20 years today. Grind hard - Don’t quit!

[oldtimer1]

I probably didn't explain that properly. My parents did not have money. I borrowed from the bank and used their home for bank guarantee. If I had fucked up worse, they would not have lost money, they would have lost their family home. Big difference between that and being handed money.

Not really a big difference You borrowed against your parents house. They could have lost the house and any equity in it. You're lucky you have such loving parents that they would risk their  very material survival for you. Yes, they did hand you money by letting you do that.

Glad you made it in the gym business. You deserve all the money you make off it. I hope you send your parents a check every month.

[nasum]

Really great, heart-felt story tony.

Thank you for sharing it. It has actually inspired me a little bit.

Cheers mate.

[Tony Doherty]

Hey Tony, before I start to grind hard tell for those who are not familiar with you (like me) how it's going? You have chain of gyms, running bb shows, making millions, doing what you find interesting, have a loving family and so on? Your story have no ending.

What are you after there? If you are not familiar then why make the list. "You have chain of gyms, running bb shows, making millions, doing what you find interesting, have a loving family and so on"

[Tony Doherty]

Not really a big difference You borrowed against your parents house. They could have lost the house and any equity in it. You're lucky you have such loving parents that they would risk their  very material survival for you. Yes, they did hand you money by letting you do that.

Glad you made it in the gym business. You deserve all the money you make off it. I hope you send your parents a check every month.

Yes they are very well looked after, Dad still works with me, he does all the books. They are very well traveled and rewarded. I am lucky indeed and have never denied that.

[Bosch]

What are you after there? If you are not familiar then why make the list. "You have chain of gyms, running bb shows, making millions, doing what you find interesting, have a loving family and so on"

Your post sounded like a success story from an old man told to some boys. As a long time lurker i remember that you are from The ass of the world and have big gym. I think there should be something more to tell everyone 'never give up, never surrender'. I don't want to see your tax bill, just curious about real achievements.

[HonestBob]

Your post sounded like a success story from an old man told to some boys. As a long time lurker i remember that you are from The ass of the world and have big gym. I think there should be something more to tell everyone 'never give up, never surrender'. I don't want to see your tax bill, just curious about real achievements.

You are a dickhead.

[BigCyp]

Great story Tony, got me really inspired to finally jump into the unknown and give my business idea a go!

I just called the real estate agents, and they will be valuing my parents house this afternoon before my folks get back from work - hopefully they don't get back early!!!

[Army of One]

Great story Tony, got me really inspired to finally jump into the unknown and give my business idea a go!

I just called the real estate agents, and they will be valuing my parents house this afternoon before my folks get back from work - hopefully they don't get back early!!!

hahahaha!Are you suggesting Tony has the morals of Lee Priest after 10 pints and an eight ball,BigCyp?

[BigCyp]

hahahaha!Are you suggesting Tony has the morals of Lee Priest after 10 pints and an eight ball,BigCyp?

What i'm saying Army of One, is that Moral Devoidity sounds like the type of guy who would visit his father on his death bed when he only has minutes to live, to ask if he could have a 24 hour loan of his life savings to start a Hells Angles Tattoo Parlour

[Army of One]

What i'm saying Army of One, is that Moral Devoidity sounds like the type of guy who would visit his father on his death bed when he only has minutes to live, to ask if he could have a 24 hour loan of his life savings to start a Hells Angles Tattoo Parlour

Yes, for his parents wedding anniversary he bought them a luxury tent, even though neither have any interest in camping

[O.Z.]

This photograph is from March 1994, interviewing the great Flex Wheeler at the IFBB Southern States show. The reason this is significant to me is that it was this night that I announced that Doherty’s Gym was going to open in Brunswick 2 weeks later on April 8th. Which means that it is 20 years ago today that it all really started for me.

I knew that this was my last shot at it, as I had nothing and owed about $200,000 which was loaded against my parents home. They had backed me from day one and I had let them and everyone close to me down. I had pissed it away and partied like a rockstar, thinking I was shit hot. Thinking I was bulletproof, a success in my own mind. Truth is, I was delusional, dazed and way, way ahead of myself.

I opened the doors on April 8th without a single member, no staff, no money in my pocket, nothing in the bank. I had no idea how I would get through the first week, let alone the first year. I just waited for someone to come in and train and after a few hours, a young couple came in and joined up. That first day I had about 10 people come in but no one else joined. This went on for a while and I just kept at it. Kept showing up, day after day, week after week.

The first year I sold everything to keep the doors open, house, cars, furniture, you name it, I lost it. The phone or power got cut every month, at least. I had no where to live and no car, all I had was a vertical grill and a rice cooker. I slept on the couch at the gym for that first 12 months, I would get up in the morning and walk up to the main road to get a paper and a coffee. This way it looked like I had actually come from somewhere. Then I would walk to the gym to open up at 6AM. I would work through to 9 or 10PM, most days on my own until everyone had left, once again I would lock up and pretend to head home until everyone had gone, then sneak back and let myself back in.

I developed a saying that I still use to this day. “Don’t worry about what you can’t do, worry about what you can do.” So with that in mind, when I couldn’t afford to buy new equipment, I would buy a can of paint. When no one came in, I would move everything in the gym. I would dust, clean, re-arrange everything. After a while, people would come in and say, “Hey you are always doing something.”  That inspired me more, I thought if people come in and I’m sitting around or complaining, they will pick up on that crap energy. If they come in and I’m busy, they will know I care.

Slowly I started to straighten myself out, killed the ego, got back into heavy training, lost the ponytail and kicked myself until I got up and about. I realise now, how far I had fallen and how close I came to falling through the cracks. I knew that from then on, I would give life everything I had. By that I mean, I made a deal with myself that I would never have regret, or die wondering. No  more excuses, no blaming others, no turning back.

I’m writing this for anyone doubting themselves. Anyone thinking about giving up, or thinking they don’t deserve success. For the ones out there that have made stupid mistakes and bad choices. For everyone that has been told they are no good, everyone that has been written off and laughed at. You must never quit, never give in, never let the doubters wear you down. You gotta be tough, you have to stop worrying about what others think. You have to find it within yourself. You have to hold your head up high and stay humble, no matter what, you have to grind. You have to get up every day and attack it like it is your last day, your last chance. When you put you head down at night, you have to know you did everything today, that you could to move forward. Sometimes it will seem fruitless, useless and slow. That is when you dig in harder, you must trust the process, trust yourself and most of all believe in yourself, I mean deep down inside where no one else dwells, that’s where you have to believe in yourself.

Grind hard - Don’t quit!

you are one of not so many successful stories in fitness industry.
You've had a right drive, positive attitude and persistence from the very beginning and with attitude alike that you can only be a winner in life.
Congratulations.

[The Abdominal Snoman]

Great story...There's also a lot of timing that goes into owning a gym...Whole different ballgame today then it was 2 decades ago...

[Cleanest Natural]

Gyms are tricky business ... so people like Tony, Hazbin, The Coach should be paid attention when they talk about running a gym. Seriously...

[rocket]

Quite a timely post, for me Tony.  I have been in a position of self doubt, recently.