ive been in 4 relationships that lasted over 1 year..those were all serious to me...honestly id rather be in a relationship with a good girl then bang random broads..
You're young. You have time for a serious relationship, but not a lot of time. At some point you become a confirmed bachelor and therefore not as attractive to women who are more serious minded about relationships. What do you suppose is holding you back? Relationships that last "over a year" are still in the honeymoon stage. It takes several years for most people to settle in to a relationship. The is particularly true for people who are not cohabiting.
My wife and I lived together for a year prior to marrying. We dated about 6 months before we moved in together. By the time we married, we were already there except for the marriage license. We celebrated our 49th wedding anniversary tonight with a great dinner out at an expensive restaurant. I ate so much, I am about to burst. My wife, on the other hand was a cheap date, eating very modestly.