Women and mind games

[Grape Ape]

It's not that hard and we all want to like you here. You just need to tone down the trolling a little.

Groink is well liked here, and spot on most of the time.

[Icelord]

Groink is well liked here, and spot on 99% of the time.

I'm skeptical.

[Palpatine Q]

You disappoint me. I had hopes that you would finally learn to be a good poster and stop being a useless roided out old drunkard. Oh well. Guess we'll have to coexist uneasily.

Maybe you're "uneasy" over a total stranger on the internet. .... I'm just having fun insulting you.

[Palpatine Q]

I'm skeptical.

And fat

[Icelord]

Maybe you're "uneasy" over a total stranger on the internet. .... I'm just having fun insulting you.

But don't I have to feel insulted by what you're saying for your insults to work correctly? I thought that's how it worked. I don't find anything you've said so far offensive. I just think you're really weird and lonely.

[Palpatine Q]

But don't I have to feel insulted by what you're saying for your insults to work correctly? I thought that's how it worked. I don't find anything you've said so far offensive. I just think you're really weird and lonely.

I don't care what you think.
YoU're fat

[Icelord]

I don't care what you think.
YoU're fat

I think you care a lot. Witness your posts in this thread. You clearly have an axe to grind. And I think it's affecting your quality of life.

What's wrong with being fat?

[Palpatine Q]

I think you care a lot. Witness your posts in this thread. You clearly have an axe to grind. And I think it's affecting your quality of life.

What's wrong with being fat?

Witness your own posts fatass   could you try any harder ? I'm lonely,  mentally imbalanced,  a drunk, old....hahahahs

I called you fat because you are fat.  I thought it "didn't bother you".

Lololol

[Icelord]

Witness your own posts fatass   could you try any harder ? I'm lonely,  mentally imbalanced,  a drunk, old....hahahahs

I called you fat because you are fat.  I thought it "didn't bother you".

Lololol

Well, let's review my assertions and see whether they're valid or not based on your posts.

a) You never post pictures with anyone else. That combined with your negative attitude towards a significant portion of the population based on their appearance alone suggests you're probably not very good company. It's a fair inference.

b) You follow people around on an Internet board and provoke them continuously for your own obscure reasons. If your main reason for getting on the Internet is to troll people, at your age, you have questionable mental balance.

c) You've been, allegedly, arrested and convicted of drunk driving. I asked you about it and you declined to discuss it, which suggests there's a strong likelihood it happened. So it's fair to say you have or had alcohol abuse problems.

d) 50 is pretty old, man. C'mon.  

Where did I say calling me fat bothers me? I just asked you what's wrong with it. You can't give me a simple answer.

[Palpatine Q]

Well, let's review my assertions and see whether they're valid or not based on your posts.

a) You never post pictures with anyone else. That combined with your negative attitude towards a significant portion of the population based on their appearance alone suggests you're probably not very good company. It's a fair inference.

b) You follow people around on an Internet board and provoke them continuously for your own obscure reasons. If your main reason for getting on the Internet is to troll people, at your age, you have questionable mental balance.

c) You've been, allegedly, arrested and convicted of drunk driving. I asked you about it and you declined to discuss it, which suggests there's a strong likelihood it happened. So it's fair to say you have or had alcohol abuse problems.

d) 50 is pretty old, man. C'mon. 

You seem to know a lot about me.  Kinda creepy.

You're 0 for 4 though. Thing is I don't care what you think. .. and can't be bothered proving you wrong. You're fat

[Icelord]

You seem to know a lot about me.  Kinda creepy.

You're 0 for 4 though. Thing is I don't care what you think. .. and can't be bothered proving you wrong. You're fat

I don't think you know what inference means. In laymen's terms, it's deductive reasoning based on exposure to something. To go by what I've gleaned from your posts, you're lonely, aggressive to strangers, a former or current substance abuser, and prejudiced towards a large portion of the population based on appearance. If your response is that I know a lot about you, then I guess I must be right. Your continued belligerence suggests you do care quite a lot, I'm afraid.

[Tapeworm]

When a girl starts playing mind games with you and starts saying one thing and meaning another. You know. When she testing you.

Do you play along? Or do you just say "fuck this I'm not playing".

I think I am incompatable with women because of my refusal do do what they want me to do.

For supposedly emotionally savvy creatures, the women I've known are dipshits.  They don't seem to get that being a pain a man's ass will kill the man's affection on the basis that he will judge that she has no reciprocal affection for him and views him simply as a means to an endless series of ends.

Maybe it's a guy thing.  When you don't get your way you shut up and deal with it or set yourself to work toward it if it means that much.  Ime, women whine.  Shamelessly, on and on.  Eventually, I conclude we'd both be happier if she were existing elsewhere.

I'm sure not all women are this way.  I've had some doozies tho.

[Palpatine Q]

My response is I don't care what you think. .. I've only said it 5 times now.  For someone trying to come of as intelligent you really aren't doing very well...."ivan"  

[Icelord]

My response is I don't care what you think. .. I've only said it 5 times now.  For someone trying to come of as intelligent you really aren't doing very well...."ivan"  

Well, that's fine as far as it goes. You don't have to care. But your posts suggest otherwise. So I think you're being dishonest when you say that.

I'm not trying to come off as intelligent. I am intelligent. It's why I can see through your one-dimensional act on here. You're not very intimidating. But I did want to try to discern what it is that made you what you've become today. And I'm starting to think it's a mixture of smoldering resentment (at what? don't know) and an inferiority complex.

The repeated ad hominems about fatness suggests your main tool to get your point across is to attack other people on a superficial level. The thing is, when you're on the offensive you're not emotionally vulnerable. I think you're just tired of being hurt and your own way to protect your feelings is to lash out.

