Alot of black women put up a front of self-assuredness, independence of self-worth from the value that others place on them, and confidence stemming from will-power and not circumstance.
But most black women are vulnerable to criticism and like little scared puppy dogs cowering in the corner whenever somebody brings attention to a supposed fault, flaw, mistake, or imperfection in them or their behavior.
In fact, this is not true of only black women, but of all people in general. At least to some extent, and in a generalized sense of course.
Black women are just in a particularly disadvantaged position in our society... A woman, so historically considered and treated as inferior in intelligence and less capable in physical activities than male counterparts; And black, so historically considered almost sub-human in the sense that they were enslaved, abused, murdered, discriminated, segragated, rejected, and alienated and in some ways continue to be up to this day.
With this position in society alot of black women tend to become very accepting of their classification as "less than". They are smaller and weaker than half the population and in the other half they make up a minority which is subject to discrimination and prejudice. It is not easy to see the value of yourself if you are living in such circumstance, it is not in front of your eyes plain to see like it sometimes can be for other people.
This acceptance of "less than" can be short lived, or non-existent, and when it is gone (or mostly gone) the black woman becomes a fiercely genuine, down-to-earth, open minded, and cool as hell human being of such fly classy sophistication it makes my cock throb and my itellect explode with zooming electric expansion and gravitaion towards their presence.