"THE CONVERSATION"
Man: Hey woman Im home fix a nigga sumpn ta eat, I been combing these streets all dam day looking fo a job! And ain't nobody hiring brothas wit no high school diploma......shoooooooot .
Woman: Hey I just got home 10min ago from working 10 hours dear, and my feet are killing me! Can I at least rest a minute? And did you at least put some gas in my car, since you had it all day?
Man: Woman dont be questionin my whearabouts and stuff.........So what chu tryna say? A brotha can't get no dam grub up in this piece? (Side note: when your guilty of something you get defensive).
Woman: Babe im not saying that, Im just saying Im exhausted after work, and I still need to start this laundry, and plus help the kids with their homework.
Man: Look girl Im the man of this house and I ain't tryna here no excuses, now hook that up in that kitchen shoooooot. Dont have me come in there and......
Ladies does this sound all too familiar? If your personal & private answer is yes, then Despite how this man IS treating this hard working woman, she's the one allowing it.
When you as a human being male or female dont know your OWN self worth and self value, then this is the type of mate that awaits you.
And whats worse is you will have kids who will absorb the very behavior, and characterized traits that will mimic the ignorant.
I dont use the N word in my speech when i talk to people but i used it in my post, because this is what some of you hear at home. News Flash Ladies!
No boyfriends, No live in dudes, No unemployed booty calls or No weak lazy pants saggin XBox playin all day boo's has the authority to be the head of your household, ONLY a husband who loves and follows God has that authority.
Don't wait until a worthless male has stripped you of every ounce of love from your heart, so that the next man has to pay for the first one's mess. The choice is yours!
"Boys Shack Up But Men Build Homes"
~♥Poetiklover♥~
