From a worldly standpoint, it is still Arnold. And this is all about the worldly believe me.
As to Haney's being a family man and a good guy, I am certain he is. But I've yet to hear him admit to having been a total druggie while competing and say that what he did was wrong but then that's not likely to come from any of these guys. Without the crap they took they would have been nothing.
And Arnold is far better off financially than Haney, even having to pay Maria's ego. What he did was wrong, but not deserving of so much of his earnings. Again, this is all about the worldly aspect. I suspect none of us to be as pure as we desire. Nor as some might claim to be.
Even by worldly standards, if you will, I'd go with Haney. Yes, Schwarzenegger has more money. But, we've seen plenty of people with riches end up blowing their brains out (i.e. Kurt Cobain) or gulping down a peanut-butter-and-sleeping-sandwich.
Not that Arnold is anywhere near that point. But, Lee Haney isn't exactly on welfare you know. He'd be considered loaded by anyone else's standard, were you not comparing him to Arnold.
As I said, on top of his riches, Haney's family is still intact. Lee and Shirley Haney have been sweethearts since they were little. They have, by all accounts, raised good children. And, to the best of my knowledge, Haney hasn't done any dirt, as far as creeping on his wife goes. BTW, have you seen Olympia Haney? She's a beauty (she was in diapers when Lee won his last Sandow).