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« Reply #25 on: July 24, 2013, 03:10:19 PM »

44 sucks    Sad

Wait until you throw on 10 more arce, it really sucks big time then.   Wink
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« Reply #26 on: July 24, 2013, 03:20:18 PM »

serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the time - where i am going, am i at the right place, will i ever do a job i enjoy, what if i get fired, should i save more money etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?

Every man need his "Robinson Crusoe" island: small farm/cabin in the woods/boat/motorhome,etc,.
Just don't tell yours wife about it  Grin
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« Reply #27 on: July 24, 2013, 06:06:22 PM »

Stick with compound movements and a high protein diet.
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« Reply #28 on: July 24, 2013, 06:16:35 PM »

Try being black they don't seem to worry about any of those things. Just sounds like you are a responsible adult, just remember to play hard too and have some fun.
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« Reply #29 on: July 24, 2013, 06:27:39 PM »

Wait until you throw on 10 more arce, it really sucks big time then.   Wink

Eight more years is not bad at all though Wink  Just keep up all your physical activity and include weights!
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« Reply #30 on: July 24, 2013, 06:44:57 PM »

The only way you can switch off is by suicide or drugs, and drugs is another form of slow suicide.

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« Reply #31 on: July 24, 2013, 06:46:17 PM »

serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the time - where i am going, am i at the right place, will i ever do a job i enjoy, what if i get fired, should i save more money etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?
"maturing/aging" = realizing you re an animal struggling for its survival against all the human competition. If you have money , if you re surounded by "loved ones" -people who want you to suceed, dominate, where they werent able to dominate so basically who live vicarously thru you- who give you advices on how to fuck people in the ass instead of being fucked i the ass by them, it's easier to cope... Others simply become violent, angry, jealous, or kill themselves realizing there is no justice or fairness in life, it's simply about adapting better than others and winning when they lose.
Having kids they can get money for your retirement, it's easier to defend yourself, survive in the specie if you create your own loyal group.

The funny is that ultimately our whole specie will get extinct anyway. So most people simply come to the conclusion, while im here, why not simply dominate blindly without caring about all these bullshits like religion, philosophy etc, -how useful are they for a poor man? it wont help him much, all of this is just a hobbie for rich people who dont have to survive daily killing others for a job and food- life is pain for everyone so lets be happy making others having a painful day. Now multiply this belief/behavior by 7, 8 9 billions of individuals.
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« Reply #32 on: July 24, 2013, 06:49:19 PM »

When interacting IRL with people from all parts of the globe a common denominator of the generally dissatisfied is where they're from and alarmingly the states just doesn't hold up.
Again, nobody is "happy", everyone is only pretending to be happy. Everyone knows there are too many people, not enough jobs. Everyone says he hates his job, yet does his best daily to prevent any newbie from being recruited, anyone from taking his place, even if it's a shity place. Everyone criticizes the boss in front of his colleagues, and criticizes his colleagues in front of his boss. And the boss knows it well.

Life is war. Everything is an instrument to wage war, words, feelings, hapiness happen when you succesfully dominate , kill, when you see others fail. Anger, frustration, sadness happen when you fail to dominate, are dominated. Hope is when you envision yourself or you offsprings dominating others.

There is no way mankind can last forever, our so called intelligence, consciousness -of being animals- are only other weapons to wage war against others.
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« Reply #33 on: July 24, 2013, 06:51:58 PM »

serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the time - where i am going, am i at the right place, will i ever do a job i enjoy, what if i get fired, should i save more money etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?

be careful here, too much worries=anxiety, too much anxiety turns into mild depression, next you know it is clinical depression and suicide thoughts. And last step, suicide.
Beautiful day outside.
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« Reply #34 on: July 24, 2013, 07:18:28 PM »

I have been thinking about starting up again. It has been about 20 years. I love the smell and taste. I just started getting real paranoid after smoking it for 21 years. I started at 13.

it helps to learn which strains make you calm vs contemplative, indicas vs sativas, all things in moderation, if you live some place where its legal, all the better. Indicas definitely help you relax, go sleepy-sleepy   Cheesy
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« Reply #35 on: July 24, 2013, 07:47:12 PM »

add in some kids and you've got yourself a real living hell with no fucking end in sight
whether you have kids or not, life is still all about struggling for your survival against the competition. For some having kids help and motivate, for others it's a chore depend of your own upbringing.
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« Reply #36 on: July 24, 2013, 07:59:05 PM »

serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the timebecause a goal without a plan is a dream - where i am going, am i at the right placeabsolutely not, if you have to ask, will i ever do a job i enjoy not as long as you work for someone else, what if i get fired you'd be lucky to get fired., should i save more moneythink of it as 'collecting' money, not saving. etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?
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« Reply #37 on: July 24, 2013, 08:09:27 PM »

whether you have kids or not, life is still all about struggling for your survival against the competition. For some having kids help and motivate, for others it's a chore depend of your own upbringing.

