Interesting philosophical comments.
Do these comments explain why you would post photos of yourself in ridiculous and blatantly sexual poses whilest professing to be a bottom boy on you Facebook account for all your family members, who probably cannot comprehend why you'd do this? I think not. You can shock a bunch of virtual strangers with your latest sexcapades. but why burden your family with your difficulty in maturing.
Your words mean nothing. Your actions mean everything. Your actions as of late really suck.
This is not about "hurting" his family members - it's about him re-setting his boundaries and right now, he's decided that he wants the internet to know he's a phaggot.
If his family love him, they will continue to do so. If they can't handle how he lives, they'll unsubscribe to his facebook updates. It's not rocket science. He wants to be the person he is being. If they can't handle that, they can "opt out" of this vector of contact with him any time they like.
He's not riding into their house, impaled on a giant cock. More than likely he couldn't be happier right now. He doesn't have to pretend or tone himself down if he doesn't want to. It's not my cup of tea but if you are genetically predisposed to being gay and you find exhibitionism stimulating, you're just going to do it and you're going to keep doing it because it gets your juices flowing.
My father made it clear, recently - that if either of his sons were gay, he'd disown them.
I WISH I was gay, just so I could take photos like those and shove them down his throat.. love on conditional sexual conduct. L a m e.

Just because you're repulsed by something - if you're not the poor cun t doing it and it's of limited harm to society - just what exactly is the point of making the (illogical) jump that you now have the right to transpose your dislike for it into "doing something wrong" or assuming that the person has gone mad.
There are loads of people who like to bang in public - this is just another connotation of that. If these were pictures of him screwing that black poon in the bushes, there would be many an internet highfive being traded.