At some point, you kinda become the cumulative stack of your individual acts. If you have a chip, a grudge, a beef, you're offended, you were hated on, you're the victim, EVERY YEAR, well... that kinda becomes what you are.
Fans of certain physiques can only defend a BBer so many times before they have to say "great physique, but yeah, over the past decade, I've discovered so-and-so really is a total dick".