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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #75 on: December 30, 2005, 01:13:24 PM »
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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #76 on: December 30, 2005, 01:24:26 PM »
LOL @ Onlyme!

I guess someone had to say it. :)

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #77 on: December 30, 2005, 01:40:45 PM »
Many women think: more muscle = less brain

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #78 on: December 30, 2005, 01:42:36 PM »
Lets get rid of the notion that Heffner is leading the lifestyle every man wants to live.
The man had a brilliant idea and it worked when he was in his 40s en 50s. He is 70-something, he hasn't changed, clinging to this fake imperium he created, where everything is controlled and scheduled. Stupid blonde bimbos that surround him purely for the fame, they lose their independance and Hugh has his show. He will never be loved by them, he turned himself from the ultimate playboy into a characature. He has everything he wants but is left undoubtedly emotionally deprived and barren.....No, I do not envy the man.


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When he goes out with the girls they have there own private room, WTF, why bother going out? It's not like his pad's to small. The fun of going out is to meet people and to prance about..

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #79 on: December 30, 2005, 01:43:33 PM »
WHEN THE GIRLS LIKE YOUR MUSCLES ITS TIME TO GO BACK TO THE GYM

^Word, nugga.   >:(

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #80 on: December 30, 2005, 03:01:13 PM »
Lets get rid of the notion that Heffner is leading the lifestyle every man wants to live.
The man had a brilliant idea and it worked when he was in his 40s en 50s. He is 70-something, he hasn't changed, clinging to this fake imperium he created, where everything is controlled and scheduled. Stupid blonde bimbos that surround him purely for the fame, they lose their independance and Hugh has his show. He will never be loved by them, he turned himself from the ultimate playboy into a characature. He has everything he wants but is left undoubtedly emotionally deprived and barren.....No, I do not envy the man.


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When he goes out with the girls they have there own private room, WTF, why bother going out? It's not like his pad's to small. The fun of going out is to meet people and to prance about..

You just want to be loved. Is that too much to ask!

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #81 on: December 30, 2005, 04:03:06 PM »
Ahh! My favorite thing about a guy's body (besides his smile) is his arms! I compelty love arms... but I don't like big buff guys either. It grosses me out. Plus, it shows that most of there life is devoted to weightlifting and I don't want to be involved with some one when that's like all they do.
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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #82 on: December 30, 2005, 04:10:40 PM »
Wearing those dreadful jumpsuits and fanny packs are not the way to a girl's heart either.  Plus waht the drugs do to the faces is repulsive.

Go to any amateur show and the women find the guys hot.

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #83 on: December 30, 2005, 05:24:01 PM »
Hahahaha! Guys, thank you for a thoroughly enjoyable thread!
I can't remember when I've laughed so hard.

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Reading clued out body builders discussing what women find attractive: PRICELESS!!!  ;D

Serge218 hit the nail on the head when he said:

Facts are facts.  Women find pro bodybuilders repulsive.  We all know this fact but bodybuilding fans respect the work the athletes put in to develop their physiques.  Fitness models and a small segment of women find the pro bodybuilding physique attractive but a majority of women think a man that is 5’10, and weighs 260 with 6% body fat looks stupid.

You might find it hard to swallow, but as a general rule, the majority of women do NOT like body builders. That's a fact. It has nothing to do with stealing the limelight... it's about aesthetics. Most women think that kind of exaggerated musculature is flat out gross looking and repulsive. While many women can appreciate and respect the hard work and dedication it takes to achieve, only a very small % of the female population will find it attractive. It's not a big deal, there are enough bb groupies out there, ...just find one of them.

And yes Matt, women ARE just as attracted to the visual as men are, however, what avid bodybuilders who worship the pros may think is visually attractive can be, and quite often is completely different from what most women consider visually appealing. We also take into account other factors which weigh into our overall determination of whether we find a guy attractive or not. You all laughed at MOS but he wasn't far off the mark when he said: 

Women like men that are tall, healthy, lean, attractive, educated, wealthy, cultured, strong, family-oriented, sensitive, goal-oriented, romantic, fun, dedicated and very well-endowed.

This leaves out about 99% of the bb population.

MOS

And as much as I hate agreeing with a guy who uses the screen name SUCKMYMUSCLE, he was also pretty accurate when he said:

  Darwinian fitness predicts, that women, are attracted to athletic and fit men. However, the deformed muscularity, of the pros, makes them look like their sick-which they are-and women look for signes of health on their mates. Extreme muscularity is not attractive because it is a sign tha there's something wrong with that man. Did my explanation help you?

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I think Dan-O hit a bulls-eye when he said:

Most bodybuilders are selfish, narcissistic, egocentric assholes, and women who know a thing or two realize that.  And quite a few posters on Getbig validate that presumption on a daily basis.

But hands down the Blue Ribbon goes to Gatomjp.

It's dangerous to generalize. That's why those articles in men's magazines...'What Women Want" are usually more confusing than helpful. Interview 20 women and you will get 20 different opinions about what is hot.