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« Reply #38 on: July 24, 2013, 08:27:26 PM »

Have a little faith in yourself. You've gotten this far, you can handle anything life throws at you.
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« Reply #39 on: July 24, 2013, 08:36:18 PM »

My personal and professional life were both a house of cards. My personal life collapsed so at least I don't have to worry about that anymore. However, it costs me almost $100K a year for that "peace of mind."

If my professional house of cards collapses, then I'm really fucked.

I try not to think about it.

Don't give up easily, & if U have too "hit the road Jack" relocate/restart new life & delete your past  Wink
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« Reply #40 on: July 24, 2013, 08:41:52 PM »

PAY OFF YOUR DEBTS......then it gets easier and less stressful.

Nope, borrow hips on credit cards & declare yourself officially bankrupt  Grin Grin Grin
You'll live for the next 5 years without credit cards, no big deal anyway  Wink
Relocate to warm climate & live  Cheesy
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« Reply #41 on: July 24, 2013, 08:49:04 PM »

If you're doing something that causes stress and you know will always cause you stress, stop doing it and move on...Most of the people working their ass off in jobs they hate will end up being sick when they get older...But at least they might have enough money to pay for being sick...lol...Stress is the single worst thing you can do to your body over a long period of time...The American system is set up to stress you the fukc out...Therefore if you make it to retirement age, you'll be in and out of the Hierarchy's medical system where they can give you a HOT SHOT and any given time...
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« Reply #42 on: July 24, 2013, 08:54:33 PM »

...use to know 3 guy's who where pissed of with theirs jobs,nagging wife gone fat,2-3 screwed kids
and other usual married mans issues, ............after divorce, forced to pay child's supports
.....all 3 told me: I am pissing of .......2 of them escaped from Sydney's lifestyle to the
Northern Teritory of Australia,NT well known for a cowboy's lifestyle .....the 3rd one
lives in European Comunity & on postcard he said: loved & attending football
matches all over .............

Good luck to them, Cheesy
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« Reply #43 on: July 24, 2013, 09:31:09 PM »

If you're doing something that causes stress and you know will always cause you stress, stop doing it and move on...Most of the people working their ass off in jobs they hate will end up being sick when they get older...But at least they might have enough money to pay for being sick...lol...Stress is the single worst thing you can do to your body over a long period of time...The American system is set up to stress you the fukc out...Therefore if you make it to retirement age, you'll be in and out of the Hierarchy's medical system where they can give you a HOT SHOT and any given time...
Newsflash, life kills...
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« Reply #44 on: July 24, 2013, 09:34:27 PM »

Newsflash, life kills...

Ya but there are many ways to make it easier...Spotting stress triggers and reacting to them is key...

<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PsnxDQvQpw" target="_blank">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PsnxDQvQpw</a>
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« Reply #45 on: July 24, 2013, 09:36:43 PM »

If you can find something that gives you a sense of passion. It's hard for me, but sometimes I can pursue a course of thought that will give my life an intense sense of meaning. It doesn't last, it's fleeting and far between, but when it comes the whole universe opens up and explodes with joy and purpose.  Kiss
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« Reply #46 on: July 25, 2013, 12:08:22 AM »

Uberman, I seriously feel sorry about you.
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« Reply #47 on: July 25, 2013, 01:11:17 AM »

Because you are trying to be someone and you fotgot that you are nothing
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« Reply #48 on: July 25, 2013, 03:12:16 AM »

Because you are trying to be someone and you fotgot that you are nothing
Will you enter another BB contest K? You did well in the last one.
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« Reply #49 on: July 25, 2013, 04:11:29 AM »

Good point, i think the US drives people to work their life away and sucks you into a very face paced stressful life.


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Yes. This is true. But, there is a trade off for that hard work. Less vacation time, meals out, etc, but you usually have a big house and are more monetarily sound.
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