A person who is offended by what Christianity teaches should automatically be offended by Islam if they want to be morally consistent. The repugnant portion of Christianity are also present in Islam. It's possible to enjoy the company of a person who happens to be Muslim, or Christianity for that matter, and find their religion completely barbaric.
Totally agree. But to be offended by some of the beliefs of some group does not mean you can't righteously defend that group about an unrelated subject or belief.
Actually, even if it's the same belief, I'm not sure how morally inconsistent it would be: For instance, is it wrong to not have a problem with the neighbor's kid for being gay but to not want your own son to be gay?
I'm not so sure that the only valid way to think is to have the same expectations/standards for all people. Some folks honestly just don't know any better. It's worth thinking about, I think.
BTW, SS4U, can you send me that link about Muslims taxing (or killing or converting) non-Muslims again? I finally have time to read about it but can't remember which thread it was in. Thanks.