Having said that, a bodybuilder is an extreme of a certain type. Just like the skinny rock star is an extreme. I think that people out on the far fringes of the bell curve in any aspect of their attributes...physique, personality or behavior, will naturally have a small group of the opposite sex that finds them attractive. Very often however, those that prefer an extreme will be overly enthusiatic about it and that works to the bodybuilder's advantage. Women that like bodybuilders, REALLY like bodybuilders!

We also have to take into account the stereotypical, public PERCEPTION of the bodybuilder; stupid, narcissistic, poor, we've heard it all before and unfortunately, far too many bodybuilders do little to dispel that image. When a woman meets a bodybuilder that shatters those myths and is articulate, sensitive, funny, worldly and talented in venues other than the gym, the woman may find to her surprise that she actually LIKES a big, extreme physique because, you see, PERSONALITY still counts!

Now, having said all that, I wanna see a pic of McFarland's bod  :P
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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #84 on: December 30, 2005, 06:00:10 PM »
This the the dumbest post I ever seen.Saying sugar isnt sweet, and the moon is made of chesse.I am married now but when I was single I banged atleast 200 girls, and all of them were hot.Off season I get up to 280-290 lbs, and compete at 250-258 lbs. so I am not small by all means.All my friends who are single that are bodybuilders including my cousinare rotating 3-4 diffrent girls at a time.Look at Chris Cormier he has 4 diffrent women who all train at Golds Venice, and they all now about each other, and he still plays them all.Another Example would be Lee Preist, before he married Cathy, I seen him with a diffrent girl every week.The only girls who dont like bodybuilders is insecure ones, girls that dont want there man getting more attention they get.Even my wives friends, including her sister think im hot.So to think that women dont like bodybuilders you are out of your mind.Who do strippers date?Usually the bounces at the club, or have a bodybuilder boyfriend.I live in Vegas, so I see alot of stripers at my gym , and all of there boyfriends work out.Another good point is women will date a man for money, but have a boy toy bodybuilder on the side for sex .Why you ask?Women love muscles.My sister works at the Wynn casino and she is the head bartender at the pool, she makes 100k a year not bad.Anyways sometimes I go visit her at work, and everytime I go by there all the cocktail waitresses, go crazy.They all conme up to the bar just to come get a look.My sister says, they ask about me , like am I single.I am not bragging my point is I have been training 20 years, and not once in my life I had a problem getting girls.Just like men like women who are femmine , women like men who are muscular.I am married now, and my wife loves the fact that I always look good for her.Want more sex from a woman,just stay in shape.Trust me women like eye candy to



dumbest / gayest post ever

99.9 percent of girls say the word ew the second any bodybuilder picture is looked at

facts jack

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #85 on: December 30, 2005, 06:18:33 PM »
Women like men that are tall
Not me.
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healthy, lean, attractive, educated,
Yep,yep,yep,yep
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wealthy,
  Getting there.
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cultured
Nope. More of an engineer than an artist.
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, strong,
Yep.
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family-oriented
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, sensitive,
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goal-oriented
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romantic
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  fun
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, dedicated
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and very well-endowed.
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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #86 on: December 30, 2005, 06:28:42 PM »
Another Example would be Lee Preist, before he married Cathy, I seen him with a diffrent girl every week.

He left Cathy. His flavor of the month is now Adela Garcia. How long will that last?
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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #87 on: December 30, 2005, 07:11:39 PM »
bitches like bb'ers if the guy has some height, a decent face and looks like he's got some cash, not really different than any other situation in life.
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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #88 on: December 30, 2005, 07:13:53 PM »
look if you guys are lifting to get pussy you are in it for the wrong reasons. If a girl dosent like a big guy than she is not in to you get over it find someone who is.

I agree.

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #89 on: December 30, 2005, 07:26:24 PM »
I agree.

  Agreed! It is women who must please men, not the other way around. As Arnold once said:"Women are good to use, for sexual relief, between sets."Arnold is genius!

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #90 on: December 30, 2005, 07:33:20 PM »
Hahahaha! Guys, thank you for a thoroughly enjoyable thread!
I can't remember when I've laughed so hard.

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Reading clued out body builders discussing what women find attractive: PRICELESS!!!  ;D

Serge218 hit the nail on the head when he said:

You might find it hard to swallow, but as a general rule, the majority of women do NOT like body builders. That's a fact. It has nothing to do with stealing the limelight... it's about aesthetics. Most women think that kind of exaggerated musculature is flat out gross looking and repulsive. While many women can appreciate and respect the hard work and dedication it takes to achieve, only a very small % of the female population will find it attractive. It's not a big deal, there are enough bb groupies out there, ...just find one of them.

And yes Matt, women ARE just as attracted to the visual as men are, however, what avid bodybuilders who worship the pros may think is visually attractive can be, and quite often is completely different from what most women consider visually appealing. We also take into account other factors which weigh into our overall determination of whether we find a guy attractive or not. You all laughed at MOS but he wasn't far off the mark when he said: 

And as much as I hate agreeing with a guy who uses the screen name SUCKMYMUSCLE, he was also pretty accurate when he said:

I think Dan-O hit a bulls-eye when he said:

But hands down the Blue Ribbon goes to Gatomjp.

