Interesting....is grant making this up or is lobstah afraid of alex and dont want anything to do with it...he stalked cq so he has done that before
I think neither and both at the same time. In the first post regarding me/A23, Grant said that Alex PMed me and that the mods had "documented" it, which I think just means "noted that it happened." It wasn't until this most recent thread that the word "creepy" was thrown in there, which was part Grant's bias and part based in past events. I don't think there was malicious intent when Grant said it though. Just a feelings-facts cocktail.
My feelings are a similar cocktail. Alex has done NOTHING to me personally that sounds off any alarms. If anyone else sent the message he sent, no one would give a crap because it was just a friendly, short, nothing note. You guys, I just went and counted; it was exactly 14 words and half as many smilies. Nothing suggestive or sexual in nature. Not even a multisyllabic word aside from "Lobstah." No reason to set the hounds loose if past transgressions are set aside.
That said, I would be lying if I said what I've read on these boards about CQ wasn't completely fucking terrifying. I haven't experienced any of that from A23, but yeah, it all still sounds scary.
Anyway, the "warnings" I received didn't say anything that hasn't been said publicly on getbig, so relax, no one was talking shit, and the only advice that was given to me was " just chill" and "be cool." Not OH SHIT LOBSTAH, BE ON HIGH ALERT, or HOLY FUCK, SEND OUT THE SEALS! Not even THIS IS FUCKING SERIOUS! I'M GOING TO NEED A COPY OF EVERY PM YOU EVER RECEIVE. Just [Ryan Gosling voice] "hey girl, Alex likes black chicks and one time there was a situation with another one on the boards...oh he already sent you a note? And it wasn't weird? Then I guess just be cool, girl..."
This post has already been too long when all I wanted to say was EVERYONE RELAX. Alex and Grant clearly have beef, and it clearly played a role in Alex getting banned, but my worthless PM, however exaggerated, was inconsequential. So maybe drop it?