Yes, no one says he lives in the bush.
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=529561.msg7446027#msg7446027
These are his words. The only picture he shows you is of a wood patio deck and the woods. The woods isn't a bad place to live tho. But this isn't what makes no one a complete and total loser.
And every family man has his moments when he thinks about being single and without responsibility again, but then reality hits and you know you wouldn't trade your wife and children in for all the riches in the world - and thats a fact.
And you sure wouldnt trade your life for No Ones. He has nothing worth trading. Dog is cute tho... thats about it.
I think the point is nancy, when you are successful, like X and I are, the things that make you successful as individuals aren't always interchangeable or even desired.
it's not about trading lives. I can see why you don't 'get it' because you look at others lives, see how much better they are than yours and wish you could be that person. that's the different w between us and you. we become what we want to be and create existences we want to live. you wish you could.
I can't blame you for being petty, angry and attacking. instead if faulting others for what they have, or the life they live, better yourself so that you're not a 31 year old single depressed guy working a min wage job living in your dads basement.
find some meaning in your life rather than hoping one day a girl will walk into your life who likes 'game of thrones' and 'home cooked meals'. go volunteer. do something of worth so you can build some of your own.
look at josh. we don't exactly see eye to eye. but despite getting dealt a bad deck in life he doesn't cry abt his station. he volunteers. has a gf. hobbies. he enjoys life. like hes got struggles but he's a happy dude despite it.
you on the other hand are angry and vitriolic. you don't have any excuse to be the person you see when you look in the mirror. nobody is to blame but yourself. your anger over others people's lives and what they have is only going to worsen until you find value in your own life.
good luck.