Now, having said all that, I wanna see a pic of McFarland's bod  :P

  Who cares what you think? You're one woman. There are, like, three and a half billion women in the world. Do you know what's the difference between men and cun ts? We look better as we age, improving just like fine wine, while you bitches start to look like shit in your mid to late twenties. What's even the point of this discussion? It's not like women are hard to get! Even Bin Laden can get laid by a dozen differen cun ts a night, if he wants to.

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #91 on: December 30, 2005, 07:47:09 PM »
In all seriousness, I go to the gym for me, and me only.

If anything, I go to look better than my mates before I go to look good for my girl because we are a competitive group and like giving each other crap about our bodies.

I'm not very big at all, but I asked my girl if I looked like Jay Cutler would she still love me, and she said 'yes'. If your girl really loves you, she'll stay with you. Besides, how often do they like feeling your arms etc? As if they don't like it. They just don't like the veins!

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #92 on: December 30, 2005, 08:54:22 PM »
sounds like a bodybuilder kicked "serge" off a bench and sat him in the water fountain.

With 18 inch arms and a few black belts, I would love to meet the "bodybuilder" that sits me anywhere.

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #93 on: December 30, 2005, 08:57:53 PM »
Body 88 just because you dont get any play dont be hatin the real bodybuilders who do.If women dont like bodybuilders, then why did CraigTitus get so much action?Craig Titus, has be with more women then you fantasize about getting.Everytime I walk into a store girls stare at me, and when I am in line they want to touch my arm.My arms are 21 1/4 cold, so if that isnt a arm of a bodybuiler then what is?Another example Mike Ohearn, women go crazy over mike.He did covers for Haloquin Romances, and women drooled over him.If you dont think girls like bodybuilders you need to get with the program, because all the bodybuilders I know have hot wives inclding me.

There's a HUGE world of difference between the aesthetic appeal of a Mike O'Hearn, Anthony Catanzaro, or even a young Craig Titus, ...and a pumped up grotesque, deformed, mutant freak of nature like certain nameless Mr Olympia's  :-X . I mean really... some of these guys look like caricatures right out of some geek's comic book.

So what if Mike O'Hearn did covers for Harlequin, or if Fabio's picture on an Avon cover made sales shoot up 50 fold. It's not JUST the body, ...it's the whole package, ...made all that much more appealing by the body. The body is just the ribbon, or wrapping paper on the package. But if you can't deliver the goods to get under a woman's skin and penetrate her psyche, ...no amount of muscle is gonna help you.
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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #94 on: December 30, 2005, 09:01:16 PM »
There's a HUGE world of difference between the aesthetic appeal of a Mike O'Hearn, Anthony Catanzaro, or even a young Craig Titus, ...and a pumped up grotesque, deformed, mutant freak of nature like certain nameless Mr Olympia's  :-X . I mean really... some of these guys look like caricatures right out of some geek's comic book.

So what if Mike O'Hearn did covers for Harlequin, or if Fabio's picture on an Avon cover made sales shoot up 50 fold. It's not JUST the body, ...it's the whole package, ...made all that much more appealing by the body. The body is just the ribbon, or wrapping paper on the package. But if you can't deliver the goods to get under a woman's skin and penetrate her psyche, ...no amount of muscle is gonna help you.

  Penetrate her psyche...I'd rather penetrate something else... ;)

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #95 on: December 30, 2005, 09:57:41 PM »
  Penetrate her psyche...I'd rather penetrate something else... ;)

<LOL> First you have to penetrate her psyche... before you can get to the "something else"  ;)
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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #96 on: December 30, 2005, 10:02:58 PM »
So what if Mike O'Hearn did covers for Harlequin, or if Fabio's picture on an Avon cover made sales shoot up 50 fold. It's not JUST the body, ...it's the whole package, ...made all that much more appealing by the body. The body is just the ribbon, or wrapping paper on the package. But if you can't deliver the goods to get under a woman's skin and penetrate her psyche, ...no amount of muscle is gonna help you.

^There's some validity to that.

For women it is typically about the mind, once you own that, the pussy follows.......

As a guy, if you are a bodybuilder you do have an edge because you set yourself apart from the masses, however that doesn't negate the fact that you still have to interest her intellectually at some point or she will lose interest.

-or- she'll just use you for sex like a whore.



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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #97 on: December 30, 2005, 10:05:06 PM »
Now, having said all that, I wanna see a pic of McFarland's bod  :P

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #98 on: December 30, 2005, 10:07:05 PM »
I like bodybuilders, but they have to be my "type."

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Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
« Reply #99 on: December 30, 2005, 10:29:26 PM »
<LOL> First you have to penetrate her psyche... before you can get to the "something else"  ;)

  Not really. There are many bitches who put out, without the conversation bullshit. Women are very easy...

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