[Palpatine Q]

Well, that's fine as far as it goes. You don't have to care. But your posts suggest otherwise. So I think you're being dishonest when you say that.

I'm not trying to come off as intelligent. I am intelligent. It's why I can see through your one-dimensional act on here. You're not very intimidating. But I did want to try to discern what it is that made you what you've become today. And I'm starting to think it's a mixture of smoldering resentment (at what? don't know) and an inferiority complex.

The repeated ad hominems about fatness suggests your main tool to get your point across is to attack other people on a superficial level. The thing is, when you're on the offensive you're not emotionally vulnerable. I think you're just tired of being hurt and your own way to protect your feelings is to lash out.

What the fuck ever.  Monster dimestore psychoanalysis. ..you and Parker should hang out....LOL.

Jesus Christ change your tampon...hahaha

[Icelord]

What the fuck ever.  Monster dimestore psychoanalysis. ..you and Parker should hang out....LOL.

Jesus Christ change your tampon...hahaha

I'm just trying to help you out, man. You seem like a guy good in general but you have some serious issues. I'm not a fan of mainstream psychology but your case could really benefit from some professional counseling. Just for a few months, until you figure out why you're so angry. And maybe when they put you on something prescription-strength for whatever it is they find wrong with you.

[Tapeworm]

And tbh I never really understood what a 'mind game' is.  It assumes a certain level of involvement and cognition on the part of the victim.  The awesome thing about being stupid and self involved is the immunity you're afforded.  You just kinda blunder along.  Living oblivious rocks.

[Papper]

Mind games in this context is basically just being over dramatic, doing tests, causing unnecessary arguments etc.

For supposedly emotionally savvy creatures, the women I've known are dipshits.  They don't seem to get that being a pain a man's ass will kill the man's affection on the basis that he will judge that she has no reciprocal affection for him and views him simply as a means to an endless series of ends.

Maybe it's a guy thing.  When you don't get your way you shut up and deal with it or set yourself to work toward it if it means that much.  Ime, women whine.  Shamelessly, on and on.  Eventually, I conclude we'd both be happier if she were existing elsewhere.

I'm sure not all women are this way.  I've had some doozies tho.

I find it strange that in a relationship you try to argue instead of making it smooth sailing. Lose-lose.

Anyway.. Yeah. I think most are nut cases, but there are some that has treated me correct also.

[Rascal full]

I'm just trying to help you out, man. You seem like a guy good in general but you have some serious issues. I'm not a fan of mainstream psychology but your case could really benefit from some professional counseling. Just for a few months, until you figure out why you're so angry. And maybe when they put you on something prescription-strength for whatever it is they find wrong with you.

This effervescent fuck is getting a kick outta being a dick online. No big deal a lot of people do it. Particularly here.

[bigmc]

For supposedly emotionally savvy creatures, the women I've known are dipshits.  They don't seem to get that being a pain a man's ass will kill the man's affection on the basis that he will judge that she has no reciprocal affection for him and views him simply as a means to an endless series of ends.

Maybe it's a guy thing.  When you don't get your way you shut up and deal with it or set yourself to work toward it if it means that much.  Ime, women whine.  Shamelessly, on and on.  Eventually, I conclude we'd both be happier if she were existing elsewhere.

I'm sure not all women are this way.  I've had some doozies tho.

words of wisdom right here folks

lost in the cock waving contest between the mighty groink and promising rookie  icelord

[Icelord]

words of wisdom right here folks

lost in the cock waving contest between the mighty groink and promising rookie  icelord

[Tapeworm]

Mind games in this context is basically just being over dramatic, doing tests, causing unnecessary arguments etc.

I find it strange that in a relationship you try to argue instead of making it smooth sailing. Lose-lose.

Anyway.. Yeah. I think most are nut cases, but there are some that has treated me correct also.

Yeah, I'm pretty indulgent and accept that everyone has bad moods and such, but harping (for months, mind you) about a topic that has already been discussed (for months, mind you!) to the point that every conversation is like navigating a mine field?  It's a terrible strategy.  I just disconnect.
 
So you say this to her.  Point blank.  Stop already with the harping about X.  We've talked about it ad nauseum, can you puh-lease give it a rest.  So she doesn't, it increases, and eventually you say that's it.  And like clockwork:

"BUT WHYYYYY?"

Because I'm not sure which one of us is stupider, sweetie.

[Papper]

Yeah, I'm pretty indulgent and accept that everyone has bad moods and such, but harping (for months, mind you) about a topic that has already been discussed (for months, mind you!) to the point that every conversation is like navigating a mine field?  It's a terrible strategy.  I just disconnect.
 
So you say this to her.  Point blank.  Stop already with the harping about X.  We've talked about it ad nauseum, can you puh-lease give it a rest.  So she doesn't, it increases, and eventually you say that's it.  And like clockwork:

"BUT WHYYYYY?"

Because I'm not sure which one of us is stupider, sweetie.

Inevitable. I wish to go solo soon.

[Tapeworm]

Inevitable. I wish to go solo soon.

Imo be point blank about your complaints and why you feel justified in them.  Give her a chance to respond in word and deed.

Love's a delicate thing tho.  Doesn't resuscitate often.

[Primemuscle]

When a girl starts playing mind games with you and starts saying one thing and meaning another. You know. When she testing you.

Do you play along? Or do you just say "fuck this I'm not playing".

I think I am incompatable with women because of my refusal do do what they want me to do.

Women actually prefer men who don't do what they want, up to a point. Most women don't like men who are pushovers.