are most women's character and "love" comparable in the end?

[galineko]

once you get past the wooing phase

[Maddy]

galineko
galeniko
 

[Kwon_2]

once you get past the wooing phase

Good question, it's difficult to keep a marriage going for 20+ years in this day and age.

Here in Sthlm, we usually marry and divorce after 3-5 years

[goomba420]

hi purenaturalstrength

[Mitch]

looks like a thread only anabolicholo could start.

[tu_holmes]

What exactly are you asking?

[Parker]

Good question, it's difficult to keep a marriage going for 20+ years in this day and age.

Here in Sthlm, we usually marry and divorce after 3-5 years

Why is it difficult?

[dj181]

if you let them mold you into what they want you to be, then they will "fall in love" with you

[99 Bananas]

What is love? How do you encounter it though another being?

[THE BOUNCER]

everytime you have a flirt/fling/short lived thing with a whore on the side you wonder why your woman is not like this

these whores always seem more sweet submissive and low maintenance

but then i think oh this is probably a sales pitch and not reality

yup. once that cloud 9 phase is over, shit goes down hill.

[missile]

once you get past the wooing phase

NO

[phreak]

What is love?

[Archer77]

My relationship with my wife has gotten better in many respects.  Marriages fail because people crave newness and have the wrong and to high of expectation of what a long term relationship entails.  When the high abates some people are incapable of making a transition into a more mature relations.  In our society the pleasure principle rules.  If it feels good, do it, but don't consider the long term consequences.  Fathers and sons, husband and wife's......blah, blah, blah

[Parker]

My relationship with my wife has gotten better in many respects.  Marriages fail because people crave newness and have the wrong and to high of expectation of what a long term relationship entails.  When the high abates some people are incapable of making a transition into a more mature relations.  In our society the pleasure principle rules.  If it feels good, do it, but don't consider the long term consequences.  Fathers and sons, husband and wife's......blah, blah, blah

Also, maybe look into their families and society...what do people see from their parents, friends, etc.

[Tapeworm]

You mean combatantable.

[Parker]

You mean combatantable.

Yes, I guess you can say one can be a combatant in love/a relationship...

[Archer77]

Also, maybe look into their families and society...what do people see from their parents, friends, etc.

I agree.  My dad split when I was young(father and sons) but my grandparents were married for sixty years.  My wife's parents are still together and have been married for thirty-five years.

[_bruce_]

After the sweet phase it's a mutual contract.
Her offerings, your offerings - are both parties ok with it then a common enterprise is built.

[_aj_]

Marriages fail because people crave newness and have the wrong and to high of expectation of what a long term relationship entails.

Marriages fail for a lot of reasons, but I think that marriages that fail due to infidelity is 100% due to the "newness" flash.

The secret is to always remember: no matter how unbelievably hot she is, somewhere, somebody is sick of her fucking shit.

[jon cole]

women get bored quickly from everything.
Average dude want a house, children, a dog and a barbecue in the garden, and a squat rack in the garage, few beer, few pal, and everything is ok.

women want always more.
Once they get something, they want another thing.
they're perpetualy unsatisfied.

[Wiggs]

women get bored quickly from everything.
Average dude want a house, children, a dog and a barbecue in the garden, and a squat rack in the garage, few beer, few pal, and everything is ok.

women want always more.
Once they get something, they want another thing.
they're perpetualy unsatisfied.

Excellent post Frenchy. 100% true.

[ukjeff]

everytime you have a flirt/fling/short lived thing with a whore on the side you wonder why your woman is not like this

these whores always seem more sweet submissive and low maintenance

but then i think oh this is probably a sales pitch and not reality

[Borracho]

hi purenaturalstrength

looks like a thread only anabolicholo could start.

hahah he had me fooled.

.....galineko 

[kh300]

women get bored quickly from everything.
Average dude want a house, children, a dog and a barbecue in the garden, and a squat rack in the garage, few beer, few pal, and everything is ok.

women want always more.
Once they get something, they want another thing.
they're perpetualy unsatisfied.

This is 95% of women. I've found 2 types. Ones who don't need money but need more and more from you. Ones that are independent and don't give you many personal demands, but need a new car and new clothes every month.

Its either you, or material objects. One will complain you only fucked her 5 times the day before, the other will complain you spent your money on your motorcycle and not her.

[Archer77]

Marriages fail for a lot of reasons, but I think that marriages that fail due to infidelity is 100% due to the "newness" flash.

The secret is to always remember: no matter how unbelievably hot she is, somewhere, somebody is sick of her fucking shit.

You're absolutely right.  Good post.  I think of it this way, most relationships will eventually reach a stagnation point.  At this point you have two choices, leave and admit long term relationships aren't for you or work through it.  I've been with my wife for fifteen years and its better now than ever.