will shape up, you will see.

[WOOO]

answer:
-never pay for the girl on the first date... respect their equality
-set the expectation that you're going out as friends (dutch)
-if you have to pay for it then just pay for it (whores)

do you pay for the girls food on first date yes or no? All of the women Ive been out with have been nice chicks.....I always say im not gonna pay but ther polite about it "you want me to pay"

no i got it....


blew 40 bucks this week. I cant keep doing this....I thought I had it sealed last sunday at the beachnot a restaurant in sight... and sure enough the bitch got like 10 bucks of icecream and pretzels    

chick hits me up just texted me now for sushi, I didnt even respond to her ass.  bleh....think im gonna go hit the gym

[King Shizzo]

If I felt the girl was really worth it and it was going somewhere, I would consider it. But if it's meeting a bitch for the first time and she wants to go for sushi, I'd probably not pony up. A piece of sashimi where I live costs $3... I'll eat at least $60-$70 alone. Plus the girls I'm friends with tell me they look down on guys who try doing the old school chivalrous bullshit and laugh at it.

If I were single I wouldn't have to pay for pussy. If I wanted to go that route I'd get an escort to suck my dong instead and call a spade a spade.

Jesus christ (pun intended) You guys don't know when a girl is worthy of a "first date?" If you like the girl, you pay. If you want to fuck the girl.......you pay.  It always winds up with you paying.  Down the road is when you start splitting the bill/alternating. Poon=money.

[dustin]

Jesus christ (pun intended) You guys don't know when a girl is worthy of a "first date?" If you like the girl, you pay. If you want to fuck the girl.......you pay.  It always winds up with you paying.  Down the road is when you start splitting the bill/alternating. Poon=money.

What about guys like me who never grew up having to pay for pussy?

This is about flint as well. The dude's broke and this ho is asking to go out for sushi. Given the circumstances, I wouldn't pay. Especially if I were strapped for cash... that's just desperate to me, not chivalrous.

[flinstones1]

I'm sorry bro but your game is weak, for now at least but that's ok. Just take this as a learning experience to get better at what you do with these broads. I'm too tired to type and getting ready to head out soon, but keep these 5 factors in mind with dating:

1- Is she hot enough for you to spend money.
2- Does she really find interest in you or not.
3- Is she using you for her own entertainment.
4- Does she show any type of affection towards you.
5- If she doesn't give you a kiss by the 2nd or 3rd date then dump her fast, and you dump her so fast make her walk home.

And always remember this, pussy will cost you money whether its dating, marriage or prostitutes. That's just the way it is, but just know how much she is worth before you bang her.

Oh no man I was referring to first dates exclusively. And yeah your right my game is pretty weak,  I was with the same girl for a long time, I turned 20 a few months ago and at the time I was  new to dating ..I have an older cousin who knows tons of chicks out here so usually Id just hang out with him and there was girls running around everywhere with alchohol and Im 220 lean so you can probably do the math hah. and ya I got one m talking to, who I would spend 100 bucks on sushi shes that hot...Straight up fucking 10 I gotta think where Im gonna take her. I havent seen a better looking girl posted on GB personally...anyway i can post her pic without someone finding her url or FB? someone pm me

[King Shizzo]

Flinstones, it depends on what you want out of it. You just want pussy? Go to a club or something first, and see if you can hook up.  Do you like the girl? You fucking pay! Nobody said you have to act like a beta. True alpha males pay for a woman on the FIRST DATE. If you don't have the money, then only save up for women you like. Easy.

[King Shizzo]

when the bill is brought to you 2, just look the other way, persistently.
 

ask her if shes for equal rights and emanzipation, if so, she should be emanzipated enough to pay

tell her you forgot the pocket at home

Quickest way to go home alone. Or attract a stage 5 clinger.

[King Shizzo]

whats this mean if she dont give you a kiss?

you serious?

you just kiss her on first date,tongue down the neck, if it fails it wasnt meant to happen-last.

 

Thats called rape in most lands. Do you wear Addidas track suits 24/7?

[Mattyh7688]

I met a girl out for drinks last thursday.. She kept persisting to put drinks on her tab and kept buying drinks all night.. She spent close to $80 on the night..  I spent about the same including a late night dinner/breakfast place which is cheap lol. I was attracted to her offering to pay for so much, even though I tried to not let her. I then banged her in a parking lot.

  However, I always try to pay on the first date though.. usually for several dates after too. Hell with my whore of an ex I paid for everything all the time so wtf do i know.

[flinstones1]

What about guys like me who never grew up having to pay for pussy?

This is about flint as well. The dude's broke and this ho is asking to go out for sushi. Given the circumstances, I wouldn't pay. Especially if I were strapped for cash... that's just desperate to me, not chivalrous.

I mean yeah Im pretty honest about my life..... I dont have a car, broke my hand lifting a fridge the size of a pick up truck all for 7 bucks an hour and just said fuck it......

....I mean.last sunday I had to ride my bike to meet this chick no buses in my area. Had to call a taxi to the last one...had to have one pick me up the last time. Of course I pull the usual bullshit "I just moved here Im shipping my car back and it wont be here for a week" and they buy it...Im good with talking....but dating is all i got. no boys to go out to clubs and bars and parties and shit not here anyways....I mean I try to make friends with dudes my age  but they never hit me up to go out. To be fair I wouldnt wanna a dude with my physique   around their women either but ya it sucks cause I am a nice guy.  Im sure some of yall could relate young kids just hate on you if they think your a threat, the cats i do hang out with are usually dudes in their late twenties and thirties but there all married and shit. Makaveli is almost 30 he's settlling down too so Im flyin solo.

[SF1900]

I mean yeah Im pretty honest about my life..... I dont have a car, broke my hand lifting a fridge the size of a pick up truck all for 7 bucks an hour and just said fuck it......

....I mean.last sunday I had to ride my bike to meet this chick no buses in my area. Had to call a taxi to the last one...had to have one pick me up the last time. Of course I pull the usual bullshit "I just moved here Im shipping my car back and it wont be here for a week" and they buy it...Im good with talking....but dating is all i got. no boys to go out to clubs and bars and parties and shit not here anyways....I mean I try to make friends with dudes my age  but they never hit me up to go out. To be fair I wouldnt wanna a dude with my physique   around their women either but ya it sucks cause I am a nice guy.  Im sure some of yall could relate young kids just hate on you if they think your a threat, the cats i do hang out with are usually dudes in their late twenties and thirties but there all married and shit. Makaveli is almost 30 he's settlling down too so Im flyin solo.

 

How did she react when you showed up on your bike? Did you have pegs? She could have gotten on the back.

[King Shizzo]

I mean yeah Im pretty honest about my life..... I dont have a car, broke my hand lifting a fridge the size of a pick up truck all for 7 bucks an hour and just said fuck it......

....I mean.last sunday I had to ride my bike to meet this chick no buses in my area. Had to call a taxi to the last one...had to have one pick me up the last time. Of course I pull the usual bullshit "I just moved here Im shipping my car back and it wont be here for a week" and they buy it...Im good with talking....but dating is all i got. no boys to go out to clubs and bars and parties and shit not here anyways....I mean I try to make friends with dudes my age  but they never hit me up to go out. To be fair I wouldnt wanna a dude with my physique   around their women either but ya it sucks cause I am a nice guy.  Im sure some of yall could relate young kids just hate on you if they think your a threat, the cats i do hang out with are usually dudes in their late twenties and thirties but there all married and shit. Makaveli is almost 30 he's settlling down too so Im flyin solo.

Grow up.