How do you Gebiggers feel about your woman and her male friends?

[Wiggs]

if she's hanging out with dudes when she doesn't have to - having a few drinks, whatever...

she's lining up what might be her next thing...  she's plan B'ing you.  Which is fine if she's young and it's just for fun.  Cause  you're doing the same thing all day long lol.

However, if she's 32 and yall are serious... and she's chilling after work, be very afraid.  You wouldn't do that to a girlfriend you wanted to be with longterm.  she shouldn't either.  Yall should be spending every minute together naked that you can.  Every minute she's high fiving some punkass from work, she ain't blowing you.

Dang bro lower your creatine.

[rooseveltdunn]

When a girl says "she prefers hanging out with guys rather than girls" or has "many male friends she regularly hangs out with.." It's usually a red flag. Girls like that tend to be selfish, untrustworthy and ultimately end up doing the very thing they swear up and down that they would not do which is hook up with one of their guy friends. I have seen it happen enough time to know it's true.

[Neptune100]

How do you feel? How do you think someone would feel?... Self explanatory...Come on man...

[tu_holmes]

I do not trust any woman with lots of male friends.

I had an ex that had "lots of male friends" and back then I didn't care... As time passed I realized that her "guy friends" of course were all trying to fuck her.

Girls who's best friends are all guys are not to be trusted. End of story.

[Henda]

The only sine men that hang out with females are either fags or trying to fuck her. No straight man desires the company of a female as a friend.
Therefore its not a good idea to have a girl with loads of male friends

[Tapeworm]

If they're not trying to fuck her they're gonna try to fuck you.  Bunch of priapic freaks running around out there.

[Bertha Butt]

You can't do anything about it.

Try to control the situation, and she'll label you a jealous cad and rebel even harder.

Best to just let it be. If she cheats, hope like hell she doesn't live with you (or she'll get half of everything) and she doesn't give you herpes.

That's about the best you can hope for.

It's called trust. If you can't trust her, then break it off.

I trust my wife, because she's responsible and respectful enough not to go hang out with other men - she knows the camarederie isn't worth the stress it'll put on the relationship. Just like I don't hang around other women...for that very same reason. What kind of woman hangs around with other men when she knows it'll tick her man off? The wrong kind of woman, that's who. Idiots stay with women like this. The ridiculous "oh I'll make him jealous" bullshit is for teenagers. If you stay with her, you have yourself to blame.

I don't need women as platonic friends. She doesn't need men as platonic friends. This is how it works for us. Some of you guys have no problems if your lady has platonic male friends...more power to you. I chose my wife, if perhaps subconsciously, because she never once exhibited a trend to need platonic male friends. Therefore, I never felt jealous or insecure; therefore, I felt completely comfortable committing to her for life.

That doesn't mean guys don't flirt with my wife. It happens to every man who's married to anyone above average in the looks dept. And I could care less if some lame douche guy flirts with my wife. As long as I do what a husband should do, she has no reason to stray. And if she yet still strays, then there will have been little I could have done about it. Such are the perils of marriage. Even if you do it right, doesn't mean the other one will.

Like I said, I trust her. I have to. I may not trust the guys around her, but I trust her not to put herself in a spot where she's going to be tempted to compromise herself and her marriage. She trusts me to do the very same. So far, so good. 

So true!

Had and have a lot of male friends, most either from university or work. I always made it very clear I already had Phreak and was not interested in anything else but a friendly drink and chat. I'm still able to say no when things start to get flirty.

[phreak]

You can't do anything about it.

Try to control the situation, and she'll label you a jealous cad and rebel even harder.

Best to just let it be. If she cheats, hope like hell she doesn't live with you (or she'll get half of everything) and she doesn't give you herpes.

That's about the best you can hope for.

It's called trust. If you can't trust her, then break it off.

I trust my wife, because she's responsible and respectful enough not to go hang out with other men - she knows the camarederie isn't worth the stress it'll put on the relationship. Just like I don't hang around other women...for that very same reason. What kind of woman hangs around with other men when she knows it'll tick her man off? The wrong kind of woman, that's who. Idiots stay with women like this. The ridiculous "oh I'll make him jealous" bullshit is for teenagers. If you stay with her, you have yourself to blame.

I don't need women as platonic friends. She doesn't need men as platonic friends. This is how it works for us. Some of you guys have no problems if your lady has platonic male friends...more power to you. I chose my wife, if perhaps subconsciously, because she never once exhibited a trend to need platonic male friends. Therefore, I never felt jealous or insecure; therefore, I felt completely comfortable committing to her for life.

That doesn't mean guys don't flirt with my wife. It happens to every man who's married to anyone above average in the looks dept. And I could care less if some lame douche guy flirts with my wife. As long as I do what a husband should do, she has no reason to stray. And if she yet still strays, then there will have been little I could have done about it. Such are the perils of marriage. Even if you do it right, doesn't mean the other one will.

Like I said, I trust her. I have to. I may not trust the guys around her, but I trust her not to put herself in a spot where she's going to be tempted to compromise herself and her marriage. She trusts me to do the very same. So far, so good. 

She mentioned this topic to me earlier this morning. I trust her fully, because like you say: what else can you do? I trust everyone until they prove undeserving of that trust. Then they have lost it permanently.

I have a lot of female colleagues, some of them I go out to dinner with (in groups). I trust myself around those as well, and so does Bertha. It helps that those women are almost always old enough to have been Wes' grandmother.

