I am not going anywhere and I am not changing. I don't care who is in my corner or not. I am pretty much staunch.
It's not about changing, it's about perspective. You will not change, because you are stuck in your ways. Not evolving. And you will continually be on the same path, engaged in the same arguments. You are not getting any younger, and eventually, the bitterness will set in, and by the time you are in your 50s, you are the "crazy old woman" that dudes get involved with because she has a semblance of looks, but ain't all there in the head.
If you were truly a happy person, you'd have packed up a long time ago, and not deal with this. But, here you are engaged in the nth argument, and loving the attention. Instead of say learning Samba or Salsa, and engaging men of your age group, you are here engaged in "mortal" conflict with men all the time. Quite this asinine cycle, because you will not get anywhere. You are just spinning your wheels.
Booty this could be you.