Sorry to blog...but last night perfect example..
Going to the movies. I want to see "Prisoners" she wants to see fucking "Gravity"...which I knew was going to suck balls. Not a doubt in my mind. But we saw the shitty movie. .it sucked. Even she was like "wow that sucked." Thats like 6 in a row now. But I don't give a fuck. If I veto her and go see what I want..she gets butt hurt and we are ruining the good vibes. I don't care...all movies suck. Prisoners probably sucked too. So we see what she wants and have a very pleasant night with lots and lots of sex. Thats life.
Occasionally, my wife and I want to see different movies. In the old days when we went to the movies almost every night, that wasn't much of a problem. These days we kind of take turns. I've seen some soppy movies she picked that I actually enjoyed. Most of the totally guy movies, I watch on Netflix or rent from Amazon. There are a lot of options these days, when it comes to watching movies. Bottom line is to respect each other's differences in tastes. It is not like one wants to be married to themselves. Variety is the spice of life.
Don't expect Uberman to appreciate this, if his wife doesn't want to see the movie he wants to see, he just leaves her tied up in the basement so she can't get away. Then he threatens to kill himself and her if she even thinks about trying. But hey, it's all good since he is a Christian and all that.