[ESFitness]

it's inappropriate as hell.

the dudes are just waiting for an opportunity to fuck the girl.. bottom line. it's true for dudes in relationships, and ESPECIALLY true for her friends who are single.

if the opportunity presents itself, and he's drunk or she's drunk, or they're both drunk or whatever, something will happen.. maybe not sex, maybe just a kiss, maybe a hand down her pants... whatever... it'll happen sometime...

... and when you find out about it, you'll never trust her again and the relationship is forever tainted.

if she knows you're not cool with it, especially when you explain to her WHY... and she refuses to do anything about it, you gotta leave her because she knows what's gonna happen as well and she doesn't wanna stop it. she's putting her 'relationship' with her friends (dudes that will talk down to her about you in a heartbeat) ahead of her actually relationship with you.

a girl like that doesn't deserve your time. find a girl that's respectable and who respects you.

[Grape Ape]

As long as I do what a husband should do, she has no reason to stray.

True - it's on us.  But sometimes the pressure of keeping the softball average above .650 and the Call of Duty kill/death ratio above 1.6 can wear on you.   

But, I guess if it keeps her around, it's worth it.

[King Shizzo]

Women don't have male friends (especially attractive ones) unless they have already either slept with them, or thought about it.

Same goes with female friends for a guy.  That shit may work as a teenager, but it starts getting weird in the late 20's early 30's....  By then, the friends should be mutual.

[Mr Anabolic]

You cannot control someone.  People are going to do what they're going to do.  She can have all the male friends she wants... if she's going to leave you for one of them, you cannot do a fucking thing about it.

Most woman (not all) play head games and like seeing you get jealous, possessive and even angry.  I've observed that the more you push them away, the more apathetic you are towards them, the more they want to be with you. 

It goes both ways... the more women you have around, the tighter she'll hold on to you.

[wolfrittner]

Mine doesn't have any male friends. Plenty of females thou. But if she would have , i really wouldn't care.
I trust her and I think that's the key about a relationship.

[Bertha Butt]

I have a lot of female colleagues, some of them I go out to dinner with (in groups). I trust myself around those as well, and so does Bertha. It helps that those women are almost always old enough to have been Wes' grandmother.

I know you're much pickier than that! Though, you are a cougar magnet.

As if you would hump anything and everything slightly resembling something female. 

[Alucard]

Had a bad experience with friends of my girl, but i will not release details... I personally never liked going out with girl and friends, if we go out we stay together, i want to fully give myself to her, and i feel that she should do the same... There is a time for friends and a time for girlfriend, that's it for me...

[wolfrittner]

I really straightened up after you gave me that roundhouse kick to the face. 

[wolfrittner]

My partner went out to dinner with a male friend and she was late back , I noticed the tab on her dress was on the outside, imagine how dumb she felt when i pointed out that she had been wearing her dress inside out the entire night.

[Palpatine Q]

Mine doesn't have any male friends. Plenty of females thou. But if she would have , i really wouldn't care.
I trust her and I think that's the key about a relationship.

Has nothing to do with trust.  It's about appropriate behavior in a committed relationship.

Hanging out with other men is a no-go

[bigmc]

if a man had been friend zoned by a woman

he is probably too beta too worry about anyway

[phreak]

I'd like to think a .650 avg is enough to keep any red blooded female tied to my hip.

How many of those slack jawed mouth breathers out there hit for the cycle last week in "A" ball? Not many, that's what. But I did. And I told her about it.

I could tell she was feigning indifference when I told her when she rolled her eyes. What her heart was saying, was literally, "my god, I'm so lucky to have such an adonis as my husband. I must remember to cook him a steak tomorrow and let him sleep in and stare at him in the shower and let him see me staring as I lick my lips. I'm relatively sure Susie down the street is going to try to steal my man. And that bitch better not try, or I'll put my fist so far up her ass she's going to taste my nail polish. Now, where's that thong I keep for Tuesday night's weekly scheduled romp session? I'm wearning that bizzatch on a Monday and I'm going to surprise my big norse-god-like man. My god I'm so hot for him. I'm calling mom and dad...they're taking the kids tonight. I don't even care if he showers and brushes his teeth before coming to bed. He's getting it."

Yep, pretty sure that's what she was thinking. I'll report back tomorrow morning to let you all know that this is how it played out tonight. I'm sure of it.

Exactly what happened to me last night. Only he didn't come home.

[_aj_]

My wife has an ex-BF as a "facebook friend" 

300+ pounds, fat as fuck, epic 13" fatceps. Clearly let himself go.

Let's just say that she's not unhappy with her choices.

[tom joad]

My wife doesn't have any really close friends.  For her, it's all about Family ... namely, me ... plus her mom, brother and niece (when she's in Colombia.) That's who she wants to spend all her time with.  She grew up in Medellin where the girls tend to be very competitive in "out-barbie dolling" each other for the affection of the most desirable guys.  Hard to make real long term friends in that plastic environment. As a real natural beauty, it's easy for me to see how many chicks down there are jealous of her.  (Oh, and she has no need nor interest in having guy friends.)

[TEH boob]

My partner went out to dinner with a male friend and she was late back , I noticed the tab on her dress was on the outside, imagine how dumb she felt when i pointed out that she had been wearing her dress inside out the entire night.

 

[TEH boob]

Snx you need to win the husband of the year award. Your devotion comes through in your posts, it's admirable

[Wiggs]

Why do you women think it's ok to have guy friends and hang out occasionally when you have a boyfriend? This is not normal behavior. Hell, this wouldn't have been acceptable even 20 years ago. You broads need to be tamed or thrown in the lions den. What we have is a rotten batch of bitches.

The guys that allow this are even bigger bitches.