I'll tell you what girls like.
They like a big jacked dude who looks like a meathead, but doesn't act like one. The key is to NEVER bring up the subject of working out or fitness of any sort. Only talk about it if they bring it up, but always downplay it. Make them think there is more to you than just that. Talk about other things. Then you are a total catch to a chick.
I totally agree with your whole post, but thats why im saying its stupid to stand around in a club looking all big, like any one gives a shit.
Get one the dance floor and boogie abit.
Here in Australia, where im from, clubs are very noisy, you cannot talk to any one there pretty much. So if you are not talking, and you are not dancing, why even go , LOL ?