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Back on POF need advice from the pros
« on: June 04, 2014, 03:22:21 PM »
Well getbig im back on POF its been a few years but im ready to start smashing some hoes again, Im a bit rusty anyone have any good pick up lines or advice that seem to work out well?

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #1 on: June 04, 2014, 03:24:08 PM »
Numbers game like anything really. Throw out lots of messages and make them a bit more creative than...'Hey'.

Good pictures help too.

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #2 on: June 04, 2014, 03:24:29 PM »
Glute shots, especially the one where you had a bad reaction to some gear. Pussy magnet.

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #3 on: June 04, 2014, 03:29:24 PM »
Be an attractive young woman. Everybody will contact you

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #4 on: June 04, 2014, 03:30:05 PM »
Be an attractive young woman. Everybody will contact you

Is that your experience?

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #5 on: June 04, 2014, 03:33:34 PM »
Glute shots, especially the one where you had a bad reaction to some gear. Pussy magnet.


hahah yes! FTW!

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #6 on: June 04, 2014, 03:36:38 PM »
Is that your experience?

I got tons of attention, but no, I was a 6.5 when I did that stuff. I was curvy/thick, now I'm petite/relatively curvy. So I was good looking but not intimidatingly so. I also had a very detailed profile and I was cocky as hell.

So navymike, just be cocky as hell (but very polite and considerate). Go into every date with the attitude that "everybody wants me" (but with respect/sense of equality between you and the other person)....and everybody will want you.

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #7 on: June 04, 2014, 03:42:13 PM »
Just take some artsy fartsy pics where you're chilling out on drugs, not sterons, and opening up to the universe - women will sense immediate "whoa, laid back(door) artist" flair - do not forget your to take your guitar to the first date.
or...
you could be a gangster - wear some clothes from your nephew and take pictures with random strippers... immediate street cred and lots of bones to pick.
or...
say you're into Bodybuilding, filling sleeves, pushing the limit, raw vegetables and aminos. - ripe men looking for a session will be overjoyed.

Lots of roads to Rome.

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #8 on: June 04, 2014, 03:45:49 PM »
Just take some artsy fartsy pics where you're chilling out on drugs, not sterons, and opening up to the universe - women will sense immediate "whoa, laid back(door) artist" flair - do not forget your to take your guitar to the first date.
or...
you could be a gangster - wear some clothes from your nephew and take pictures with random strippers... immediate street cred and lots of bones to pick.
or...
say you're into Bodybuilding, filling sleeves, pushing the limit, raw vegetables and aminos. - ripe men looking for a session will be overjoyed.

Lots of roads to Rome.


The sarcsam on this site! hahaha

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #9 on: June 04, 2014, 03:46:16 PM »
I got tons of attention, but no, I was a 6.5 when I did that stuff. I was curvy/thick, now I'm petite/relatively curvy. So I was good looking but not intimidatingly so. I also had a very detailed profile and I was cocky as hell.

So navymike, just be cocky as hell (but very polite and considerate). Go into every date with the attitude that "everybody wants me" (but with respect/sense of equality between you and the other person)....and everybody will want you.

6.5? Quite tall! Almost as tall as Johnny Falcon at 6'6"

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #10 on: June 04, 2014, 03:48:46 PM »
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=58740824

I went pretty smartass with my profile and i wasnt going to put contest pics up until i searched what my competition was and every one was some dumpy dude in a mirror trying to show off abs he didnt have

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #11 on: June 04, 2014, 03:49:30 PM »
6.5? Quite tall! Almost as tall as Johnny Falcon at 6'6"

rofl no I meant 6.5/10
I'm short

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #12 on: June 04, 2014, 03:50:13 PM »
While you're still rocking the gains from the show, get a pic of you shirtless casually playing with your dog in the park. Don't have a dog? Borrow one. Any kind of Lab is great. Call him/her "your wingman".

If you have any hair left after the cycles, make sure to NOT wear a hat.

Muscles + hair + dog + outdoorsy + humor == some quality opening conversations.

You're welcome.

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #13 on: June 04, 2014, 03:50:35 PM »
I got tons of attention, but no, I was a 6.5 when I did that stuff. I was curvy/thick, now I'm petite/relatively curvy. So I was good looking but not intimidatingly so. I also had a very detailed profile and I was cocky as hell.

So navymike, just be cocky as hell (but very polite and considerate). Go into every date with the attitude that "everybody wants me" (but with respect/sense of equality between you and the other person)....and everybody will want you.

