Does this seem honoust? Or do you think it's a social trick which she picked up through trial and error but still doesn't understand the true meaning? If its the latter you will never feel ''complete'' with this chick.
I'm gonna give you an example; my dog only eats raw meat because he has a digestive problem. The fucker loves the shit so much that he gets so goddamn enthousiastic that he jumps against me a million times during the time that i prepare it and put it down for him.
Bye telling him no, stopping the prepping and making him sit and wait untill he calms the fuck down i change his behavioral pattern.
However the dog will NEVER understand why he has to sit. He does not reflect on his behavior. All he knows is that he needs to sit and be calm in order to get what he wants. Its effective but looks comical and is completely faked calmness (you can still see that in his head he screams FOODFOOODDFOOOD!!!!!!!).
Now the question is are you trying to condition your girlfriend?
I hope not because Women lack one thing dog's don't and thats loyalty my friend. A dog is worth the effort.
Were her sweet texts, compliments and overall affectionate behavior honest and sincere? I'd say yes, however, she clearly has/had no reference point to put that into action on a more real scale. It remained extremely superficial and surface level. An "I love you", is meaningless if you don't let the other person know what it is you love about them. Saying "I miss you", is meaningless unless you are able to personalize it and say what it is you miss about the person (other than just their kisses and hugs).
Just felt like she's a kid trying to play house, with no idea how to do it. Out of her depth and yes, being older than her (I'm in my mid-30's and she's in her mid-20's), I could teach her, but the self-absorbed nature of how she ACTS (when not being that sweet girl) makes/made it damn near impossible, because children/teenagers don't want to be told what they should do. They think they have all the answers, when in reality, they have practically none of them. That's sort of where I was at with her. I'd put forth my feelings (what it is I wanted and what it is she was doing) and a logical and rational argument and I could explain it in 10 different ways and she would say, so, "what are you trying to say? All I hear from you is that I did something wrong again? I guess I can't do anything right with you? I'm always at fault, are I?"
That's what I had to deal with and now it's been over 24 hours since her last text and I guess she didn't really care as much as she claimed she did. Actions speak so much louder than her "sweet texts" could.
