Vince don't take this as a shot at you but I think maybe this has something to do with your hormones and wiring? I say that because I've known a lot of gay people - including my younger brother - who can be VERY catty. Its like at times they are able to take the worst of man and woman and combine them. You remind me of a scorned woman who wants vengeance.
Someone in another thread about street fighting made the observation that women are far more ruthless than men. He noticed that with men that the clearly dominant fighter would let up soon as he established his dominance. Whereas with females the dominant fighter would continue beating the weaker woman.
You've already won Vince. No need to pummel the man while he's already dying on his death bed.
You just don't get it do you?? When it comes to someone like me, I play for blood. I warned Derek numerous times not to harass or mess with my family and they did over and over again....so now he has to play the game of blood with me.
Next to True Adonis, I'm one of the most vicious person around and I don't forgive or forget. You go after my family and I'll find and exploit any weakness you have to destroy you regardless as to what condition you're in...especially if you're in a bad place like he is. That's when I go in for the kill
But again, as bad as I am...Adonis is much worse. I don't even mess with him.