Derek Anthony - kidney transplant was delayed

[Natural Man]

Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life.
They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.


Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.

I sometimes hope what i discover and expose might change someone's life or deviate kids/young adults from following a shitty path, but the chances are high it's probably useless right? People just blindly follow shitty influences , wanting shortcuts to power, fame, money and so on. Until it's too late.

[bigdumbbell]

Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life.
They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.


Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.

i read this on another DA thread already Lol

[Coach is Back!]

when i learned someone was dying and couldnt do anything about it. It's probably the first time this situation occur on getbig. It's one thing to tease people you dont know over the internet and tell some truths that they can eventually listen to to better their lives, and vomiting, shitting in total impunity on someone who s genuinely dying at the moment and affraid of death all the while knowing he s probably reading it, and doing it on purpose. It's on the same level as pushing someone who s about to kill him/herself.

I haven't followed the other thread too much and really haven't since yesterday. But what I have seen from others posts have been somewhat respectful of Derek and even the most vial on here have been sympathetic.

[SF1900]

I sometimes hope what i discover and expose might change someone's life or deviate kids/young adults from following a shitty path, but the chances are high it's probably useless right? People just blindly follow shitty influences , wanting shortcuts to power, fame, money and so on. Until it's too late.

Well, I am not too sure who influenced DA, but I am assuming they were not a model citizen. Maybe he was influenced by Palumbo. 

[calfzilla]

Sad thing is that several of us warned him of this years ago and pleaded with him to stop the drugs but he didn't listen.

[bigdumbbell]

I haven't followed the other thread too much and really haven't since yesterday. But what I have seen from others posts have been somewhat respectful of Derek and even the most vial on here have been sympathetic.

the liver cancer thread is now all pictures of females that have nothing to do w DA.  hope this helps.

[SF1900]

i read this on another DA thread already Lol

Ubermans quotes are very insightful. They spread like wild fire.

[Natural Man]

Sad thing is that several of us warned him of this years ago and pleaded with him to stop the drugs but he didn't listen.

He could not listen. Because the shit that led him to do what he did was older, deeper embedded. It was obviously already too late. But i think it's important to find what influences, what kind of thought patterns , upbringings , got him buried into that path until it was too late.

We will probably never know tho. And evil will just keep repeating, reproducing itself, over and over again. How many DA in the making. How absurd is that. We know it, but we cant do anything about it, we cant change shit but maybe, our own lives.

[Mr Nobody]

Ha Ha     Here's another pic which is safely away from it. 

Booty has a long bicep.

[Primemuscle]

He could not listen. Because the shit that led him to do what he did was older, deeper embedded. It was obviously already too late. But i think it's important to find what influences, what kind of thought patterns , upbringings , got him buried into that path until it was too late.

We will probably never know tho. And evil will just keep repeating, reproducing itself, over and over again. How many DA in the making. How absurd is that. We know it, but we cant do anything about it, we cant change shit but maybe, our own lives.

I support your proposition in your opening post in this thread. Sometimes enough is enough or even too much. Sometimes some people simply don't know the boundaries of common decency. Because those who are still spitting on a dying man is so far over that line those threads should removed as you suggested.

Unemployment suits you. You're a mellower man.

[flinstones1]

Mods should delete all DA's related threads on the board, seriously now. Let's have at least a bit of decency. Just a tiny bit. He prolly read it all went thru it all, he gets it, but it's now bordering on pure filth. Let's show some human compassion. There is no point in leaving that crap online. After some time all the shitty content on google will disapear. It's mostly the content hosted and saved on getbig's server that stays online and gets refreshed constantly.
Again dude is DYING, and he was just an ignorant, misled unfortunate man, more than anything. He was not a murderer or anything.  Let's give him some hope if he sees what we re doing and show some support in these terrible times, and let's stop talking about him. I dont even want to sound like a nice guy or bleeding heart it's just that, we cant do much but at least we can do this. And i'm not saying guys lets pray together to cure all evil in the world, im just saying maybe we could do something here, that would show we have some compassion. Just say "i agree" if you agree, no need for more drama and again I dont want any attention from that thread. It's just to prove a dying man mankind is not worthless and give him some confort. I could understand the people who had real life serious beef with him wouldnt join, like goodrum tho. I having some compassion for DA cause I know just a bit about him and he never had the occasion to genuinely hurt me in any way.


Derek if you read this, I always thought you were dumb, ignorant and misled, more than anything, but I could sense what you were hiding behind all the bravado and tattoos. It's not your fault. And you were not a loser, just a man who got lost.
 I think you just followed bad guidance and influences, or had none at all, and I want you to know your experience wont be useless, I am sure it convinced some people to not follow the same path or dissuaded them to do so. You ve done your part, your job, in the whole picture of bettering mankind.

times 2. Least young guys can do is learn from Derek. Do some cardio and stay the fuck away from orals, watch the blood pressure and don't be afraid to clean out every now and then.

[Big Chiro Flex]

times 2. Least young guys can do is learn from Derek. Do some cardio and stay the fuck away from orals, watch the blood pressure and don't be afraid to clean out every now and then.

Can you expound on your stance on orals??

[pedro01]

Dereks death will serve as a warning to others.

I vote that not only it stays but that we also get a webcam on his deathbed.