Chicks throw this shit around way too much. It's like a dude chalking up rejection to "lesbian."

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #14 on: June 04, 2014, 03:50:46 PM »
rofl no I meant 6.5/10
I'm short
Was going to say 6 5 that is a monstrous bitch

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« Reply #15 on: June 04, 2014, 03:51:20 PM »
I got tons of attention, but no, I was a 6.5 when I did that stuff. I was curvy/thick, now I'm petite/relatively curvy. So I was good looking but not intimidatingly so. I also had a very detailed profile and I was cocky as hell.

So navymike, just be cocky as hell (but very polite and considerate). Go into every date with the attitude that "everybody wants me" (but with respect/sense of equality between you and the other person)....and everybody will want you.

Curvy/Thick? Got any pics of the old days?

6.5 is a Monstrous Bitch

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #16 on: June 04, 2014, 03:52:06 PM »
Chicks throw this shit around way too much. It's like a dude chalking up rejection to "lesbian."


Yeah, LOL at a dude being "intimidated" by a dime on a dating site  ::)

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #17 on: June 04, 2014, 03:52:35 PM »
While you're still rocking the gains from the show, get a pic of you shirtless casually playing with your dog in the park. Don't have a dog? Borrow one. Any kind of Lab is great. Call him/her "your wingman".

If you have any hair left after the cycles, make sure to NOT wear a hat.

Muscles + hair + dog + outdoorsy + humor == some quality opening conversations.

You're welcome.
That's is really good advice actually

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #18 on: June 04, 2014, 03:52:53 PM »
Chicks throw this shit around way too much. It's like a dude chalking up rejection to "lesbian."


I said I was NOT intimidatingly good looking. Meaning that I wasn't good looking enough that people would think I was "too good" for them. It wasn't an excuse for a lack of attention, it was the reason why I was getting so much. I was "attainable"

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #19 on: June 04, 2014, 03:56:49 PM »
Mike,

*crickets*

buy a nice shirt.

Don't flaunt your goods too much, let the chicks be the attraction... do not enter their territory.
Also the Mac Donald's shit in the picture is retarded.
The rest will fall into place... just smile and remember
tender poon is the new ChickenMcNuggets.

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #20 on: June 04, 2014, 03:58:09 PM »
Mike,

*crickets*

buy a nice shirt.

Don't flaunt your goods too much, let the chicks be the attraction... do not enter their territory.
Also the Mac Donald's shit in the picture is retarded.
The rest will fall into place... just smile and remember
tender poon is the new ChickenMcNuggets.



Roger that thank you, Im honestly looking for advice. so thank you

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #21 on: June 04, 2014, 03:58:58 PM »
profile looks good. fill out your tests, bitches love that shit.

I might suggest removing your competition pictures. Bodybuilding won't be a mutual interest between you and another woman, and it makes you look like a dumb meathead (sorry, stereotypes exist). Cooking healthy meals for her will impress her, etc. (still bbing related, but not "stupid meathead"-esque)

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #22 on: June 04, 2014, 04:09:36 PM »
Way too many shirtless photos....

The rule of thumb is 1-2 face shots, 1 photo of your full body wearing something kinda nice yet flattering, 1 "action" shot.  

Maybe squeeze in a shirtless photo of you at the beach with friends.  MAYBE.  Nix the bodybuilding photos, everybody has a negative impression of bodybuilders.

EDIT: Pare down your profile message by 50-75% also

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #23 on: June 04, 2014, 04:09:58 PM »
I said I was NOT intimidatingly good looking. Meaning that I wasn't good looking enough that people would think I was "too good" for them. It wasn't an excuse for a lack of attention, it was the reason why I was getting so much. I was "attainable"

Sorry, not really attacking you so much. But the word really shouldn't even be in your vocabulary. Any guy capable of being intimidated by a chick isn't worth having.

But usually girls just use it to rationalize failure.

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Re: Back on POF need advice from the pros
« Reply #24 on: June 04, 2014, 04:12:35 PM »
Way too many shirtless photos....

The rule of thumb is 1-2 face shots, 1 photo of your full body wearing something kinda nice yet flattering, 1 "action" shot.  

Maybe squeeze in a shirtless photo of you at the beach with friends.  MAYBE.  Nix the bodybuilding photos, everybody has a negative impression of bodybuilders.

EDIT: Pare down your profile message by 50-75% also

I think i may just need a day where i just go around san diego and take some douche shots of me at the beach then a wine bar then wrap it up at a art gallery