Do you seriously come here on getbig and complain about me or people being homophobic? Everyone respects gay men. We use gay this and that in a demeaning manner.. it's just an insult .. but you need to realize that most here don't lose sleep over this. I traded years of isnults on here with Groink, BigCyp, Bigmc and many others. Even with Galeniko at first haha .. but we are also mature men with common sense and a sense of humor so we could hang out and get along in real life as well. Can you imagine me meeting bigmc and starting a fight with him because he called me a fag 6 years ago?

... it's like trash talk .. the secret is to take it in good humor and not put it to heart.
Also, like in real life, or even more so because it's virtual space and people say stuff they would never dare in reality, some people like each other and some don't. You cannot please everyone.
I do not think less of you if you are gay. I am here for bodybuilding, to learn and share from what I learned. And when I have a shitty day, to read what BigCyp and THE EFFERVESCENT posted making fun of someone or something because I always end up laughing wholeheartedly.
In real life we'd probably hang out and have a drink or talk about bodybuilding in general. I would not call you gay or be nasty towards you. I am a very polite person, I think.
You need to understand another thing about getbig .. most come here to blow some steam .. so instead of beating their wife or punching their boss at work they call you out for wearing a gstring or make fun of dj181 for being anorexic.
I apologize if I was mean to you and I hope I did not hurt your feelings to much. But I do have a request .. in the recent past, PRIMEMUSCLE was called by everyone for being an obvious bear posing as a straight man loving bodybuilding bla bla .. then he admitted to being bisexual etc. So he was very offended that I made fun of his sexuality. I apologized when I realized the guy was clearly affected. Then, a while later, he comments in a thread about sperm thickness and swallowing as an answer to my post in what appeared to be a straight comment but it was so obvious everyone was like ewwwww haha ... so don't pull a primemuscle and make sexual innuendo's if you bat for the pink team

(PRIME is a good guy BTW)