[Mclovin]

I haven't followed all of this that closely, but is he really going to probably die? Do we know how bad is liver cancer is or what his chances of survival are?

[SF1900]

I haven't followed all of this that closely, but is he really going to probably die? Do we know how bad is liver cancer is or what his chances of survival are?

I am not too sure if people know the details. But between his dialysis and his cancer, it cant be long  I mean, I can only imagine that something else is bound to come up.

[POB]

He looked like garbage another Valentino just as retarded looking, for what?

[NotMrAverage]

Well, I am not too sure who influenced DA, but I am assuming they were not a model citizen. Maybe he was influenced by Palumbo. 

i wonder how much palumbos ideas affected him to get ill? i have no idea what he advocates gear wise though

[Ropo]

No....Kicking a guy when he can kick back is one thing, but....I try not to kick someone when they are down.    I am not trying to be preachy, because I certainly have posted some nasty things about people.....I guess, I sometimes "knee jerk" respond to posts.....Not trying to flame....

Well, kicking while they are down is core of the american way of life, and it is great and important part of their succes, so why you are so negative about it? They suck that idea from the milk of their mothers, and all the other remarkable ways of behavior, like "beat only smaller ones" and "if you can't outsmart anyone, be bully". That is more than normal in america, it is vital in their society.

So what about Derek? He has been screaming, bullying piece of shit the best part his life, he has always been fake, he has been using drugs, synthol and every kind of shit which makes head buzz, and now he will pay the prize. SO WHAT? It is always nice to see how fast haters can turn hypocrites and start crying for this poor soul. Why bother? He has earn all the crap which is falling on him, and sooner than he expects, there will be dirt falling on his face on the bottom of the grave. What there is to be sad about? Insane gay whore find his peace at last. World will be better place without him, and this is the truth about the matter. His parents will be dancing for joy and the rest of the world don't give a shit.

"For all stages combined, the relative 5-year survival rate from liver cancer is about 15%." What about this? He is dead, he just doesn't know it yet.  

[Primemuscle]

Well, kicking while they are down is core of the american way of life, and it is great and important part of their succes, so why you are so negative about it? They suck that idea from the milk of their mothers, and all the other remarkable ways of behavior, like "beat only smaller ones" and "if you can't outsmart anyone, be bully". That is more than normal in america, it is vital in their society.

So what about Derek? He has been screaming, bullying piece of shit the best part his life, he has always been fake, he has been using drugs, synthol and every kind of shit which makes head buzz, and now he will pay the prize. SO WHAT? It is always nice to see how fast haters can turn hypocrites and start crying for this poor soul. Why bother? He has earn all the crap which is falling on him, and sooner than he expects, there will be dirt falling on his face on the bottom of the grave. What there is to be sad about? Insane gay whore find his peace at last. World will be better place without him, and this is the truth about the matter. His parents will be dancing for joy and the rest of the world don't give a shit.

"For all stages combined, the relative 5-year survival rate from liver cancer is about 15%." What about this? He is dead, he just doesn't know it yet.  

Your one tough cookie. Someday you will get sick and die, hopefully not for a very long time. When you're dying though, it would be interesting to know if you still feel the same way. Of course, I probably won't ever know this, since you are probably just a kid and I am an old man. Unless you screw up things you will undoubtedly outlive me.

[pedro01]

I haven't followed all of this that closely, but is he really going to probably die? Do we know how bad is liver cancer is or what his chances of survival are?

He is not so much dying as killing himself slowly because he can't bear to see a little guy in the mirror.

[bebop396]

I agree that there should be no horrible posts that want to kick a guy when he is down...He is entertainment online, i get a kick at how rediculous he is...This cancer shit is no laughing matter though...He does not know me, so would not give a shit if I had cancer which is wierd and fucked up, when one thinks about it...The behaviour of people though wishing him death while he has cancer is fucked up...It is one thing to wish death on here when someone is healthy, but not in this situation...

[Borracho]

You're getting soft on us uberman.



 

[bigdumbbell]

is DA still running his mouth like an arrogant dick?

[kofo]

well, even giving these details you re proving he was probably the least liked son of his brotherhood and as a result destroyed himself while being jealous of his brothers. See, the more you dig, the more dirt you re going to excavate, the more pieces of the puzzle you re going to assemble to get a larger clearer picture. Is he responsible for having been less loved, taken care of, by his parents/family? again it's probably nothing he chose but was forced to be exposed to and he coped the way he could with what he had, but in the end it definitely shaped the path he took, and maybe he would have taken another path had he been raised differently. Maybe his parents wanted things to be that way, because themselves were the least loved kids in their brotherhood, and subconsciously reproduced it with derek and his brothers, making him the scapegoat they were.

I always enjoy your writing uber.

However can one really rule out genetic programming ? Theoretically, could it not be that they treated all the boys the same but that Derek had some faults he was born with that caused him to end up like he did ?

[Thick Nick]

I googled him after I saw this... First off I'm not sure who's legacy is more fucked up now, Tbomz or DA.

Second... Vince is completely and utterly obsessed with DA and almost every single link leads to Vince posting about DA. It is very creepy and weird. Like worse then stalker weird. Like if something ever violent ever happened to DA they would be at Vince's door IMMEDIATELY.

Wtf Vince. What is your obsession about?