I understand what you mean. My point was that I'm not attracted to laziness and/or obesity. The majority of the women in my state have let themselves go because of the pc standard that "big is beautiful."
I agree, my friend. Trying to call fat, "fun" is nothing short of PC stupid. I've seen beautiful women that are curvy but not fat, but I recall the stupid skinny sixties craze that started with the so-called supermodel, "Twiggy". Gag! So thin that they looked sickly.
There is a happy medium, but that it seems rare in today's world of PC BS.
That was a goofy pun.

Again, I agree completely with you sir!