Only 1 date. Do not want to FB friend her yet!
Thats a serious commitment in the Facebook world. Once you become FB friends, youre practically married
Text her and say this:
"Really weird question: can you spell your first name exactly how its meant to be spelled" - she will text back and you'll be in the clear, when she asks why, say, you'll see :-)
Plan a date with her, give her a small bouquet of flowers with a card that says "Her name - you're worth a second date and you're worth flowers as beautiful as you"
Then when you give her the flowers say, sorry I know many girls with your name spell it differently and I didn't want to butcher the first set of flowers I get you....
Girls like this cheesy ass crap!